Ramia delves into the reality that the majority of us are not taking control of our destinies. We often neglect the work that needs to be done and drown ourselves in the distractions of the day. Instead of taking up the mantle we defer blame to our bosses, kids, the government, just about anything else except ourselves. Ramia challenges us to stop wasting our very finite lives looking on the lives of others, envying the lives of other, but never deciding the life we want or doing the work required to get it.