We explore how to stop having the same fight. Greg Stevens shares how repairing 36 past relationships taught him that insight only matters when it becomes a habit.• why repeated arguments persist without a foundation• how psychological safety unlocks hard conversations• mutual respect and mutual purpose as safety levers• using clarifying questions to reach the real hurt• defining respect and setting repair agreements• rapid cleanup with the “stained carpet” mindset• shifting from nice to effective truth-telling• work skills that improve home relationships• men and women as different operating systems• production vs attraction as a useful lensIf you love this episode be sure to tell your friends about it and rate it as wellSend us Fan MailSupport the showThanks for listening!Check out this site for everthing to know about women's pleasure including video tutorials and great suggestions for bedroom time!!https://for-goodness-sake-omgyes.sjv.io/c/5059274/1463336/17315Take the happiness quiz from Oprah and Arthur Brooks here: https://arthurbrooks.com/buildNEW: Subscribe monthly: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1805181/support Email  questions/comments/feeback to [email protected] Website: https://straightfromthesourcesmouthpod.net/Instagram: @fromthesourcesmouth_franktalkTwitter: @tamarapodcastYouTube and IG: Tamara_Schoon_comicWant to be a guest on Straight from the Source's Mouth: Frank Talk about Sex and Dating? Send Tamara Schoon a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17508659438808322af9d2077