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LOVERS by shan
LOVERS by shan

LOVERS by shan

LOVERS by shan

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Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right. Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away. When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.

Recent Episodes

S2 Ep112: They Liked You More When You Had No Boundaries ft Jessie Reyez
MAR 26, 2025
S2 Ep112: They Liked You More When You Had No Boundaries ft Jessie Reyez
<div>Jessie Reyez joins the podcast to celebrate her new album, Paid in Memories and to dive into the complexities of boundaries and self-respect. Together, we unpack what it means to be labeled a "villain" (by both yourself and others) for setting boundaries and standing firm in your self-worth. Jessie shares her personal journey of choosing to stay single rather than settling for less in love, reflecting on the regret of taking too much accountability in her past relationship, and embracing her love language—having her alone time respected.<br> <br> We also talk about her upcoming album, Paid in Memories, which promises to be a raw and powerful exploration of love, loss, and acceptance. Don’t miss this candid and inspiring conversation that’s all about choosing yourself, even when it’s hard because self-respect is never up for negotiation.<br> <br> <strong><br> Thank You Bumble<br> </strong> This episode of <em>Lovers and Friends</em> is presented by <strong>Bumble</strong>, where dating your way is always the right way. There’s a world where you can find love that works for you. So date now, on Bumble.<br> <br> <strong><br> Thank You Jessie Reyez<br> </strong><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jessiereyez/">https://www.instagram.com/jessiereyez/<br> </a><a href="https://www.jessiereyez.com">Listen to Jessie’s latest music<br> </a><br> <strong><br> Join My Mailing List<br> </strong><a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter">https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter<br> </a><br> <strong>Lovers Community<br> </strong>If you’re interested in joining the <em>Lovers</em> community, click here to join the waitlist:<br> <a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/community">https://www.loversbyshan.com/community</a> </div>
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44 MIN
S2 Ep111: For Women Terrified of Being 30+, Single, and Career-Driven featuring @Deepica
MAR 19, 2025
S2 Ep111: For Women Terrified of Being 30+, Single, and Career-Driven featuring @Deepica
<div>In this episode of Lovers and Friends, Shan Boodram sits down with Deepica Mutyala, founder of Live Tinted and a trailblazing entrepreneur, for an honest and empowering conversation about being single, thriving in your 30s, and preparing for the love and family you deserve. Deepica shares her journey of building a successful career while staying true to her dreams of finding the right partner and creating a family. Together, Shan and Deepica discuss the challenges of dating when you’re successful, the importance of not settling, and how to embrace being single as a time to grow, reflect, and prepare for the life you truly want. Whether you’re navigating the dating world, focusing on self-growth, or manifesting your dream relationship, this episode will leave you inspired and ready to take on love and life with intention.<br> <br> <strong>Thank you Bumble</strong><br> This episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.<br> <br> <strong>Thank you Deepica</strong><br> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/deepica">https://www.instagram.com/deepica</a><br> Get Live Tinted<br> <em><a href="https://www.livetinted.com/">https://www.livetinted.com/</a></em><br> <br> <strong>Join My Mailing List</strong><br> <a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter">https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter</a><br> <br> <strong>Lovers Community</strong><br> If you’re interested in joining the Lovers community click here to join the waitlist<br> <a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/community">https://www.loversbyshan.com/community</a><br> <br> </div>
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41 MIN
S2 Ep110: Lena Waithe: Don’t Have Sex With Someone If You Both Can’t Do THIS
MAR 12, 2025
S2 Ep110: Lena Waithe: Don’t Have Sex With Someone If You Both Can’t Do THIS
<div> <br> Lena Waithe on Cuddling Over Climaxing<br> In this episode of <em>Lovers and Friends</em>, Shan Boodram sits down with Emmy-winning writer, producer, and actress Lena Waithe (<em>Queen &amp; Slim</em>, <em>Master of None</em>, <em>The Chi</em>) for an eye-opening conversation about intimacy, love, and meaningful connections. Lena shares why you should never have sex with someone unless you can imagine a positive aftermath for both of you. She dives into how cuddling can create a deeper emotional bond than sex, especially when the future of a relationship feels uncertain. Lena also opens up about the power of plutonic relationships, revealing why some of her most impactful connections today are non-romantic. With all of the rumors about her love life, Lena sets the record straight and shares what truly matters to her in building authentic connections. This episode will challenge your views on love, intimacy, and boundaries in ways you won’t want to miss!<br> <br> <strong>Thank you Bumble</strong><br> This episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.<br> <br> <strong>Thank you Lena</strong><br> <a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter">https://www.instagram.com/lenawaithe/</a><br> Legacy Talk Podcast<br> <a href="https://lemonada.lnk.to/LegacyTalkWithLenaWaithehs?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZR0rgZOhMXnR_1HkQjiKfKa5_UUPHcXYlKFCmzjhKgXdje2qDlp8lbhmg_aem_wULmegwSQB8ct8zEmMkQfg"><em><a href="https://lemonada.lnk.to/LegacyTalkWithLenaWaithehs?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZR0rgZOhMXnR_1HkQjiKfKa5_UUPHcXYlKFCmzjhKgXdje2qDlp8lbhmg_aem_wULmegwSQB8ct8zEmMkQfg">https://lemonada.lnk.to/LegacyTalkWithLenaWaithehs?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZR0rgZOhMXnR_1HkQjiKfKa5_UUPHcXYlKFCmzjhKgXdje2qDlp8lbhmg_aem_wULmegwSQB8ct8zEmMkQfg</a></em></a><br> <br> <strong>Join My Mailing List</strong><br> <a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter">https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter</a><br> <br> <strong>Lovers Community</strong><br> If you’re interested in joining the Lovers community click here to join the waitlist<br> <a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/community">https://www.loversbyshan.com/community</a><br> <br> <br> </div>
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52 MIN
S2 Ep109: Inner Child Meets Modern Parent: Tika Sumpter on Doing Sex Ed Different
MAR 5, 2025
S2 Ep109: Inner Child Meets Modern Parent: Tika Sumpter on Doing Sex Ed Different
<div>What kind of relationship with sex do we want young people to have? In this episode myself and Tika Sumpter, known for her multifaceted career as an actor and creator, explore this question as parents and as people reparenting themselves. In this episode Tika shares her compelling personal story that shaped her approach to intimacy and education. Growing up in a Christian household, discussions about sex were often avoided or framed solely around negative consequences. This instilled fear and confusion about her own sexuality during her teenage years. In her twenties, Tika found herself navigating relationships without a clear understanding of her body or pleasure, often pretending to have a sexual IQ she hadn't yet developed. Therapy became a turning point, helping her reconnect with herself and embrace her sexual identity.<br> <br> Now, as a mother, Tika is determined to break this cycle for her daughter. On this episode, she opens up about her journey and shares how she is redefining sex and intimacy education in her household. Her goal is to raise her daughter to be a sexually and relationally competent individual, equipped with the tools and knowledge Tika wishes she had earlier in life.<br> <br> Tika is best known for her work on screen but did you know she also makes children’s content? She is the creator of <em>The Adventures of Curious Cove</em>, a podcast anchored by the beloved series <em>Ella the Curious</em>. This project reflects her passion for storytelling and education, making complex topics accessible and engaging for young audiences.<br> <br> <strong>Thank you Bumble</strong><br> This episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.<br> <br> <strong>Thank you Tika<br> </strong>Preorder Tika's upcoming book!<br> <a href="https://tinyurl.com/I-Got-It-From-My-Mama-Book">https://tinyurl.com/I-Got-It-From-My-Mama-Book</a><br> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tikasumpter">https://www.instagram.com/tikasumpter</a><br> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/adventures-of-curiosity-cove/id1760587303"><em><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/adventures-of-curiosity-cove/id1760587303">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/adventures-of-curiosity-cove/id1760587303</a></em></a><br> <br> <strong>Age by Age Sexual Development Guide</strong><br> As per Tika’s request…<br> <a href="http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes">loversbyshan.com/quizzes</a><br> <br> <strong>Join My Mailing List</strong><br> <a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter">https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter</a><br> <br> <strong>Lovers Community</strong><br> If you’re interested in joining the Lovers community click here to join the waitlist<br> <a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/community">https://www.loversbyshan.com/community</a><br> <br> </div>
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44 MIN
S2 Ep108: Singer Mario: Mother Wounds, Healing His Feminine, and Apologizing to Women
FEB 26, 2025
S2 Ep108: Singer Mario: Mother Wounds, Healing His Feminine, and Apologizing to Women
<div>In this deeply personal episode presented by Bumble, singer Mario opens up about the profound impact of unresolved trauma stemming from his relationship with his mother. He shares how this pain shaped his early behavior towards women, leading to manipulation and broken connections. Mario takes us on his journey of self-reflection, healing, and ultimately embracing his inner feminine energy—a process that not only reshaped his relationships but also elevated his personal growth and artistry.<br> <br> As Mario gets real about accountability, self-love, and the power of healing, he also introduces us to his latest album, "Glad You Came"—a soulful and vulnerable collection of music inspired by his life experiences and growth. Tune in for an honest, thought-provoking conversation that dives into the intersections of trauma, love, and creativity.<br> <br> Don't miss this inspiring episode and be sure to check out Mario's new album, "Glad You Came," now streaming on all platforms!<br> <br> <strong>Thank you Bumble</strong><br> This episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.<br> <br> <strong>Thank you Mario</strong><br> <a href="http://instagram.com/marioworldwide">Instagram.com/marioworldwide</a><em> </em><br> <em>Glad You Came, </em>streaming everywhere you listen to music<br> <br> <strong>Thank you Arya</strong><br> A couples subscription service that helps you spice it up with the help of an intimacy concierge, an app and products delivered to your door<br> <a href="https://www.arya.fyi/shan">https://www.arya.fyi/shan</a><br> <br> <strong>My class on MasterClass</strong><br> If you’d like tangible tips for improving your relationship with sex AND your sex appeal. I HIGHLY recommend checking out my class on MasterClass the Art of Sex Appeal<br> <a href="http://masterclass.com/shan">masterclass.com/shan</a><br> <br> <strong>Join My Mailing List</strong><br> <a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter">https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter</a><br> <br> <strong>Lovers Community</strong><br> If you’re interested in joining the Lovers community click here to join the waitlist<br> <a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/community">https://www.loversbyshan.com/community</a><br> <br> </div>
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52 MIN