In Part 2, we leave the “organic” dates behind and dive into Turner’s first years of online dating. That means profiles, one-and-done coffee meetups, and learning about the stereotypical Three-Date Rule.Turner and I talk through the patterns he began to see: the job-interview dates, the “Daddy interview,” the woman whose dogs were better than any man, and how all of that slowly pushed him to a clearer filter for who was really a fit.From there, we step into his first year-long relationship in midlife — what drew him in, why it felt promising, and how he realized he didn’t want to go back to full-on parenting again. If you’re a Boomer or Gen Xer who’s newly single, this episode gives you a realistic picture of what those first years online can look like, and how to start making better choices with clearer boundaries.In this episode, listeners will learn:How Turner eased into online dating (starting with eHarmony) and what he actually put in his first profiles.Why a simple detail like “ballroom dancing” changed the quality of matches he attracted.How he began to recognize patterns in a long string of one-and-done coffee dates. What the “Daddy interview” and the “my dogs are better than any man” doctor revealed about hidden agendas on dating apps.How his first serious, year-long relationship (Emily) started, what felt right, and where incompatibilities around kids and life stage started to show.Why midlife daters often discover they don’t want to go back to full-time parenting, even when the chemistry is good.Concrete examples of how to recognize when a relationship is good but not right — and how to walk away without feeling like you failed.About Turner Grant:From the Book's Back Cover:Two Years after the Unexpected death of his wife, Turner Grant was ready to consider love once more. Yet everything changed, and he soon found himself adrift in the digital-dating world.At age fifty-one, Turner Grant became a widower and single parent to his twin boys. Deep in grief, he often found daily routines difficult and his work arduous. But after two years,Turner embarked on a journey to find his future, both in life and love.What Turner discovered shocked him. After tentative steps into the shallow dating waters, he was quickly immersed in a deep ocean filled with unexpected riptides and crosscurrents within a digital-dating universe that didn’t exist when he last dated decades earlier.In three years, he met fifty-four single, middle-aged women who took him to a totally different world—Venus. It was a journey—a journey that’s, well … complicated.Website: https://tovenusandback.com/Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BKS8GQHQ/ About The Midlife Dating Podcast / 50 Dates at 50Paul Nelson is the host of the Midlife Dating Podcast and creator of the 50 Dates at 50 website. Helping Gen X and Baby Boomer singles learn to date smart, enjoy the process, and move from right swipe to real-life meetups with frameworks like the 3-1-1 Rule and Right Swipe Discipline.Learn more and grab resources at 50 Dates at 50 – https://50datesat50.com/Questions, Comments, or Podcast Topic Suggestions: [email protected]