Send us Fan MailLeading like you’re meant to be “on” at the same level every day sounds disciplined, ambitious, even admirable. For a lot of women, it is also the fastest route to burnout. I’m joined by Lani Gonzales, a clinical hypnotherapist, former attorney, and subconscious performance expert, to name the uncomfortable truth out loud: women are not small men, and copying a masculine model of power can quietly disconnect us from joy, pleasure, and ourselves.We dig into what Lani calls the difference between operating from force and operating from power, then get practical about what power actually draws on. We talk about emotions as information rather than a problem to suppress, the body as a data source you can lead with, and intuition as rapid pattern intelligence rather than something “woo”. Lani also explains interoception and why tuning into internal signals can support clearer, faster decisions, especially for high achievers navigating leadership pressure.From there, we widen the lens to ethical leadership, compassion, and empathy in a workplace shaped by technology and AI, where treating people like machines simply does not hold up. We also explore Reiki and energy healing as a supportive foundation, while being honest about what creates lasting change: shifting subconscious patterns, healing old trauma responses, and changing behaviour, not just chasing a momentary reset.If any of this hits home, listen, share it with a friend who needs it, and subscribe. After you’ve listened, leave a review and tell me: where do you feel the difference between force and real power in your own life?Lani Gonzaleshttps://lanigonzales.comBooks - Rebirth of a Sage and MetanoiaMusic from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/sky-toes/featherlightLicense code: ZTXJPK8BA5WMLKSF My new novel The Red Magus has recently been published in conjunction with the Unbound Press.  An entralling mystical adventure set across time and space, where past and current lives converge.  Find it on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. A call to action to help us keep spreading the spiritual ripple xxSupport the showBe a Compassion Crusader!Please like, share and subscribe!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1827829/supporters/newSubscribing to the podcast opens additional episodes with meditations, exercises, concepts and ideas from Freedom of the Soul.  Find your Soul purpose for only a few pounds a month. Click on the link below:-https://www.buzzsprout.com/1827829/subscribeNatasha Joy Pricewww.dandeliontherapies.co.ukFacebook - Dandelion TherapiesInstagram - natashajoyprice Books:-Freedom of the Soul - available on Amazon UK The Red Magus - available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble.