<description>&lt;p&gt;God knows I am no fundraiser. Actually, neither is my guest, Erin McQuade-Wright — at least, not anymore. Erin used to be a fundraiser for non-profits and even has a podcast called &lt;a target="_blank" href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-podcasts-trailers-for-new-and-noteworthy-shows/id1678032422"&gt;The Brave and Balanced Fundraiser&lt;/a&gt; (which shares psychodynamic wisdom on how to survive that difficult job). But now she’s a coach who helps people of all types live vital lives. (Her company is called &lt;a target="_blank" href="https://www.vitalistcoaching.com"&gt;Vitalist Coaching&lt;/a&gt;.) In this episode, Erin and I talk about our areas of overlap (hint: it’s a large region) and revel in our delight in talking about emotion work, healthy relationships, and the wisdom of psychodynamics.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Listen now on &lt;/em&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/teaching-through-emotions/id1589863153"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Apple Podcasts&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;, &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1SHSUCix3g2TVeAUXlSFfg"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Spotify&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;em&gt;, or &lt;/em&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="https://pod.link/1589863153"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;wherever you get your podcasts&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We discuss&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* &lt;strong&gt;Personality Types:&lt;/strong&gt; Enneagrams and their usefulness in learning about ourselves&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* &lt;strong&gt;Somatic Knowing:&lt;/strong&gt; Brain vs. body knowledge and the half-life of an emotion&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* &lt;strong&gt;Emotional Lives:&lt;/strong&gt; How much emotion is allowed in a classroom? How can we manage big emotions? How can we turn difficult feelings into freedom and space to be real?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* &lt;strong&gt;Definition of Self-Care:&lt;/strong&gt; How dealing with negative emotions helps us fill up so we can be present and resilient&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* &lt;strong&gt;Nourishment Barriers:&lt;/strong&gt; How are you resistant to joy and why is that bad for you?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* &lt;strong&gt;How Does Burnout Work for You?&lt;/strong&gt; Are you singing the burnout song with a chorus of colleagues? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Connect &amp; Share&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Got a story to share?&lt;/strong&gt; How are you managing your emotions at this point in the school year? I’d love to hear! Leave me a voicemail at &lt;strong&gt;(413) 239-4158&lt;/strong&gt; and we might feature your perspective in a future episode!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Or send me an email! &lt;a target="_blank" href="mailto:betsy@teachingthroughemotions.com"&gt;betsy@teachingthroughemotions.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Support the Show:&lt;/strong&gt; If this conversation resonated, please consider leaving a rating or review on your podcast app. Your feedback helps others find us.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Get full access to the community:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;a target="_blank" href="https://www.teachingthroughemotions.com/subscribe"&gt;www.teachingthroughemotions.com/subscribe&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;External links&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-descriptions/"&gt;Enneagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="https://www.heartmath.org"&gt;HeartMath Institute&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="https://www.vitalistcoaching.com"&gt;Vitalist Coaching&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Teaching through Emotions is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit &lt;a href="https://www.teachingthroughemotions.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&amp;#38;utm_campaign=CTA_2"&gt;www.teachingthroughemotions.com/subscribe&lt;/a&gt;</description>

Teaching through Emotions: psychological strategies and resources for educators

Betsy Burris, PhD, MSW - Psychodynamic Coach & Education Expert

Resistant to Joy? How to welcome and transform negative emotions

MAY 28, 202682 MIN
Teaching through Emotions: psychological strategies and resources for educators

Resistant to Joy? How to welcome and transform negative emotions

MAY 28, 202682 MIN

Description

<p>God knows I am no fundraiser. Actually, neither is my guest, Erin McQuade-Wright — at least, not anymore. Erin used to be a fundraiser for non-profits and even has a podcast called <a target="_blank" href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-podcasts-trailers-for-new-and-noteworthy-shows/id1678032422">The Brave and Balanced Fundraiser</a> (which shares psychodynamic wisdom on how to survive that difficult job). But now she’s a coach who helps people of all types live vital lives. (Her company is called <a target="_blank" href="https://www.vitalistcoaching.com">Vitalist Coaching</a>.) In this episode, Erin and I talk about our areas of overlap (hint: it’s a large region) and revel in our delight in talking about emotion work, healthy relationships, and the wisdom of psychodynamics.</p><p><em>Listen now on </em><a target="_blank" href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/teaching-through-emotions/id1589863153"><strong><em>Apple Podcasts</em></strong></a><strong><em>, </em></strong><a target="_blank" href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1SHSUCix3g2TVeAUXlSFfg"><strong><em>Spotify</em></strong></a><em>, or </em><a target="_blank" href="https://pod.link/1589863153"><strong><em>wherever you get your podcasts</em></strong></a><strong><em>.</em></strong></p><p>We discuss</p><p>* <strong>Personality Types:</strong> Enneagrams and their usefulness in learning about ourselves</p><p>* <strong>Somatic Knowing:</strong> Brain vs. body knowledge and the half-life of an emotion</p><p>* <strong>Emotional Lives:</strong> How much emotion is allowed in a classroom? How can we manage big emotions? How can we turn difficult feelings into freedom and space to be real?</p><p>* <strong>Definition of Self-Care:</strong> How dealing with negative emotions helps us fill up so we can be present and resilient</p><p>* <strong>Nourishment Barriers:</strong> How are you resistant to joy and why is that bad for you?</p><p>* <strong>How Does Burnout Work for You?</strong> Are you singing the burnout song with a chorus of colleagues? </p><p><strong>Connect & Share</strong></p><p><strong>Got a story to share?</strong> How are you managing your emotions at this point in the school year? I’d love to hear! Leave me a voicemail at <strong>(413) 239-4158</strong> and we might feature your perspective in a future episode!</p><p>Or send me an email! <a target="_blank" href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p><p><strong>Support the Show:</strong> If this conversation resonated, please consider leaving a rating or review on your podcast app. Your feedback helps others find us.</p><p><strong>Get full access to the community:</strong> <a target="_blank" href="https://www.teachingthroughemotions.com/subscribe">www.teachingthroughemotions.com/subscribe</a> </p><p>External links</p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-descriptions/">Enneagram</a></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.heartmath.org">HeartMath Institute</a></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.vitalistcoaching.com">Vitalist Coaching</a></p><p><p>Teaching through Emotions is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></p> <br/><br/>This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit <a href="https://www.teachingthroughemotions.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_2">www.teachingthroughemotions.com/subscribe</a>