<p>Hello again, fupas!! In this episode, the fatties share their dream ice creams and explore the pronunciation possibilities of different nuts. Then we pivot to a column from Dear Prudence about kink and the complexities of grappling with ~parental worries~ or external involvement in our romantic relationships. We get into fetishism, gaining, “pleasure politics”, edtwitter, autonomy, and, as always, desire. Grab a sundae and get into the first part of our conversation about fat kink.&nbsp;</p> <p>P.S. We recorded this months ago before we got our audio sorted out. Sorry for any hiccups!<span class= "Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;</span></p> <p>P.P.S Say hello to the many pets in the background of this episode!</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>This episode's advice column:&nbsp;<a href= "https://slate.com/human-interest/2023/01/dear-prudence-kink-concern.html">Help! My Parents Seem Intent on Forcing Me to Reveal My Kink.</a></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Media mentioned:<span class= "Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;</span></p> <p><a href= "https://nyupress.org/9781479827466/the-color-of-kink/">The Color of Kink: Black Women, BDSM, and Pornography by Ariane Cruz</a>&nbsp;</p> <p><a href= "https://twitter.com/samuelrdelany1/status/1374135013059477508?s=46"> Samuel Delaney’s keynote talk “Aversion/Perversion/Diversion”</a>&nbsp;</p> <p><a href= "https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/revenge-body-caleb-luna/1140990830"> Revenge Body by Caleb Luna</a>&nbsp;</p> <p><a href= "https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/670607/belly-of-the-beast-by-dashaun-harrison/"> Belly of the Beast: The Politics of Anti-Fatness as Anti-Blackness by Da’Shaun Harrison</a>&nbsp;</p> <p><a href= "https://pipewrenchmag.com/dismantling-medical-fatphobia/">No Health, No Care The Big Fat Loophole in the Hippocratic Oath by Marquisele Mercedes</a>&nbsp;</p> <p>Find us on social media!</p> <ul> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/unsolicitedftb">Unsolicited on Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/unsolicitedftb">Unsolicited on Instagram</a></li> <li>Find Da'Shaun:</li> <ul> <li>Twitter/Insta: @DaShaunLH</li> </ul> <li>Find Mikey:</li> <ul> <li>Twitter: @marquisele</li> <li>Insta: @fatmarquisele</li> </ul> <li>Find Jordan:</li> <ul> <li>Twitter/Insta: @jordallenhall</li> </ul> <li>Find Caleb:</li> <ul> <li>Twitter/Insta: @dr_chairbreaker</li> </ul> <li>Find Bryan:&nbsp;</li> <ul> <li>Twitter/Insta: @blackqueeriroh</li> </ul> </ul>