When being good at your job is suddenly not enough

JAN 18, 202612 MIN
Braver Leaders  Podcast

When being good at your job is suddenly not enough

JAN 18, 202612 MIN

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<p>There's a moment many leaders hit after stepping into a role where they lead other leaders — it shows up as quiet confusion.</p><p>You're still good at the work. Your judgment hasn't disappeared. If anything, you can see issues more clearly than before. And yet, something feels off.</p><p>The same strengths that used to carry you now create friction. Decisions land more heavily. People wait more. Meetings feel slower — or strangely tense.</p><p>In this episode, Ian Browne explains what's actually happening when competence stops being currency and becomes ambient. He explores why your strengths start to misfire, how speed becomes a signal you didn't intend to send, and the competence trap that constrains the system around you.</p><p>If you've been privately wondering "If I'm still capable, why does this feel harder than it should?" — this conversation will show you the role has simply changed shape.</p><p>What You'll Learn</p><p><strong>When competence becomes ambient:</strong></p><p>Why being good at the job is no longer visible leverage at this level</p><p>How your ability stops solving problems and starts shaping behavior</p><p>The shift from currency to assumed baseline</p><p><strong>Why strengths start to misfire:</strong></p><p>How stepping in early creates deference you didn't ask for</p><p>Why the room adjusts to you without you realizing it</p><p>The difference between effort-based pressure and structural pressure</p><p><strong>Speed as an unintended signal:</strong></p><p>How quick thinking can make others feel hurried</p><p>Why resolving uncertainty too early atrophies leadership muscles</p><p>What "steadiness" actually means when you lead other leaders</p><p><strong>The competence trap:</strong></p><p>Why excellence can narrow the leadership around you</p><p>How the better you are, the more constrained the system can become</p><p>Why gravity has increased even though nothing formally changed</p><p><strong>What this level actually requires:</strong></p><p>How your presence shapes how pressure moves through the system</p><p>Why how you apply competence matters more than how much you have</p><p>The awareness that becomes the real work once competence is assumed</p><p>Key Insights</p><p>"Nothing you're good at has stopped being useful. It's just stopped being visible leverage."</p><p>"You're not being challenged more because you're failing. You're being leaned on more because you're reliable. That's why the pressure feels different."</p><p>"At this level, speed becomes a signal. If you move quickly, others feel hurried. If you resolve uncertainty too early, others stop holding it."</p><p>"The better you are, the more constrained the system can become. Not because you're domineering — but because gravity has increased."</p><p>"For many leaders, the relief comes when they realize: Nothing has gone wrong. The job has simply changed shape."</p><p>Resources Mentioned</p><p><strong>Leader of Leaders Diagnostic</strong> See where your influence may be creating clarity — and where it may be creating unintended drag. Acts as a mirror, not a test. → [<a target="_blank" href="https://tally.so/r/vGrElX">Link in show notes</a>]</p><p><strong>Read the full article on Substack</strong> This episode explores Ian's article on the competence trap. Get the complete piece with additional insights on deliberate leadership. → <a target="_blank" href="https://ianbrowne.substack.com/">Link</a></p><p>What's Coming Next Week</p><p>Next episode: <strong>"Why Over-Functioning Creates the Dependency You're Trying to Avoid"</strong></p><p>What happens when you try to solve structural pressure by working harder — and the specific moment when stepping in stops being helpful and starts weakening the system around you.</p><p>If this episode resonated, you'll want to hear how to break the pattern before it becomes chronic.</p><p>About Ian Browne</p><p>Ian Browne is the founder of Braver Leadership and author of the upcoming <em>Leading Leaders Handbook</em>. He specializes in helping experienced professionals navigate the transition from managing work to managing leaders — using behavioral science and the BRAVER™ framework to build regulated presence without requiring a personality transplant.</p><p><strong>Subscribe to the weekly newsletter:</strong> Every Saturday, Ian publishes in-depth articles on the leader-of-leaders transition. No corporate fluff. No psychobabble. Just the reality of this level. → Subscribe at <a target="_blank" href="http://ianbrowne.substack.com">ianbrowne.substack.com</a></p><p><strong>Connect with Ian:</strong></p><p>Website: <a target="_blank" href="http://braverleadership.com">braverleadership.com</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianbrowne-uk/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianbrowne-uk/</a></p><p>Substack: <a target="_blank" href="http://ianbrowne.substack.com">ianbrowne.substack.com</a></p><p>Subscribe to The Leadership Pause</p><p>New episodes every week exploring the first 100 days of leading other leaders.</p><p><strong>Apple Podcasts</strong> | <strong>Spotify</strong> | <strong>Substack</strong> | <strong>YouTube</strong></p><p>If this episode helped you see the role more clearly, share it with someone who's privately wondering why being good at the job suddenly isn't enough. They'll recognize themselves in it.</p><p>Transcript</p><p>[Full transcript available at <a target="_blank" href="http://ianbrowne.substack.com">ianbrowne.substack.com</a>]</p><p><strong>Episode Length:</strong> ~15 minutes<strong>Published:</strong> [Date]<strong>Season:</strong> [Season number if applicable]</p><p>Producer Notes</p><p><strong>Why this episode matters:</strong> Most leaders experience this shift but misinterpret it as personal doubt or loss of confidence. Ian names what's actually happening: competence hasn't disappeared, it's just stopped being the primary input. The role is asking for something different — and until that's named, leaders stay stuck wondering what's wrong with them.</p><p><strong>Who should listen:</strong></p><p>Leaders who are good at the work but feel friction they can't explain</p><p>Anyone privately asking "If I'm still capable, why does this feel harder?"</p><p>Leaders noticing decisions stacking up and people deferring more than before</p><p><strong>Share this episode if:</strong> Someone capable is struggling to understand why their strengths are creating drag instead of momentum. This gives them language for the shift — and shows them nothing has gone wrong.</p> <br/><br/>This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit <a href="https://ianbrowne.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_1">ianbrowne.substack.com</a>