"I Refuse to Be Good": Women, Bodies, and the Cost of Compliance with Savala Nolan
<p>What if being “good” was never meant to protect us?</p><p>In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by the incredible Savala Nolan (back for the second time) to talk about her new book <em>Good Woman: A Reckoning</em>, which is a lyrical, unflinching exploration of the expectations placed on women’s bodies, voices, marriages, appetites, and lives.</p><p>We explore what happens when the bargain of goodness stops “working” and what becomes possible when we refuse it.</p><p>Tune in for more on:</p><p>* The myth that being “good” (thin, quiet, agreeable) will keep women safe</p><p>* Midlife as rupture: dieting, divorce, and the unraveling of social conditioning</p><p>* Body liberation as a daily practice — especially in the age of GLP-1s</p><p>* What it means to become “illegible” to misogynistic culture</p><p>* Raising daughters who are fluent in their bodies, not afraid of them</p><p>This is a conversation about wilderness, refusal, and the kind of freedom that feels both exciting and terrifying because of its importance and truth.</p><p>Find Savala on IG: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.instagram.com/savalanolan/">https://www.instagram.com/savalanolan/</a></p><p>Order "Good Woman" here: <a target="_blank" href="https://savalanolan.com/">https://savalanolan.com/</a></p><p>Savala's Substack: <a target="_blank" href="https://savala.substack.com/">https://savala.substack.com/</a></p><p>Support the show: Enjoying this podcast? Please support the show on Substack for bonus episodes, community engagement, and access to "Ask Abbie" at <a target="_blank" href="http://abbieattwoodwellness.substack.com/subscribe">abbieattwoodwellness.substack.com/subscribe</a></p><p> </p><p>Apply for Abbie’s Group Membership:</p><p>Already been at this anti-diet culture thing for a while, but want community and continued learning? Apply for Abbie's monthly membership: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.abbieattwoodwellness.com/circle-monthly-group">https://www.abbieattwoodwellness.com/circle-monthly-group</a></p><p> </p><p>Social media:</p><p>Find the show on Instagram: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.instagram.com/fullplate.podcast/">@fullplate.podcast</a></p><p>Find Abbie on Instagram: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.instagram.com/abbieattwoodwellness/">@abbieattwoodwellness</a></p><p> </p><p>Podcast Cover Photography by Anya McInroy</p><p>Podcast Editing by Brian Walters</p><p>This podcast is ad-free and support comes from your support on Substack. Subscribe <a target="_blank" href="http://abbieattwoodwellness.substack.com/subscribe">HERE</a>.</p> <br/><br/>This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit <a href="https://abbieattwoodwellness.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2">abbieattwoodwellness.substack.com/subscribe</a>