The Intimacy Playground with EJ Love

Welcome to Season 2 where EJ explores the Fear of Intimacy and how it stops people from having the intimacy they really want! She shares how people struggle to know and ask for what they want and the stories and beliefs that keep people safe and in their comfort zone when it comes to intimacy. She also talks about the roles people play in relationships and the fears and shadows of intimacy that keep you playing out these disempowering roles. Lastly, she speaks to the sabotaging and avoidant behaviours that keep you stuck and how accountability is key to changing these behaviours!WAYS TO PLAY WITH ME - https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial Join my Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/EJLovetribe/ Time Stamps: 10:30 The Fear of Intimacy: An Introduction22:33 Exploring Barriers to Intimacy34:24 Exploring Fears of Intimacy34:41 Fear of Losing Freedom37:32 Fear of Abandonment39:44 Fear of Inadequacy and Rejection42:52 Fear of Emotions and Vulnerability45:22 Roles and Masks in Relationships48:00 Uncovering Shadows53:00 External Behaviors and Sabotage59:24 Creating Safety and Accountability01:02:01 Coaching and Training OpportunitiesKeywords: conscious sex, embodied play, adult play, intimacy coaching, connection, intimacy, trauma, triggers, boundaries, consent, sex industry, demographics, connection, intimacy, relationships, Conscious Sexuality Experience Training, communication, intention, safety, nice guy, men’s work, masculinity.

In this episode, I have the pleasure of speaking with three male escorts who have all attended our Conscious Sexuality Experience training. I asked them all the most curious questions that people wanted to know about what it’s like being a male escort:  How did you get into the industry? Why do you do what you do?  What types of women book your services? What are they looking for?  How do you do this work when you have a partner?  What’s been some of your most memorable client experiences?  What kind of conscious sexuality experiences fo you offer your clients? How has this helped them?  We also chatted about how the Conscious Sexuality Experience Training has had a significant impact on their work, particularly in terms of educating their clients about their desires and boundaries and supporting them to feel loved and safe exploring their sexuality.  CURIOUS ABOUT OUR CONSCIOUS SEXUALITY IMMERSION AND TRAININGS?  For women’s only: https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/  For mixed gender: https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/mixedgender  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/conscioussexualitytraining  Join our Private Free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/986216238137858  Download the FREE Intimacy Playbook: https://www.ejlove.com/intimacyplaybook  CONNECT WITH THE MALE ESCORTS Instagram:   Ty Jones - https://www.instagram.com/tyjones_01/ , https://www.instagram.com/pleasureheals_/  George Goulburn - https://www.instagram.com/george_goulburn/,  Tyler Banks - https://www.instagram.com/tylerbanksesct/  Websites:  Ty - https://www.pleasureheals.com.au, https://ivysociete.com/escorts/profile/ty-jones  George - https://www.georgegoulburn.com/  Tyler - https://ivysociete.com/escorts/profile/tyler-banks  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on! Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Guests and the Importance of Healing Services in the Sex Industry 04:19 Personal Stories: How the Guests Entered the Industry 06:02 Motivations and Passion for Supporting Women's Healing and Growth 15:59 Why Women Book Male Escorts and the Types of Women They Serve 22:45 Creating a Safe and Healing Experience: Communication, Boundaries, and Trauma Response 26:07 Respecting Boundaries and Trauma Responses 27:43 The Importance of Connection and Intimacy 35:59 Standout Client Experiences 01:00:29 The Impact of the Conscious Sexuality Experience Training Keywords conscious sex, male escorts, healing, connection, intimacy, companionship, trauma, triggers, communication, boundaries, aftercare, boundaries, trauma responses, consent, sex industry, demographics, connection, intimacy, physical attraction, client experiences, relationships, Conscious Sexuality Experience Training, communication, intention, safety

In this episode I interview Mistress Eros who attended our Conscious Sexuality Experience Practitioner training. She chose to fully step into offering this work and is now booked out weeks in advance! We talk about: 1. Her journey from being a wilderness guide to stepping into the world of conscious sexuality and awakening to her remembering of the Goddess Temples 2. Why she decided to go public with her sexuality work and how people have responded to her coming out about it 3. How she advertises herself and the power and freedom of owning her sexuality and expression 4. The kinds of sessions and work she offers - BDSM, healing through role play, offering nervous system regulation in the sessions. 5. Running Tantra Temples and Events And More... CURIOUS ABOUT STEPPING INTO THIS WORK? Go to https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/ to learn about our next training and how we can support you into working in this field. Learn more about all of our Trainings -  ⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠  CONNECT WITH MISTRESS EROS Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lotus_erotica https://www.instagram.com/eros.temples Follow us on Instagram: Conscious Sexuality Training - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/conscioussexualitytraining⁠  EJ -  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠ ⁠  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

In this episode we cover:  1. How to know when watching porn has actually become an addiction  2. The real reason men can become so easily dependent on porn  3. The massive impacts porn dependency has on men’s brains, their sexual intimacy, performance and their relationships 4. How men can be re-traumatising themselves every time they watch porn   Join our 4 Week Men’s Sex Mastery Program that will help you heal porn addiction, rewire the neurological pathways of the brain and master your sexual energy - ⁠https://www.ejlove.com/menssexmasteryprogram⁠  Use code “100OFF” for a special $100 discount!  Learn more about all of our Conscious Sexuality Experience Trainings -  ⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠  Follow us on Instagram: Conscious Sexuality Training - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/conscioussexualitytraining⁠  EJ -  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠  Anna - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/annamorrigan54⁠  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

In this episode EJ covers:  1. The Unconscious Unhealed Mother Wound Behaviours and How they Impact Men’s Relationships with Women  2. The 6 Different Mother-Son Dynamics that are Playing out Repeated Patterns in Relationships 3. How this Unhealed Wound Impacts Men’s Intimacy and can be a cause of ED, PE and how it can also Create Kinks and Fantasies that lead to Addictions 4. The Unconscious Loyalty Men have towards their Mothers that creates blocks to being available for & receiving love and having intimacy.  5. The Vital Piece of Men’s Initiation that is missing in most Men’s Work that will actually Heal this Mother Wound (and how I think women are here to help men with this) This is one you will not want to miss - be prepared to have your 👀 opened!  Check out our Mixed Gender Immersion where we will be taking men through this Healing and Separation Process - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/mgimmersion  Learn to facilitate this process for men at our Practitioner Training - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com.au  Discover all of our Events and Trainings -  https://linktr.ee/csetraining  Follow us on Instagram: Conscious Sexuality Training - https://www.instagram.com/conscioussexualitytraining  EJ -  https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!