205: Why You're Still Not Rich (And It's Not Because of Money)

JUN 11, 202620 MIN
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205: Why You're Still Not Rich (And It's Not Because of Money)

JUN 11, 202620 MIN

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<p>You say you want more money.</p><p>More freedom. More abundance. More ease. More wealth.</p><p>But if I looked at your daily habits, your thoughts, your decisions, your relationship with money, and the way you move through life... would I find evidence of the woman you&#39;re trying to become? </p><p>Or would I find proof of the woman you&#39;ve always been?</p><p>In this episode, we&#39;re having the conversation most people avoid because it requires a level of self-awareness most people never develop.</p><p>We&#39;re talking about wealth identity.</p><p>Not the &quot;fake it till you make it.&quot; Not buying things on a credit card to feel successful. Not pretending you&#39;re wealthy while your bank account tells a different story. Wealth isn&#39;t something you buy, it&#39;s not buy as if it&#39;s act as if and it&#39;s who you BECOME. </p><p>I break down why the popular manifestation advice to &quot;act as if&quot; has been wildly misunderstood and why so many people are using it to justify financial decisions that are actually keeping them stuck.</p><p>You&#39;ll learn why money itself has no value until we assign value to it, how your identity creates your financial reality, and why you don&#39;t get what you want you get what you are.</p><p>We&#39;ll unpack the uncomfortable truth that if you want different results, you need to become a different person.</p><p>A woman who thinks differently.</p><p>Acts differently.</p><p>Makes decisions differently.</p><p>Manages money differently.</p><p>A woman whose behaviors are aligned with the reality she says she wants to create.</p><p>I also share real-life examples that will challenge the stories you tell yourself every day.</p><p>Including a simple example from the service industry that reveals scarcity thinking in action: are you making choices because they&#39;re truly aligned with the person you want to be or simply because they&#39;re free?</p><p>And we&#39;ll talk about one of my favorite examples from Vanderpump Rules.</p><p>The moment Lisa Vanderpump hands Stassi her credit card to buy supplies for an event. Stassi&#39;s excitement immediately jumps to shopping. Lisa&#39;s response.. stuck with me when I first watched this episode. Lisa Vanderpump the business woman and legend that she is checks her credit card statement. Why does that matter?</p><p>Because people have confused wealth with avoidance.</p><p>They think being rich means not having to look at your bank account, not checking your credit card statements, not paying attention. Not being involved.</p><p>But real wealth isn&#39;t built through detachment. It&#39;s built through awareness.</p><p>Lisa can afford to hand someone her credit card because she&#39;s the kind of woman who knows exactly what&#39;s happening with her money. She doesn&#39;t ignore it. She has a relationship with it. </p><p>The wealthiest version of you isn&#39;t careless.</p><p>She&#39;s conscious.</p><p>She&#39;s responsible.</p><p>She&#39;s disciplined.</p><p>She&#39;s aware.</p><p>And if that version of you feels far away, this episode might reveal exactly why. </p><p>If you&#39;re tired of waiting to feel wealthy and you&#39;re finally ready to look at the patterns, behaviors, beliefs, and identities standing in the way, this episode is for you.</p><p>The question is:</p><p>Are you willing to see what you&#39;ve been avoiding?</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Hope on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hopeflawse/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.instagram.com/hopeflawse/</a></p><p>Mindset &amp; Manifestation coaching <a href="https://www.hopeflawse.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.hopeflawse.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for being here :) Please leave a review and subscribe! </p><p><br></p><p><br></p>