205: Why You're Still Not Rich (And It's Not Because of Money)
JUN 11, 202620 MIN
205: Why You're Still Not Rich (And It's Not Because of Money)
JUN 11, 202620 MIN
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<p>You say you want more money.</p><p>More freedom. More abundance. More ease. More wealth.</p><p>But if I looked at your daily habits, your thoughts, your decisions, your relationship with money, and the way you move through life... would I find evidence of the woman you're trying to become? </p><p>Or would I find proof of the woman you've always been?</p><p>In this episode, we're having the conversation most people avoid because it requires a level of self-awareness most people never develop.</p><p>We're talking about wealth identity.</p><p>Not the "fake it till you make it." Not buying things on a credit card to feel successful. Not pretending you're wealthy while your bank account tells a different story. Wealth isn't something you buy, it's not buy as if it's act as if and it's who you BECOME. </p><p>I break down why the popular manifestation advice to "act as if" has been wildly misunderstood and why so many people are using it to justify financial decisions that are actually keeping them stuck.</p><p>You'll learn why money itself has no value until we assign value to it, how your identity creates your financial reality, and why you don't get what you want you get what you are.</p><p>We'll unpack the uncomfortable truth that if you want different results, you need to become a different person.</p><p>A woman who thinks differently.</p><p>Acts differently.</p><p>Makes decisions differently.</p><p>Manages money differently.</p><p>A woman whose behaviors are aligned with the reality she says she wants to create.</p><p>I also share real-life examples that will challenge the stories you tell yourself every day.</p><p>Including a simple example from the service industry that reveals scarcity thinking in action: are you making choices because they're truly aligned with the person you want to be or simply because they're free?</p><p>And we'll talk about one of my favorite examples from Vanderpump Rules.</p><p>The moment Lisa Vanderpump hands Stassi her credit card to buy supplies for an event. Stassi's excitement immediately jumps to shopping. Lisa's response.. stuck with me when I first watched this episode. Lisa Vanderpump the business woman and legend that she is checks her credit card statement. Why does that matter?</p><p>Because people have confused wealth with avoidance.</p><p>They think being rich means not having to look at your bank account, not checking your credit card statements, not paying attention. Not being involved.</p><p>But real wealth isn't built through detachment. It's built through awareness.</p><p>Lisa can afford to hand someone her credit card because she's the kind of woman who knows exactly what's happening with her money. She doesn't ignore it. She has a relationship with it. </p><p>The wealthiest version of you isn't careless.</p><p>She's conscious.</p><p>She's responsible.</p><p>She's disciplined.</p><p>She's aware.</p><p>And if that version of you feels far away, this episode might reveal exactly why. </p><p>If you're tired of waiting to feel wealthy and you're finally ready to look at the patterns, behaviors, beliefs, and identities standing in the way, this episode is for you.</p><p>The question is:</p><p>Are you willing to see what you've been avoiding?</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Hope on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hopeflawse/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.instagram.com/hopeflawse/</a></p><p>Mindset & Manifestation coaching <a href="https://www.hopeflawse.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.hopeflawse.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for being here :) Please leave a review and subscribe! </p><p><br></p><p><br></p>