Most relationship pain doesn’t come from evil intent. It comes from a lack of skill and that single reframe can change how you talk to your partner, your friends, your family, and yourself. Today I’m sharing one of my favorite passages from Thich Nhat Hanh’s *How to Love*, where he reminds us that being human means making mistakes, feeling regret, and learning anyway. When we learn from our mistakes, we “transform garbage into flowers,” and suddenly growth feels possible instead of heavy. And, if you want more access to me, my coaching, and live monthly calls, I want to invite you to join us inside Self Coaching Society  with this limited time, exclusive offer just for my very special podcast listeners. Get your first month for just $1, then only $29/month after that! (you can cancel anytime). Join us here: https://selfcoachingsociety.com/pod/Simple as that! I can't wait to welcome you inside!If you'd love to watch the video version of our interviews, be sure to subscribe to the podcast's YouTube channel here.