<description>&lt;p&gt;Lucy has taken a journey throughout this series to discover many different kinds of relationships, but today’s episode explores the most important relationship of all; the one you have with yourself. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Kerry O’Sullivan is a Sex, Love and Pleasure Goddess, and helps people to feel fulfilled in every area of their lives. Her work includes coaching, tantric experiences, and yoni massage. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In this episode Kerry talks about her own journey after trauma, about how our energy can become blocked, and how she works with her clients individually, teaching them how to connect with their bodies. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For more on Kerry and her work, you can find her online at &lt;a href= "http://www.kerryosullivan.co.uk"&gt;www.kerryosullivan.co.uk&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Subscribe for latest episodes and please rate and review&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;@aurrastudios Twitter, Insta, Facebook, LinkedIn &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Presented by Lucy Cavendish&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Executive Producer Ben Freeman&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Produced by Ami Bennett and Faye Lawrence&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;hr&gt;&lt;p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'&gt; Hosted on Acast. See &lt;a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'&gt;acast.com/privacy&lt;/a&gt; for more information.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Lucy has taken a journey throughout this series to discover many different kinds of relationships, but today’s episode explores the most important relationship of all; the one you have with yourself.    Kerry O’Sullivan is a Sex, Love...

Lucy has taken a journey throughout this series to discover many different kinds of relationships, but today’s episode explores the most important relationship of all; the one you have with yourself.    Kerry O’Sullivan is a Sex, Love and Pleasure Goddess, and helps people to feel fulfilled in every area of their lives. Her work includes coaching, tantric experiences, and yoni massage.    In this episode Kerry talks about her own journey after trauma, about how our energy can become blocked, and how she works with her clients individually, teaching them how to connect with their bodies.    For more on Kerry and her work, you can find her online at <a href= "http://www.kerryosullivan.co.uk">www.kerryosullivan.co.uk</a>   Subscribe for latest episodes and please rate and review https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/   @aurrastudios Twitter, Insta, Facebook, LinkedIn  Presented by Lucy Cavendish Executive Producer Ben Freeman Produced by Ami Bennett and Faye Lawrence <hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

Kerry O’Sullivan - Tantra & Self Love

<description>&lt;p&gt;What happens when you’ve experienced casual relationships and sex, but have religious beliefs where that would be frowned upon? &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Today Lucy meets Mary, who is a conservative Anglican Christian. Her church follows the bible very strictly in terms of theology, and they believe that relationships should be intentional; that is with the intent to marry. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Mary was raised as a Christian, but slipped away from the church when she was at university, where she experienced sexual relationships outside of marriage. Now in her thirties, Mary is single and has returned to the church. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In this episode, she talks to Lucy about being an anomaly in her church, how she identifies as bisexual but would never have a relationship with a woman, and how her beliefs have affected her friendship and relationships. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Subscribe for latest episodes and please rate and review&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;@aurrastudios Twitter, Insta, Facebook, LinkedIn &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Presented by Lucy Cavendish&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Executive Producer Ben Freeman&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Produced by Ami Bennett and Faye Lawrence&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;hr&gt;&lt;p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'&gt; Hosted on Acast. See &lt;a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'&gt;acast.com/privacy&lt;/a&gt; for more information.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

What happens when you’ve experienced casual relationships and sex, but have religious beliefs where that would be frowned upon?  Today Lucy meets Mary, who is a conservative Anglican Christian. Her church follows the bible very strictly in...

What happens when you’ve experienced casual relationships and sex, but have religious beliefs where that would be frowned upon?  Today Lucy meets Mary, who is a conservative Anglican Christian. Her church follows the bible very strictly in terms of theology, and they believe that relationships should be intentional; that is with the intent to marry.  Mary was raised as a Christian, but slipped away from the church when she was at university, where she experienced sexual relationships outside of marriage. Now in her thirties, Mary is single and has returned to the church.    In this episode, she talks to Lucy about being an anomaly in her church, how she identifies as bisexual but would never have a relationship with a woman, and how her beliefs have affected her friendship and relationships.    Subscribe for latest episodes and please rate and review https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/ @aurrastudios Twitter, Insta, Facebook, LinkedIn  Presented by Lucy Cavendish Executive Producer Ben Freeman Produced by Ami Bennett and Faye Lawrence <hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

Mary - Sex, Love & Christianity

<description>&lt;p&gt;Today Lucy chats to Arlo and Rosie. They met and became a couple 6 years ago, and at the time, they both identified as female. But during the course of their relationship, Rosie realised that she thought Arlo might be non-binary. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In this episode, Arlo and Rosie tell Lucy all about how they navigated the process of Arlo working out what their gender identity was, their transition process, and how that affected the couple's relationship. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;They also talk about both of their coming out stories - and how Arlo came out for a second time as non-binary, and how empowering that was for them! &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For more information on Arlo and Rosie, and their brilliant merch, check out… &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Their website: &lt;a href= "https://splodge.bigcartel.com/"&gt;https://splodge.bigcartel.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Their Instagram: &lt;a href= "https://www.instagram.com/splodgestore/"&gt;https://www.instagram.com/splodgestore/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Subscribe for latest episodes and please rate and review&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;@aurrastudios Twitter, Insta, Facebook, LinkedIn &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Presented by Lucy Cavendish&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Executive Producer Ben Freeman&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Produced by Ami Bennett and Faye Lawrence&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;hr&gt;&lt;p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'&gt; Hosted on Acast. See &lt;a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'&gt;acast.com/privacy&lt;/a&gt; for more information.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Today Lucy chats to Arlo and Rosie. They met and became a couple 6 years ago, and at the time, they both identified as female. But during the course of their relationship, Rosie realised that she thought Arlo might be non-binary.    In this...

Today Lucy chats to Arlo and Rosie. They met and became a couple 6 years ago, and at the time, they both identified as female. But during the course of their relationship, Rosie realised that she thought Arlo might be non-binary.    In this episode, Arlo and Rosie tell Lucy all about how they navigated the process of Arlo working out what their gender identity was, their transition process, and how that affected the couple's relationship.    They also talk about both of their coming out stories - and how Arlo came out for a second time as non-binary, and how empowering that was for them!    For more information on Arlo and Rosie, and their brilliant merch, check out…    Their website: <a href= "https://splodge.bigcartel.com/">https://splodge.bigcartel.com/</a> Their Instagram: <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/splodgestore/">https://www.instagram.com/splodgestore/</a> Subscribe for latest episodes and please rate and review https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/   @aurrastudios Twitter, Insta, Facebook, LinkedIn  Presented by Lucy Cavendish Executive Producer Ben Freeman Produced by Ami Bennett and Faye Lawrence <hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

Arlo & Rosie -  Changing Gender Identity

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode, we’re talking once again about non-monogamy, but this time, Lucy is asking how feasible it is to be in love with more than one person at a time. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She chats to Leanne Yau, the founder of polyphilia.blog, a hugely popular Instagram and project which is full of resources and entertainment around polyamory, non-monogamy and open relationships. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In this episode, Lucy and Leanne chat about how people’s relationships can benefit from being more open, how that can work logistically, and what happens when sometimes those logistics don’t quite align (and you get home and your boyfriend is in the bedroom having sex with his date!) &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Leanne also talks lots about the rise in popularity for content about polyamory in recent years (her Instagram has over 100k followers!), is this a lifestyle Lucy might want to try herself? &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;You can find more on Leanne… .  &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;On the Polyphilia website - &lt;a href="https://www.polyphilia.blog/"&gt;https://www.polyphilia.blog/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;On the Polyphilia instagram - https://www.instagram.com/polyphiliablog/&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; Subscribe for latest episodes and please rate and review&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href= "https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/"&gt; https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;@aurrastudios Twitter, Insta, Facebook, LinkedIn &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Presented by Lucy Cavendish&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Executive Producer Ben Freeman&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Produced by Ami Bennett and Faye Lawrence&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;hr&gt;&lt;p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'&gt; Hosted on Acast. See &lt;a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'&gt;acast.com/privacy&lt;/a&gt; for more information.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this episode, we’re talking once again about non-monogamy, but this time, Lucy is asking how feasible it is to be in love with more than one person at a time.    She chats to Leanne Yau, the founder of polyphilia.blog, a hugely popular...

In this episode, we’re talking once again about non-monogamy, but this time, Lucy is asking how feasible it is to be in love with more than one person at a time.    She chats to Leanne Yau, the founder of polyphilia.blog, a hugely popular Instagram and project which is full of resources and entertainment around polyamory, non-monogamy and open relationships.    In this episode, Lucy and Leanne chat about how people’s relationships can benefit from being more open, how that can work logistically, and what happens when sometimes those logistics don’t quite align (and you get home and your boyfriend is in the bedroom having sex with his date!)    Leanne also talks lots about the rise in popularity for content about polyamory in recent years (her Instagram has over 100k followers!), is this a lifestyle Lucy might want to try herself?    You can find more on Leanne… .   On the Polyphilia website - <a href="https://www.polyphilia.blog/">https://www.polyphilia.blog/</a> On the Polyphilia instagram - https://www.instagram.com/polyphiliablog/    Subscribe for latest episodes and please rate and review <a href= "https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/"> https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/</a>   @aurrastudios Twitter, Insta, Facebook, LinkedIn  Presented by Lucy Cavendish Executive Producer Ben Freeman Produced by Ami Bennett and Faye Lawrence <hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

Leanne Yau - Polyamory

<description>&lt;p&gt;On this episode of the podcast, Lucy delves into what it means to not experience sexual or romantic attraction.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yasmin Benoit is a model and an award-winning asexual activist, and knew she didn’t feel romantically for people as a teen. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She talks honestly with Lucy about growing up, representation, and how not having the distraction and pressure of navigating romantic relationships has given her more time and headspace to do the things she loves! &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yasmin evidently leads a very fulfilling and enjoyable life without romance and sex, which leaves us all wondering; are we putting too much time and effort into finding relationships? &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;You can find more on Yasmin… &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;On her Instagram - &lt;a href="https://www.instagram.com/theyasminbenoit/"&gt;https://www.instagram.com/theyasminbenoit/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;On her Twitter - &lt;a href= "https://twitter.com/theyasminbenoit"&gt;https://twitter.com/theyasminbenoit&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; Subscribe for latest episodes and please rate and review&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href= "https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/"&gt; https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;@aurrastudios Twitter, Insta, Facebook, LinkedIn &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Presented by Lucy Cavendish&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Executive Producer Ben Freeman&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Produced by Ami Bennett and Faye Lawrence&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;hr&gt;&lt;p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'&gt; Hosted on Acast. See &lt;a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'&gt;acast.com/privacy&lt;/a&gt; for more information.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

On this episode of the podcast, Lucy delves into what it means to not experience sexual or romantic attraction.   Yasmin Benoit is a model and an award-winning asexual activist, and knew she didn’t feel romantically for people as a teen. ...

On this episode of the podcast, Lucy delves into what it means to not experience sexual or romantic attraction.   Yasmin Benoit is a model and an award-winning asexual activist, and knew she didn’t feel romantically for people as a teen.    She talks honestly with Lucy about growing up, representation, and how not having the distraction and pressure of navigating romantic relationships has given her more time and headspace to do the things she loves!    Yasmin evidently leads a very fulfilling and enjoyable life without romance and sex, which leaves us all wondering; are we putting too much time and effort into finding relationships?    You can find more on Yasmin…    On her Instagram - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theyasminbenoit/">https://www.instagram.com/theyasminbenoit/</a> On her Twitter - <a href= "https://twitter.com/theyasminbenoit">https://twitter.com/theyasminbenoit</a>    Subscribe for latest episodes and please rate and review <a href= "https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/"> https://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/</a>   @aurrastudios Twitter, Insta, Facebook, LinkedIn  Presented by Lucy Cavendish Executive Producer Ben Freeman Produced by Ami Bennett and Faye Lawrence <hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

Yasmin Benoit - Asexuality and Aromanticism

Whatever stage of life you are at, love and relationships can feel confusing. Even if you have found the perfect partner, are you fulfilled emotionally and sexually? Do you even know what you think might be missing?Lucy Cavendish is the Later Dater and a professional love coach. She has embarked on this series to uncover the different ways people date, interact and pursue personal fulfilment in their emotional and intimate lives. In each show you will discover a fascinating conversation along with insight and practical tips. You will find no judgement here, just curiosity and a desire to find new points of view and experiences - so leave your preconceptions at the door and join Lucy for Later Dater.The LD team are also thrilled to share that we are British Podcasting Award 2023 gold winners - thank you to all our listeners who helped make the show what it is!Subscribe for latest episodes and please rate and reviewhttps://www.lucycavendishcounselling.com/love-coaching/@aurrastudios Twitter, Insta, Facebook, LinkedIn Presented by Lucy CavendishExecutive Producer Ben FreemanProduced by Ami Bennett and Faye Lawrence Edited by Troy HolmesCover Art by Jess Lindsey (@_watthouse_) <hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

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