Why is it so hard to get the right help, ask the right questions, and know what to do when it comes to menopause after cancer?In this episode, Dani is joined by Dr Shilpa McQuillan, a gynaecologist, GP, and menopause specialist - for an honest conversation about why menopause after cancer remains so difficult to talk about, both for patients and clinicians.Together they explore what happens when menopause is left untreated, its impact on mental health, sexual wellbeing, and work, and why empowering patients in decision-making leads to better outcomes. This is the important bit! Your thoughts and feelings and ideas matter! You matter!Dr McQuillan also shares practical advice and helpful resources for patients and clinicians alike.As the year ends, Dani reflects on how far we’ve come; and shares a special poem to close with warmth and hope for the year ahead. So make sure you stay tuned to the end.You can find Dr McQuillan Shilpa here on Instagram and https://www.instagram.com/berkshiremenopauseclinic/?hl=en and here on her website www.berkshiremenopauseclinic.comFor more support head to www.menopauseandcancer.orgEpisode Highlights:00:00 Introduction04:38 Menopause Symptoms Overlooked in Cancer07:53 Clinicians' Fears: Uncertainty and Blame12:11 "Long-Term Cancer Treatment Challenges"17:03 Cancer Worries and Holistic Challenges21:25 "Communication is Key for Care"23:28 Patient Advocacy and Information Struggles34:32 Navigating Specialist Pathways Effectively38:29 Empowering Menopause Health StrategiesConnect with us:For more information and resources visit our website: www.menopauseandcancer.org Or follow us on Instagram @menopause_and_cancerJoin our Facebook group: www.facebook.com/groups/menopauseandcancerchathub