In this episode, Erika and Kristen read and discuss a post from the Regretful Parents sub titled “Don’t Do It Folks.” The post details a chaotic day of parenting young children and offers practical advice for people who are considering having kids.<br /><br />Our conversation covers the realities of daily childcare, loss of free time, unequal caregiving labor, financial strain, and how resentment can build. We break down the post’s advice for fence sitters, including the importance of firsthand childcare experience, realistic expectations, financial support, and reliable help from partners or family.<br /><br />The episode also explores broader themes around decision-making, comparing parenthood to other long-term commitments people often underestimate. Listener comments from the subreddit add perspective on money stress, partner dynamics, and unmet expectations after having children.<br />This episode is for fence sitters, childfree listeners, and parents looking for honest discussions about parenting, regret, and life choices.<br /><br />Topics discussed:<br />Regretful Parents subreddit stories<br />Parenting stress and burnout<br />Fence sitting and deciding whether to have kids<br />Childcare labor and resentment<br />Financial pressure and parenting<br />Childfree perspectives<br /><br />Keywords: regretful parents, parenting regret, fence sitter, childfree, deciding whether to have kids, parenting burnout, regretful parents subreddit, childfree podcast, parenting realities, DINK lifestyle<br /><br />Join our childfree community: patreon.com/dinkypod<br />Take a trip with us: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/dinky-wxarg <br />Learn more about our podcast: dinkypod.com <br /><br />Love ya. Don’t get pregnant.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support</a>.