Did you hold yourself back during your marriage?  Did you "play small"?  Was there never enough time or money to step into a calling or purpose that you felt fully aligned with?Well, now might be the perfect time, during this pivotal life transition, to rekindle those dreams or break out and create new ones.  But how do you even start the process of realizing your dream?  Or identifying your true purpose?  Merritt Onsa helps women find their path and teaches them to trust God and themselves as they move forward with their God-shaped dreams.In this episode, Joy and Merritt talk about identifying YOUR  dreams, determining when you're ready to start and the beautiful transformations that come from living into that authentic purpose. But there are those stumbling blocks that can trip you up along the way.  How fear and imposter syndrome can hold you back from reaching your dreams.  Calling out "the liar" when you feel unworthy, less than, or unprepared and recapturing those thoughts from his grasp.Ladies, this is your time to make your own choices, and your own decisions, and live the life you were called for  Dream big after divorce!References:The Soul of Shame by Curt ThompsonConnect with Merritt Onsa:Merritt's website:  merrittonsa.com17 Quick Win Ideas to get you startedIG: MerrittjoThe Devoted Dreamers PodcastJoin the Loving Life After Divorce Summit!!  This free, live event has divorce professionals ready to help you through the ups and downs with great information and free bonuses.  It's held the week of September 25th and you can sign up for FREE ......HERE!  To sign up for the free pop-up Facebook group, you can register HERE!  Look forward to seeing you at the summit!Connect with Joy:Find additional resources from Joy and other authors in the No-Problem Parenting book, available on Amazon. The Divorce Confidante Links:To find out more about the benefits of adding a divorce coach to your team, or to book a FREE consultation, connect at The Divorce Confidante website:www.divorce-confidante.comConnect with Joy:on Instagramon LinkedInon Pintereston Facebook