<p>Join our online community ↓</p><p>https://www.knowthyselfcollective.com</p><p><br></p><p>Todd Rose is a Harvard-trained social scientist, former high school dropout with a 0.9 GPA, and co-founder of the think tank Populace. His research centers on the gap between what people privately believe and what they publicly say, and the profound consequences of that gap for individuals and for society. This is one of those conversations that reframes something you thought you understood and doesn&#39;t let you go back.</p><p><br></p><p>What We Dive Into:</p><p>1. Your brain estimates group consensus using a simple shortcut: the loudest voices repeated most often. On social media, that is 10% of users creating 80% of content.</p><p>2. Belonging means being accepted for who you actually are. Fitting in means changing who you are to be accepted. </p><p>3. Authenticity is not about being perfectly accurate about who you are. It is about making choices you genuinely believe align with who you are right now.</p><p><br></p><p>✨THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:</p><p>https://www.mudwtr.com/knowthyself</p><p>Use code KNOWTHYSELF for up to 43% off sitewide</p><p><br></p><p>https://drinkLMNT.com/KnowThyself</p><p>Try LMNT &amp; get a free sample pack </p><p><br></p><p>___________</p><p>00:00 Intro</p><p>01:27 What Are Collective Illusions?</p><p>02:05 The Cost of Self-Silencing</p><p>05:06 How We&#39;re Hardwired to Conform</p><p>07:40 Why the Brain Is Easily Fooled About Group Consensus</p><p>09:13 Social Media and the Amplification of Fringe Views</p><p>13:20 What Americans Actually Want in Private</p><p>21:01 Who Profits from Keeping Us Divided</p><p>23:52 Foreign Manipulation and AI Bot Farms</p><p>29:37 The Most Consequential Collective Illusions</p><p>36:38 What Authenticity Actually Means</p><p>41:15 The Coming Age of Courage</p><p>42:14 Belonging vs. Fitting In</p><p>49:44 René Girard and Mimetic Desire</p><p>59:43 How Collective Illusions Can Shatter Overnight</p><p>1:05:58 The Velvet Revolution and the Power of Authenticity</p><p>1:12:09 How to Build the Muscle of Living in Truth</p><p>1:20:25 Todd&#39;s Personal Collective Illusion: Faith and Identity</p><p>1:24:34 Spiritual Exploration and Holding Beliefs Lightly</p><p>1:32:23 Certainty and Knowledge Are Inversely Correlated</p><p>1:41:42 Fulfillment Over Achievement</p><p>1:50:31 Small Actions That Raise Collective Consciousness</p><p>___________</p><p><br></p><p>✨MORE FROM TODD</p><p>↳Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ltoddrose/</p><p>↳Populace: https://populace.org</p><p>↳https://www.toddrose.com/</p><p><br></p><p>📜MORE FROM KNOW THYSELF</p><p>↳Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4bZMq9l</p><p>↳Apple: https://apple.co/4iATICX</p><p>↳Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knowthyself/</p><p>↳TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@andreduqum</p><p>↳Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/knowthyselfbyandreduqum/</p><p>↳https://knowthyselfpodcast.com/</p><p><br></p><p>👁️MORE FROM ANDRÉ</p><p>↳Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/@andreduqum</p><p>↳Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/know-thyself-podcast</p><p>↳Book recs: https://www.knowthyselfpodcast.com/book-list</p>

Know Thyself

André Duqum

E198 - Dr. Todd Rose: Why Your Desires Aren't Actually Yours (Here's Who Planted Them)

JUN 9, 2026116 MIN
Know Thyself

E198 - Dr. Todd Rose: Why Your Desires Aren't Actually Yours (Here's Who Planted Them)

JUN 9, 2026116 MIN

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<p>Join our online community ↓</p><p>https://www.knowthyselfcollective.com</p><p><br></p><p>Todd Rose is a Harvard-trained social scientist, former high school dropout with a 0.9 GPA, and co-founder of the think tank Populace. His research centers on the gap between what people privately believe and what they publicly say, and the profound consequences of that gap for individuals and for society. This is one of those conversations that reframes something you thought you understood and doesn&#39;t let you go back.</p><p><br></p><p>What We Dive Into:</p><p>1. Your brain estimates group consensus using a simple shortcut: the loudest voices repeated most often. On social media, that is 10% of users creating 80% of content.</p><p>2. Belonging means being accepted for who you actually are. Fitting in means changing who you are to be accepted. </p><p>3. Authenticity is not about being perfectly accurate about who you are. It is about making choices you genuinely believe align with who you are right now.</p><p><br></p><p>✨THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:</p><p>https://www.mudwtr.com/knowthyself</p><p>Use code KNOWTHYSELF for up to 43% off sitewide</p><p><br></p><p>https://drinkLMNT.com/KnowThyself</p><p>Try LMNT &amp; get a free sample pack </p><p><br></p><p>___________</p><p>00:00 Intro</p><p>01:27 What Are Collective Illusions?</p><p>02:05 The Cost of Self-Silencing</p><p>05:06 How We&#39;re Hardwired to Conform</p><p>07:40 Why the Brain Is Easily Fooled About Group Consensus</p><p>09:13 Social Media and the Amplification of Fringe Views</p><p>13:20 What Americans Actually Want in Private</p><p>21:01 Who Profits from Keeping Us Divided</p><p>23:52 Foreign Manipulation and AI Bot Farms</p><p>29:37 The Most Consequential Collective Illusions</p><p>36:38 What Authenticity Actually Means</p><p>41:15 The Coming Age of Courage</p><p>42:14 Belonging vs. Fitting In</p><p>49:44 René Girard and Mimetic Desire</p><p>59:43 How Collective Illusions Can Shatter Overnight</p><p>1:05:58 The Velvet Revolution and the Power of Authenticity</p><p>1:12:09 How to Build the Muscle of Living in Truth</p><p>1:20:25 Todd&#39;s Personal Collective Illusion: Faith and Identity</p><p>1:24:34 Spiritual Exploration and Holding Beliefs Lightly</p><p>1:32:23 Certainty and Knowledge Are Inversely Correlated</p><p>1:41:42 Fulfillment Over Achievement</p><p>1:50:31 Small Actions That Raise Collective Consciousness</p><p>___________</p><p><br></p><p>✨MORE FROM TODD</p><p>↳Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ltoddrose/</p><p>↳Populace: https://populace.org</p><p>↳https://www.toddrose.com/</p><p><br></p><p>📜MORE FROM KNOW THYSELF</p><p>↳Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4bZMq9l</p><p>↳Apple: https://apple.co/4iATICX</p><p>↳Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knowthyself/</p><p>↳TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@andreduqum</p><p>↳Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/knowthyselfbyandreduqum/</p><p>↳https://knowthyselfpodcast.com/</p><p><br></p><p>👁️MORE FROM ANDRÉ</p><p>↳Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/@andreduqum</p><p>↳Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/know-thyself-podcast</p><p>↳Book recs: https://www.knowthyselfpodcast.com/book-list</p>