<p>Amanda Rae (<a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCothAd8pDNKivIXtAIxQBVQ" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> @TheAmandaRaeGrant </a>) shares 3 of her most prominent and shocking post-cult relationships, full of betrayal and manipulation. High control groups, by design, eliminate intuition, manipulate people into doing things they don’t want to do, and make them believe they are freely choosing that lifestyle. This can also happen in relationships. It’s far too common for cult survivors to fall prey to people who can take advantage of their vulnerabilities. <a href="https://youtu.be/TF3fvDVQAPo?si=oUfWXqJNvpc2pPR_" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Check out Shelise’s horror stories on Amanda’s channel </a> Find and support Amanda! YouTube: ​⁠​⁠<a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCothAd8pDNKivIXtAIxQBVQ" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> @TheAmandaRaeGrant </a> IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/amandaraegrant?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">@amandaraegrant </a> If you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at <a href="https://holdingouthelp.org/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">www.holdingouthelp.org</a></p> <p><br /></p> <p><a href="https://cults-to-consciousness-shop.fourthwall.com/en-usd" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Our Merch!</a></p> <p>Patreon:<a href="https://www.patreon.com/cultstoconsciousness" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon.com/cultstoconsciousness</a></p> <p>Venmo @sheliseann</p> <p>Website <a href="https://www.sheliseannsola.com/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">CultsToConsciousness.com</a></p> <p><br /></p> <p>Find Shelise on Social media!</p> <p>Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cultstoconsiousness" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@cultstoconsciousness</a></p> <p>Host Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sheliseann/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@sheliseann</a></p> <p>TikTok<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@cults.to.consciousness" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> @cults.to.consciousness</a></p> <p>Twitter <a href="https://twitter.com/cultstocon" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@cultstocon</a></p> <p><br /></p> <p>Chapter Marks 00:00:00 Intro 00:03:00 Are bad relationships due to daddy issues? 00:06:43 What it was like growing up in The Order 00:14:29 Living in different mental worlds 00:16:22 The impact of a parent's prejudice on their chiIdren 00:18:14 Issues from the cult that lingered after getting out 00:21:11 Amanda's box of clothes 00:22:54 Cult men and narcissistic tendencies 00:25:01 Amanda's still in the cult mindset after leaving 00:27:32 Spiritual manipulation in relationships 00:29:00 A narcissist's lack of empathy and awareness 00:33:13 Leaving narcissistic relationships vs leaving The Order 00:36:35 Continuously in bad relationships after leaving a cult 00:37:28 Amanda's 2nd toxic relationship 00:45:20 Amanda's toxic behavior 00:51:19 Amanda's 3rd toxic relationship 00:52:02 Issues with love-bombing 00:54:21 Amanda's qualifications for relationships now 00:55:41 Amanda's most recent relationship 00:58:26 Little things that add up 01:01:09 The last straw 01:11:17 The good that came of it and meeting Winston's ex 01:14:00 The saga continues... in court 01:27:37 Emotional intelligence and accountability 01:31:45 What helped Shelise? 01:35:09 Listen, Linda 01:35:47 Outro Theme Song Produced and Composed by Christian Guevara **Disclaimer: Thanks for joining us at Cults to Consciousness. This storytelling podcast is meant to be for entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for medical advice. We may discuss triggering topics and we ask that you make your personal mental health a priority. Lastly, the opinions of our guests do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the host.**</p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cults-to-consciousness/support" rel="payment">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cults-to-consciousness/support</a>

Cults to Consciousness

Shelise Ann Sola

How Incestuous Polygamy Cult Led Her to Dangerous Toxic Relationships (ft. @TheAmandaRaeGrant )

OCT 31, 202497 MIN
Cults to Consciousness

How Incestuous Polygamy Cult Led Her to Dangerous Toxic Relationships (ft. @TheAmandaRaeGrant )

OCT 31, 202497 MIN

Description

<p>Amanda Rae (<a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCothAd8pDNKivIXtAIxQBVQ" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> @TheAmandaRaeGrant </a>) shares 3 of her most prominent and shocking post-cult relationships, full of betrayal and manipulation. High control groups, by design, eliminate intuition, manipulate people into doing things they don’t want to do, and make them believe they are freely choosing that lifestyle. This can also happen in relationships. It’s far too common for cult survivors to fall prey to people who can take advantage of their vulnerabilities. <a href="https://youtu.be/TF3fvDVQAPo?si=oUfWXqJNvpc2pPR_" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Check out Shelise’s horror stories on Amanda’s channel </a> Find and support Amanda! YouTube: ​⁠​⁠<a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCothAd8pDNKivIXtAIxQBVQ" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> @TheAmandaRaeGrant </a> IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/amandaraegrant?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">@amandaraegrant </a> If you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at <a href="https://holdingouthelp.org/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">www.holdingouthelp.org</a></p> <p><br /></p> <p><a href="https://cults-to-consciousness-shop.fourthwall.com/en-usd" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Our Merch!</a></p> <p>Patreon:<a href="https://www.patreon.com/cultstoconsciousness" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> Patreon.com/cultstoconsciousness</a></p> <p>Venmo @sheliseann</p> <p>Website <a href="https://www.sheliseannsola.com/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">CultsToConsciousness.com</a></p> <p><br /></p> <p>Find Shelise on Social media!</p> <p>Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cultstoconsiousness" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@cultstoconsciousness</a></p> <p>Host Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sheliseann/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@sheliseann</a></p> <p>TikTok<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@cults.to.consciousness" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> @cults.to.consciousness</a></p> <p>Twitter <a href="https://twitter.com/cultstocon" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@cultstocon</a></p> <p><br /></p> <p>Chapter Marks 00:00:00 Intro 00:03:00 Are bad relationships due to daddy issues? 00:06:43 What it was like growing up in The Order 00:14:29 Living in different mental worlds 00:16:22 The impact of a parent's prejudice on their chiIdren 00:18:14 Issues from the cult that lingered after getting out 00:21:11 Amanda's box of clothes 00:22:54 Cult men and narcissistic tendencies 00:25:01 Amanda's still in the cult mindset after leaving 00:27:32 Spiritual manipulation in relationships 00:29:00 A narcissist's lack of empathy and awareness 00:33:13 Leaving narcissistic relationships vs leaving The Order 00:36:35 Continuously in bad relationships after leaving a cult 00:37:28 Amanda's 2nd toxic relationship 00:45:20 Amanda's toxic behavior 00:51:19 Amanda's 3rd toxic relationship 00:52:02 Issues with love-bombing 00:54:21 Amanda's qualifications for relationships now 00:55:41 Amanda's most recent relationship 00:58:26 Little things that add up 01:01:09 The last straw 01:11:17 The good that came of it and meeting Winston's ex 01:14:00 The saga continues... in court 01:27:37 Emotional intelligence and accountability 01:31:45 What helped Shelise? 01:35:09 Listen, Linda 01:35:47 Outro Theme Song Produced and Composed by Christian Guevara **Disclaimer: Thanks for joining us at Cults to Consciousness. This storytelling podcast is meant to be for entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for medical advice. We may discuss triggering topics and we ask that you make your personal mental health a priority. Lastly, the opinions of our guests do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the host.**</p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cults-to-consciousness/support" rel="payment">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cults-to-consciousness/support</a>