As we approach the holiday season, Shawna wanted to share a heartfelt and deeply reflective guest episode featuring Diane Schroeder, host of The Fire Inside Her. In this special episode, Diane explores the complex emotions that often accompany this time of year, with a focus on grief, gratitude, and growth. Departing from the traditional joyous holiday narrative, Diane shares an honest conversation acknowledging that the holidays can highlight loss, unmet goals, and personal grief. Discover how the wisdom gained from navigating grief can lead to personal growth and find inspiration to celebrate the holiday season authentically. Through her stories and reflections, Diane demonstrates how these emotions can coexist with gratitude and inspire meaningful personal growth. Tune in to this episode for a heartfelt conversation that will resonate with anyone navigating loss and searching for meaning during this time of year.

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In this episode of The Grit Show, host Shawna Rodrigues welcomes ICF-certified coach Debbi Mahilum to explore the intersection of neuroscience and spiritual wisdom for reprogramming the brain. They discuss transformative techniques like cold water therapy and the Choose Again method by Gabby Bernstein. Discover how positive self-talk and engaging with high-energy individuals can drastically improve your reality. Reflect on the past year with actionable insights and find out how balancing work and recreation leads to overall life satisfaction. Mahilum shares her expertise in mindset coaching while Shawna provides personal stories that illustrate the power of mood and expectation. Tune in for a unique blend of neuroscience, spirituality, and practical advice to gear up for a successful 2025.

Debbi Mahilum helps people tap into their limitless potential. As an ICF-Certified Coach with expertise in neuroscience, mindset, and all things Universe, Debbi’s unique approach bridges the gap where 'science meets Spirituality'. She’s known for empowering her clients to rewire their thinking, align their actions with their desires, and create lasting, tangible success. She stands out by blending cutting-edge neuroscience with spiritual principles in a way that’s both accessible and actionable. The results? Long-term mindset shifts that lead to continued personal and professional growth.

Debbi is all about the small moves that make a BIG impact! Most importantly, she’s here to help her clients feel supported, inspired, and capable of achieving the change they’ve been dreaming of. In one-on-one sessions or group programs, she creates heart-centered spaces where transformation is not just possible—it’s inevitable.

In this episode of "The Grit Show," Shawna Rodrigues reflects on the importance of balancing personal goals and professional pursuits. She shares her journey of self-reflection, emphasizing the need to let go of beliefs that no longer serve her goals for 2024. Topics like time management, rest, and the intriguing concept of "Words of the Year" are highlighted, shedding light on how words like "believe" have shaped her success. Shawna’s relatable struggles with balancing busyness and leisure offer valuable insights for those looking to achieve a more harmonious lifestyle. Don't miss out on practical tips and meaningful reflections designed to help you align your personal and professional life goals.

This episode of The Grit Show is a must-listen for anyone looking to boost their motivation and personal growth. Host Shawna Rodrigues breaks down the Four Core Expectation Framework (which is commonly called The Four Tendencies), emphasizing how obligers and rebels uniquely respond to tasks and expectations. Learn why obligers, who excel with external motivation, struggle with internal goals, and how you can support them to prevent burnout. Shawna also highlights rebel tendencies and shares her personal experience on effective communication strategies with rebels. From recognizing early signs of "Obliger Rebellion" to aligning tasks with a rebel's personal values, Shawna's insights are both practical and profound. Intrigued by how these principles can make life smoother? Tune in to gain a better understanding and actionable steps for yourself and others.

Get ready for a refreshing take on holiday hosting. This week on "The Grit Show," Shawna Rodrigues chats with the ever-inspiring inspiring Mara Derikx about easing the holiday mental load. Discover thoughtful tips for tackling tricky holiday hosting challenges, from managing the mental load to knowing what to let go of... and when to rely on options that are store-bought. Uncover the art of simplifying holiday dinners with clever meal-sharing strategies.

This episode also tackles the awkward realities of hosting, like stocking your guest bathroom and setting up effective food stations. Moreover, Shawna and Mara unpack the pressure-cooker of traditional expectations, urging listeners to remember what things bring them pleasure and reminding them you can find joy in small gatherings and smart task delegation. Tune in to transform your festive season into a meaningful, low-stress experience filled with genuine connections.

Mara offers a fabulous (and simple) holiday beverage recipe at the end of the episode and mentions a holiday challenge that you'll want to follow along on her Instagram to learn when it may start (will also update the show notes when the time comes!).

Mara Derikx, the Joyful Hostess, brings over 20 years of entertaining expertise to help others create memorable gatherings with less stress. Growing up in a family that celebrated every occasion, she discovered her passion for hosting early on. After spending nearly 15 years as a financial planner, Mara transformed her hosting philosophy to suit modern, busy lifestyles. She shares invaluable tips for decorating, time and money-saving strategies, organizational techniques, and crowd-pleasing recipes. Drawing from her experience hosting everything from intimate dinner parties to large corporate events, Mara teaches a simplified approach to entertaining that favors connection over perfection. Her motto, "less perfection, more connection," reflects her belief that life's too short not to enjoy your own party.

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