Alexis & I discuss leaving the hard grind of the hypermasculine and slipping into a slower, fuller, more feminine way of being. She opens up about the night ayahuasca called her in, the decision to remove her IUD after twelve years, and how her libido and emotional depth surged back the moment she started listening to her body again.We delve into the 10-second rule that draws men into deeper communication, the breath that pulls you out of survival mode, and the kind of softening that makes connection feel hotter, safer, and more genuine.This is a rich, grounded, sensual dive into desire, self-mastery, nervous system truth, and what happens when you finally let your body lead.Chapters:00:00 - Introduction01:22 - Self-Mastery & Shifting into the Feminine07:18 - Medicine vs. Escape09:42 - Communication Shifts After Softening11:09 - Heard, Helped, or Held?13:45 - Curiosity Over Defensiveness15:30 - Nervous System Regulation Tools20:02 - Polarity & Inspiring Masculine Presence24:30 - Enthusiasm: The Feminine Superpower27:25 - Setting Men Up to Win32:10 - Speaking Desires Clearly34:00 - Rebuilding Trust After Rupture40:10 - Truth-Telling & Emotional Clarity45:20 - Clarity in Dating & Relationships53:02 - Expanding the Capacity to Feel58:16 - Being Human & Remembering Why We're HereConnect with Alexis: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisquiterioWebsite: https://stan.store/alexisquiterioConnect with Kristin:WebsiteInstagramYouTube Kristin's Best-Selling Book:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sex, Drugs, & Soul on Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify Audiobook Link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Podcast:YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For 10% off pleasure goodies at WAANDS, use code SEXDRUGSSOUL.