The Red Lipstick Moment: How I Remembered the Woman I Forgot
JUN 18, 202515 MIN
The Red Lipstick Moment: How I Remembered the Woman I Forgot
JUN 18, 202515 MIN
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<p>š The Red Lipstick Moment: A Love Letter to the Woman in the Mirror</p><p><em>Coming home to yourself starts with a reflection.</em></p><p>What if one small act ā like putting on red lipstick ā could crack you open?</p><p>In this deeply personal solo episode, Julz shares the quiet turning point that reconnected her with her power, her reflection, and her <em>divine feminine essence.</em> Itās not about makeup. Itās about choosing to be seen ā first by yourself.</p><p>Inside:š The surprising story behind her signature red lipstickš The awakening moment that changed how she shows upš„ A challenge to find your own sacred daily ritual of pleasure</p><p>This episode marks a new chapter ā a shift toward small luxuries, radical self-love, and remembering who you were before the world told you otherwise.</p><p>When was the last time you truly saw yourself?Not through a to-do list.Not through your childrenās eyes.Not filtered through expectations.But truly ā just you, looking back at you.</p><p>I had that moment. And it started with red lipstick.Yes ā that one.</p><p>Youāve probably seen me wear it.You may have noticed.You may love it or not.And Iām okay with both. Because there was a time⦠I couldnāt stand the sight of me.</p><p>Before the Lipstick</p><p>I used to hide.</p><p>Like many women, I believed being small made me safe.Blending in made me lovable.</p><p>At the time, color scared me.Visibility? Terrified me.A red matte lipstick? Permanent and bold? That felt like an act of rebellion.But one day, a friend dragged me to Sephora and said, <em>āTry this. Just once.ā</em>I did. I covered my mouth with a book on the ride home.I was afraid to be seen.</p><p>But when I walked through the door, my (now ex) husband looked at me with surprise ā and approval.Not because I was prettier. But because I was <strong>present</strong>. Alive.</p><p>The next day, I wore it to work.Same thing. Compliments. Connection. Confidence.</p><p>And yet ā life happened. Kids, divorce, exhaustion.I forgot her.Until COVID.</p><p>The Mirror, Again</p><p>During lockdown, while searching for a lipstick that wouldnāt rub off under a mask, I hesitantly picked up red again.I applied it and looked in the mirror.</p><p>And there she was.</p><p>Not just a mother.Not just a wife or an ex.Not a tired woman with responsibilities.</p><p>I saw a <strong>woman in her power</strong>.A woman with potential, beauty, magic.A woman I had forgotten⦠but who had been waiting for me all along.</p><p>That was my <em>red lipstick moment</em>.</p><p>Your Turn: What Awakens <em>You</em>?</p><p>Itās not about lipstick. Itās about <strong>permission</strong>.To stand out.To love what you see.To stop waiting for someone else to tell you: <em>āYouāre allowed.ā</em></p><p>Maybe for you itās a certain perfume.Or dancing in your kitchen barefoot.Or that espresso in silence before the house wakes.Or putting on a silk robe, just because.</p><p>Whatās your tiny, sacred ritual?What awakens <em>you</em>?</p><p>What's Coming</p><p>This isnāt just a personal story. Itās a new direction.Iām building a space ā blog, podcast, Pinterest, and beyond ā for women (and soulful men, too) who are ready to:</p><p>⨠Reclaim their divine feminineš Create daily rituals that feel like luxuryš· Enjoy wine, fun, coffee, beauty, sensuality ā unapologeticallyš Share their āRed Lipstickā awakening momentš Travel and remember who they are, one destination at a time</p><p>š I Want to Feature YOU</p><p>If this stirred something in you⦠tell me about it.Hit reply or email me your story. Iāll be publishing select submissions in my digital magazine and blog ā the sacred little luxuries edition.</p><p>Your moment deserves to be witnessed.Letās remind each other what power, beauty, and receiving really look like.</p><p>This is your Sacred YES.Iām so glad youāre here.With love and lipstick,<strong>Julz</strong></p><p>š <a target="_blank" href="https://www.instagram.com/winefuncoffee">Follow me on Instagram @WineFunCoffee</a> for behind-the-scenes, rituals, travel inspo & divine femme delights.</p><p>Reply to this email with YOUR āwake-up momentā or transformation story.</p><p>We may select it be published here or in our magazine⦠youāll hear from me.</p> <br/><br/>Get full access to Positive Impact TV at <a href="https://digitalpr.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4">digitalpr.substack.com/subscribe</a>