<description>&lt;p&gt;šŸ’‹ The Red Lipstick Moment: A Love Letter to the Woman in the Mirror&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Coming home to yourself starts with a reflection.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What if one small act — like putting on red lipstick — could crack you open?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this deeply personal solo episode, Julz shares the quiet turning point that reconnected her with her power, her reflection, and her &lt;em&gt;divine feminine essence.&lt;/em&gt; It’s not about makeup. It’s about choosing to be seen — first by yourself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Inside:šŸ’‹ The surprising story behind her signature red lipstickšŸ‘‘ The awakening moment that changed how she shows upšŸ”„ A challenge to find your own sacred daily ritual of pleasure&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This episode marks a new chapter — a shift toward small luxuries, radical self-love, and remembering who you were before the world told you otherwise.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When was the last time you truly saw yourself?Not through a to-do list.Not through your children’s eyes.Not filtered through expectations.But truly — just you, looking back at you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I had that moment. And it started with red lipstick.Yes — that one.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You’ve probably seen me wear it.You may have noticed.You may love it or not.And I’m okay with both. Because there was a time… I couldn’t stand the sight of me.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Before the Lipstick&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I used to hide.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Like many women, I believed being small made me safe.Blending in made me lovable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;At the time, color scared me.Visibility? Terrified me.A red matte lipstick? Permanent and bold? That felt like an act of rebellion.But one day, a friend dragged me to Sephora and said, &lt;em&gt;ā€œTry this. Just once.ā€&lt;/em&gt;I did. I covered my mouth with a book on the ride home.I was afraid to be seen.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But when I walked through the door, my (now ex) husband looked at me with surprise — and approval.Not because I was prettier. But because I was &lt;strong&gt;present&lt;/strong&gt;. Alive.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The next day, I wore it to work.Same thing. Compliments. Connection. Confidence.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And yet — life happened. Kids, divorce, exhaustion.I forgot her.Until COVID.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Mirror, Again&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;During lockdown, while searching for a lipstick that wouldn’t rub off under a mask, I hesitantly picked up red again.I applied it and looked in the mirror.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And there she was.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Not just a mother.Not just a wife or an ex.Not a tired woman with responsibilities.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I saw a &lt;strong&gt;woman in her power&lt;/strong&gt;.A woman with potential, beauty, magic.A woman I had forgotten… but who had been waiting for me all along.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;That was my &lt;em&gt;red lipstick moment&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Your Turn: What Awakens &lt;em&gt;You&lt;/em&gt;?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It’s not about lipstick. It’s about &lt;strong&gt;permission&lt;/strong&gt;.To stand out.To love what you see.To stop waiting for someone else to tell you: &lt;em&gt;ā€œYou’re allowed.ā€&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Maybe for you it’s a certain perfume.Or dancing in your kitchen barefoot.Or that espresso in silence before the house wakes.Or putting on a silk robe, just because.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What’s your tiny, sacred ritual?What awakens &lt;em&gt;you&lt;/em&gt;?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What's Coming&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This isn’t just a personal story. It’s a new direction.I’m building a space — blog, podcast, Pinterest, and beyond — for women (and soulful men, too) who are ready to:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;✨ Reclaim their divine femininešŸ› Create daily rituals that feel like luxuryšŸ· Enjoy wine, fun, coffee, beauty, sensuality — unapologeticallyšŸ’‹ Share their ā€œRed Lipstickā€ awakening momentšŸŒ Travel and remember who they are, one destination at a time&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;šŸ’Œ I Want to Feature YOU&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If this stirred something in you… tell me about it.Hit reply or email me your story. I’ll be publishing select submissions in my digital magazine and blog — the sacred little luxuries edition.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Your moment deserves to be witnessed.Let’s remind each other what power, beauty, and receiving really look like.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is your Sacred YES.I’m so glad you’re here.With love and lipstick,&lt;strong&gt;Julz&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;šŸ“Œ &lt;a target="_blank" href="https://www.instagram.com/winefuncoffee"&gt;Follow me on Instagram @WineFunCoffee&lt;/a&gt; for behind-the-scenes, rituals, travel inspo &amp; divine femme delights.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Reply to this email with YOUR ā€˜wake-up moment’ or transformation story.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We may select it be published here or in our magazine… you’ll hear from me.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Get full access to Positive Impact TV at &lt;a href="https://digitalpr.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&amp;#38;utm_campaign=CTA_4"&gt;digitalpr.substack.com/subscribe&lt;/a&gt;</description>

Positive Impact TV

Julz Vitality

The Red Lipstick Moment: How I Remembered the Woman I Forgot

JUN 18, 202515 MIN
Positive Impact TV

The Red Lipstick Moment: How I Remembered the Woman I Forgot

JUN 18, 202515 MIN

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<p>šŸ’‹ The Red Lipstick Moment: A Love Letter to the Woman in the Mirror</p><p><em>Coming home to yourself starts with a reflection.</em></p><p>What if one small act — like putting on red lipstick — could crack you open?</p><p>In this deeply personal solo episode, Julz shares the quiet turning point that reconnected her with her power, her reflection, and her <em>divine feminine essence.</em> It’s not about makeup. It’s about choosing to be seen — first by yourself.</p><p>Inside:šŸ’‹ The surprising story behind her signature red lipstickšŸ‘‘ The awakening moment that changed how she shows upšŸ”„ A challenge to find your own sacred daily ritual of pleasure</p><p>This episode marks a new chapter — a shift toward small luxuries, radical self-love, and remembering who you were before the world told you otherwise.</p><p>When was the last time you truly saw yourself?Not through a to-do list.Not through your children’s eyes.Not filtered through expectations.But truly — just you, looking back at you.</p><p>I had that moment. And it started with red lipstick.Yes — that one.</p><p>You’ve probably seen me wear it.You may have noticed.You may love it or not.And I’m okay with both. Because there was a time… I couldn’t stand the sight of me.</p><p>Before the Lipstick</p><p>I used to hide.</p><p>Like many women, I believed being small made me safe.Blending in made me lovable.</p><p>At the time, color scared me.Visibility? Terrified me.A red matte lipstick? Permanent and bold? That felt like an act of rebellion.But one day, a friend dragged me to Sephora and said, <em>ā€œTry this. Just once.ā€</em>I did. I covered my mouth with a book on the ride home.I was afraid to be seen.</p><p>But when I walked through the door, my (now ex) husband looked at me with surprise — and approval.Not because I was prettier. But because I was <strong>present</strong>. Alive.</p><p>The next day, I wore it to work.Same thing. Compliments. Connection. Confidence.</p><p>And yet — life happened. Kids, divorce, exhaustion.I forgot her.Until COVID.</p><p>The Mirror, Again</p><p>During lockdown, while searching for a lipstick that wouldn’t rub off under a mask, I hesitantly picked up red again.I applied it and looked in the mirror.</p><p>And there she was.</p><p>Not just a mother.Not just a wife or an ex.Not a tired woman with responsibilities.</p><p>I saw a <strong>woman in her power</strong>.A woman with potential, beauty, magic.A woman I had forgotten… but who had been waiting for me all along.</p><p>That was my <em>red lipstick moment</em>.</p><p>Your Turn: What Awakens <em>You</em>?</p><p>It’s not about lipstick. It’s about <strong>permission</strong>.To stand out.To love what you see.To stop waiting for someone else to tell you: <em>ā€œYou’re allowed.ā€</em></p><p>Maybe for you it’s a certain perfume.Or dancing in your kitchen barefoot.Or that espresso in silence before the house wakes.Or putting on a silk robe, just because.</p><p>What’s your tiny, sacred ritual?What awakens <em>you</em>?</p><p>What's Coming</p><p>This isn’t just a personal story. It’s a new direction.I’m building a space — blog, podcast, Pinterest, and beyond — for women (and soulful men, too) who are ready to:</p><p>✨ Reclaim their divine femininešŸ› Create daily rituals that feel like luxuryšŸ· Enjoy wine, fun, coffee, beauty, sensuality — unapologeticallyšŸ’‹ Share their ā€œRed Lipstickā€ awakening momentšŸŒ Travel and remember who they are, one destination at a time</p><p>šŸ’Œ I Want to Feature YOU</p><p>If this stirred something in you… tell me about it.Hit reply or email me your story. I’ll be publishing select submissions in my digital magazine and blog — the sacred little luxuries edition.</p><p>Your moment deserves to be witnessed.Let’s remind each other what power, beauty, and receiving really look like.</p><p>This is your Sacred YES.I’m so glad you’re here.With love and lipstick,<strong>Julz</strong></p><p>šŸ“Œ <a target="_blank" href="https://www.instagram.com/winefuncoffee">Follow me on Instagram @WineFunCoffee</a> for behind-the-scenes, rituals, travel inspo & divine femme delights.</p><p>Reply to this email with YOUR ā€˜wake-up moment’ or transformation story.</p><p>We may select it be published here or in our magazine… you’ll hear from me.</p> <br/><br/>Get full access to Positive Impact TV at <a href="https://digitalpr.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_4">digitalpr.substack.com/subscribe</a>