<description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode, I talk about…&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;The difference between supporting someone and trying to save them&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How to offer presence without absorbing responsibility&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why real love requires patience, emotional steadiness, and self-regulation&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How God guides us through invitation, not pressure&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;What happens when you stop managing people’s growth and start trusting their process&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How to create emotional safety instead of urgency&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why fixer energy accidentally creates distance (even with good intentions)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How to shift from fear-driven control to faith-driven connection&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;and more.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;CONNECT WITH ME…&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;→ Instagram — &lt;a href="https://instagram.com/mattgottesman" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;@mattgottesman&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;→ My Substack — &lt;a href="http://mattgottesman.substack.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;mattgottesman.substack.com&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;→ Apparel — &lt;a href="https://thenicheisyou.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;thenicheisyou.com&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;RESOURCES…&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;→ Recommended Book List — &lt;a href="https://amzn.to/40JQsNs" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;CLICK HERE&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;→ Masterclass — &lt;a href="https://www.mattgottesman.com/niche-is-you-os" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;CLICK HERE&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;WORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;→ &lt;strong&gt;Need MORE clarity&lt;/strong&gt;? - Here’s the &lt;strong&gt;FREE&lt;/strong&gt;… &lt;a href="https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;6 Days to Clarity Workshop&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work &amp;amp; play&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;→ &lt;a href="https://mattgottesman.com/niche-is-you-os" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio &amp;amp; OS&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion &amp;amp; income&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;OTHER RELATED EPISODES:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Answered Prayers Are Often Disguised As Uncomfortable Blessings&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Apple: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://apple.co/4hq1TBY" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://apple.co/3HTDsjG&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Spotify: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://spoti.fi/3OeSobr" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://bit.ly/3JYc4l7&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

The Niche Is You

Matthew Gottesman

We Don’t Need to Fix… We Need to Love

DEC 8, 202524 MIN
The Niche Is You

We Don’t Need to Fix… We Need to Love

DEC 8, 202524 MIN

Description

In this episode, I talk about…

  • The difference between supporting someone and trying to save them
  • How to offer presence without absorbing responsibility
  • Why real love requires patience, emotional steadiness, and self-regulation
  • How God guides us through invitation, not pressure
  • What happens when you stop managing people’s growth and start trusting their process
  • How to create emotional safety instead of urgency
  • Why fixer energy accidentally creates distance (even with good intentions)
  • How to shift from fear-driven control to faith-driven connection
  • and more.

 

CONNECT WITH ME…

→ Instagram — @mattgottesman

→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com 

→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.com

RESOURCES…

→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE

→ Masterclass — CLICK HERE


WORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:


→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play


→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income


OTHER RELATED EPISODES:

Answered Prayers Are Often Disguised As Uncomfortable Blessings

Apple: https://apple.co/3HTDsjG

Spotify: https://bit.ly/3JYc4l7