Send us Fan MailSometimes grief has a way of making us feel like we’re doing faith wrong, especially when we can’t “move on” or wrap our pain easily. On Good Friday, refuse to rush. Sit at the cross and let what is heavy be heavy, making space for the losses that can be named and the quiet ache that cannot. Start at a tomb in John 11, where the shortest line in Scripture becomes a lifeline: "Jesus wept". Not a polite tear, but real mourning. That moment reshapes Christian grief and pastoral care because it shows a God who does not stand far off from suffering. From there, move to the crucifixion and listen to Jesus pray Psalm 22, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” Lament is in no way rebellion. It’s a spiritual message of telling the truth in God’s presence. The cross becomes the safest place to bring your questions, your anger, your tears, and your exhaustion. Then, Holy Saturday, the in-between space after devastation and before any sense of resurrection, when time feels strange and comfort feels delayed. If you’re there right now, you’re not falling behind. Grief does not run on a schedule, and Jesus’ blessing over mourners makes room for slow healing. Take a quiet moment, name what you’re carrying, and place it at the foot of the cross. SPIRITUAL DIRECTION WHILE GRIEVING IS AVAILABLE :  [email protected] MY SUMMER WORKSHOP ON "SOULFUL LISTENING" THROUGH THE MARKEY CENTER AT SANTA CLARA UNIVERSITY VIA ZOOM.https://events.scu.edu/markey-center/event/359741-soulful-listening-workshops-on-the-ministry-ofArt:  https://www.etsy.com/shop/vasonaArts?ref=seller-platform-mcnavand  https://fineartamerica.com/profiles/candee-lucashttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F2SFH4Z6Music and sound effects today by:   via Pixabay