The Autism Little Learners Podcast

Have you ever wondered how to talk to children about autism in a way that feels natural, positive, and empowering? In this replay episode, I'm bringing back my incredibly insightful conversation with Andi Putt (Mrs. Speechie P) — an Autistic SLP who specializes in autism evaluations and neuro-affirming support.

Andi shares compassionate, practical ways to talk to autistic children about their identity, how to approach conversations with peers and siblings, and why starting these discussions early can make a profound impact on a child's confidence, self-understanding, and mental health. We also dive into how to use everyday moments to normalize autism, reduce stigma, and help all children grow in empathy and acceptance.

This is one of those episodes that educators and families continuously return to… and for good reason.

Takeaways

• Why conversations about autism should start early — and continue over time

• How explaining autism positively can support a child's self-concept and emotional well-being

• Simple, child-friendly ways to describe autism using strengths-based language

• Strategies for helping peers understand behaviors through empathy (including Andi's amazing "bear in the classroom" analogy)

• How open discussions reduce stigma, prevent bullying, and foster more inclusive classrooms

• Why kids are often more accepting and adaptable than adults assume

• How to avoid common mistakes adults make when talking about autism — and what to say instead

• The power of validating children's needs, identities, and differences without shame

• The importance of individualized support and asking children what they prefer or need

• How to talk about stimming, sensory overload, fight-or-flight responses, and regulation in ways young kids can understand

• Tips for sharing information with classmates (and when parent/child permission is needed)

Bio:

Andi Putt, also known as Mrs. Speechie P, is an Autistic Speech Language Pathologist specializing in team-based Autism evaluations and neuro-affirming support. She is dedicated to empowering families and helping Autistic children understand and embrace their authentic selves while also advocating for each individual's unique needs. When she's not advocating for others, you can find her indulging in a good book, planning her next travel adventure, procrastinating literally anything, or enjoying time with her family.

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In today's episode of The Autism Little Learners Podcast, I'm diving into one of the most meaningful parts of working with autistic preschoolers: connection. When we lead with compassion, honor sensory needs, and truly celebrate each child's unique way of being, we create the emotional safety that helps them learn, communicate, and thrive.

I'm sharing why stepping out of "teacher mode," validating autistic play, and tapping into deep interests are essential for forming authentic relationships. If you're ready for simple, practical strategies that build trust, reduce overwhelm, and create joyful, neuroaffirming classrooms and homes, this episode is for you.

• Building authentic connection creates a sense of emotional safety for autistic children.

• Sensory and regulation needs must be supported before meaningful connection can occur.

• A calm, steady adult presence helps children co-regulate and learn what regulation feels like.

• Stepping out of "teacher mode" makes connection more natural and less overwhelming.

• Autistic play is meaningful, valid, and should be honored rather than redirected.

• Deep interests are powerful bridges for building trust, engagement, and communication.

• Leading with compassion instead of compliance helps children feel seen, respected, and safe.

• Joyful, neuroaffirming environments increase engagement and support learning.

• Presuming competence communicates respect for all forms of communication and autonomy.

• Prioritizing connection has long-term positive effects on confidence, engagement, and overall development.

This week, we're bringing you an encore episode featuring Sarah Habib, founder of The Calm Caterpillar — and it's one worth revisiting. Sarah's work has made a powerful impact on classrooms and families across the country, helping children (both neurodivergent and neurotypical) learn to regulate big emotions with simple, practical tools.

In our conversation, Sarah shares how her calm corner kits, sensory supports, and breathing tools have transformed daily routines, reduced classroom disruptions, and created emotionally supportive spaces where kids can thrive. You'll also hear the incredible story of her work in Uvalde, Texas, and how she supported guidance counselors in building trauma-informed calm spaces for students.

Whether you missed this episode the first time or you're listening again to soak up more ideas, this encore is filled with actionable, compassionate strategies for creating neurodiversity-affirming environments.

Welcome back to the Autism Little Learners Podcast! Today, we're talking about something that often gets overlooked when we think about AAC and autism—teaching and honoring protests.

So often, AAC is used mostly for requesting items. But communication is about so much more. Autistic children need to know how to use their AAC systems for autism to say no, stop, don't like, all done, or help.

In this episode, I'll share why honoring protest is essential, what the difference is between acknowledging and honoring protests, and how modeling protest words on AAC for autistic kids builds trust, reduces frustration, and empowers children with self-advocacy.

I'll also walk you through the 8 Steps to Honor Protests—a simple framework you can start using right away in your classroom, therapy sessions, or at home.

So let's dive in and discover why protest isn't just communication—it's empowerment.

Takeaways:

AAC and autism go hand in hand—AAC should be used for more than requesting; it's for all communication.

Protest is valid communication, not misbehavior.

Honoring protests means changing, pausing, or stopping an activity when possible.

Acknowledging protests means validating and empathizing, even if you can't change what's happening.

AAC systems for autism should always include words for no, stop, don't like, all done, and different.

Modeling protest words daily helps children learn how to set boundaries and self-advocate.

Honoring protests builds trust and prevents escalation into meltdowns or shutdowns.

Following the 8 Steps to Honor Protests shifts teams and families from compliance to connection.

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Transitions happen all day long—moving from playtime to circle time, heading to lunch, or wrapping up to go home. For many autistic children, these changes can feel overwhelming, confusing, or even distressing. But with the right understanding and tools, we can make transitions smoother and more predictable.

In this episode, I'm diving into why transitions can be hard for autistic kids and sharing practical, compassionate strategies to support them. You'll learn how to ease anxiety, build predictability, and create routines that work for both you and your students or child.

Whether you're an educator, therapist, or parent, this episode will help you see transitions through an autistic lens—and give you ideas you can use right away to make them more successful.

Takeaways:

• Predictable routines help autistic children feel safe and secure.

• Transitions can cause anxiety due to uncertainty or sensory overwhelm.

• Executive functioning differences make shifting attention harder.

• Emotional attachments to activities can make ending them distressing.

• Monotropism explains deep focus—and how it can be both a challenge and a strength.

• Visual schedules and countdown tools (like a star chart or all-done bucket) create structure and comfort.

• Empathy, validation, and preparation go a long way.

• Video modeling can make transitions more concrete and successful.