Transforming 45
Transforming 45

Transforming 45

Lisa Boate

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Transforming 45 is where midlife gets real. Host Lisa Boate, menopause coach and educator, dives into the truth about perimenopause, menopause, identity shifts, and midlife reinvention. Through candid stories and menopause conversations with men and women, Lisa helps listeners understand their bodies, relationships, and purpose in this powerful chapter. Honest, funny, and empowering—this is your go-to podcast for thriving through midlife transformation.

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Sexy, Smart & In Control: Birth Control Without the BS with Saundra Pelletier
FEB 12, 2026
Sexy, Smart & In Control: Birth Control Without the BS with Saundra Pelletier
What if birth control didn’t come with daily hormones, side effects, or shame — and instead supported pleasure, autonomy, and confidence? This week Lisa welcomes Saundra Pelletier, CEO of Evofem Biosciences and the force behind Phexxi, the first hormone-free, on-demand prescription birth control. Together they explore the intersection of sexual health, empowerment, midlife identity, and why women deserve both protection and pleasure. This conversation moves beyond fear-based messaging into joy, agency, and informed choice — especially for women navigating perimenopause, postpartum years, or simply wanting an alternative to long-term synthetic hormones. What We Talk About Why traditional hormonal birth control may impact libido, mood, and identity The concept of a “Hormone Holiday” Perimenopause + still needing pregnancy protection Why women are conditioned to live with discomfort Teaching sons empathy and body literacy Pleasure as a revolutionary act Empowerment vs. fear-based sexual health messaging Reclaiming desire and confidence after 40 Key Takeaways You deserve options that align with your body and your life stage. Birth control does not need to equal daily medication. Sexual pleasure is not shameful — it is information, agency, and identity. Men want language and permission to participate in these conversations. Midlife is not the end of sexuality — it can be the beginning of intentional sexuality. Guest: Saundra Pelletier CEO of Evofem Biosciences, advocate for women’s reproductive health, and mission-driven leader bringing hormone-free contraceptive options into mainstream conversation. Connect with Saundra: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/saundra-pelletier/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saundrapelletier/, https://www.instagram.com/phexxi/ Website: sayvaginastore.com Let’s Stay Connected – Website: https://liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: @lboate Facebook: Liberated Menopause Facebook Group: Liberated Menopause Community Email: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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From “Is This Normal?” to “I Deserve Better” — A New Menopause Narrative with Shirley Weir
FEB 5, 2026
From “Is This Normal?” to “I Deserve Better” — A New Menopause Narrative with Shirley Weir
In this powerful conversation, Lisa sits down with Shirley Weir, founder of Menopause Chicks, to unpack what women truly need during perimenopause and menopause — not just hormone information, but clarity, critical thinking, and permission to advocate for themselves. They explore why so many women ask “Is this normal?”, how workplace stress and caregiving intersect with hormonal change, and why menopause is not something to “fix” but a transition that invites us to meet ourselves honestly and compassionately. What You’ll Learn: Why menopause hormone therapy is important — and not the whole story How to identify root causes (sleep, stress, cortisol, iron, burnout, identity shifts) The danger of normalizing women’s suffering Why informed decision-making is empowerment How menopause exposes systemic issues in workplaces Why midlife is a time to reclaim voice, agency, and worth How to stop “powering through” and start advocating Why you are the center of your healthcare team Key Topics: Perimenopause • Menopause hormone therapy • Insomnia • Cortisol & stress cycles • Bone health • Workplace advocacy • Women’s health literacy • Identity in midlife • Canadian menopause education • Critical thinking in healthcare • Menopause policy & leadership • Gen X women’s health About Shirley Weir: Shirley Weir is the founder of Menopause Chicks, one of Canada’s most trusted, evidence-informed menopause education platforms. Through community, workplace education, and advocacy, Shirley empowers women to understand their bodies, ask better questions, and make confident, informed health decisions in midlife and beyond. Connect with Shirley & Menopause Chicks: Website: https://menopausechicks.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/menopausechicksFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/menopausechicksCommunity & Programs: https://menopausechicks.com Let’s Stay Connected: Website: https://liberatedmenopause.caInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboateFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/LiberatedMenopauseFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/liberatedmenopause Email: [email protected] Free Guide: How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guilty Download at: https://liberatedmenopause.ca Transforming 45 episodes drop every Thursday. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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46 MIN
The 97% You’re Not Aware Of: Healing Your Subconscious in Midlife with Krishna Avalon
JAN 29, 2026
The 97% You’re Not Aware Of: Healing Your Subconscious in Midlife with Krishna Avalon
In this powerful midlife conversation, Lisa Boate sits down with healer and subconscious-mind expert Krishna Avalon to explore how women can reconnect with their inner compass, regulate their nervous systems, and stop abandoning themselves in midlife, parenting, and perimenopause. They unpack the difference between the conscious and subconscious mind, why 95% of our patterns live beneath awareness, and how trauma, boundaries, and sensory processing shape how we experience relationships, menopause, and the world. What You’ll Learn Why the subconscious mind drives 95–97% of your behavior and emotional responses How to stop people-pleasing and set boundaries without guilt Why perimenopause can feel like puberty in reverse—and why you deserve real support How highly sensitive, empathic women can stop carrying everyone else’s emotions Practical tools: breathwork, binaural beats, visualization, vision boards, and nervous-system regulation How parenting teens and young adults triggers identity shifts and abandonment wounds Why healing doesn’t have to be hard, and how safety in your body changes everything Key Themes: Subconscious reprogramming • Nervous system regulation • Midlife identity • Perimenopause brain fog • Boundaries • Empathy without self-abandonment • Parenting transitions • Somatic healing • Psych-K • Acupuncture • Internal Family Systems • Trauma-informed self-trust About Krishna Avalon: Krishna Avalon is a licensed acupuncturist, Psych-K facilitator, Reiki master, IFS practitioner, breathwork guide, and spiritual teacher who helps people transform subconscious patterns and reconnect with their inner safety and truth. Let’s Stay Connected: Website: https://liberatedmenopause.caInstagram: @lboateFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/Email: [email protected] Free Guide: How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guiltyhttps://pages.lisaboate.com/enrollment Connect with Krishna: 🌐 Website: https://www.krishnaavalon.com 📅 Book Sessions: https://krishnaavalon.janeapp.com/ 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/krishnaavalon/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/krishnaavalon/ 📧 Email: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Finding “Enough” in a World Obsessed With More with Hussein Halleck
JAN 22, 2026
Finding “Enough” in a World Obsessed With More with Hussein Halleck
In this episode of Transforming 45, Lisa Boate sits down with Hussein Halleck, a Syrian-born Canadian whose life journey spans cultures, identities, and profound inner work. Together they explore authenticity, modern parenting, mental health in the age of acceleration, and what it truly means to define “enough” on your own terms. This is a conversation about navigating uncertainty, mastering the inner game of life, and learning to live with compassion in a world that never slows down. Takeaways:  Authenticity and identity across cultures Parenting in an era of rapid social and technological change Mental health, nervous system overload, and modern life Redefining success and choosing “enough” Life mastery as an internal practice, not an external achievement Embracing uncertainty and the “dark arts” of self-discovery “Enough” is a personal choice, not a societal benchmark. Parenting is a co-evolution, not a one-way teaching role. Today’s children face emotional and systemic pressures unlike any previous generation. Technology accelerates life — and challenges our nervous systems and relationships. Understanding personal, community, and systemic domains helps us orient in complexity. True mastery is about inner alignment, not outer control. Compassion for self is essential in uncertain seasons of life. Embracing mystery can be a powerful path to growth and resilience. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Hussein Halleck 02:06 Hussein's Early Life and Background 06:20 Parenting and the Concept of Being a 'Clueless Father' 09:37 The Acceleration of Change in Modern Life 20:40 Navigating Personal, Community, and Systemic Domains 27:04 Understanding 'Enough' and Internal Choices 41:51 The Dark Arts of Life's Mastery Why This Episode Matters: If you’re navigating midlife, leadership, parenting teens or young adults, or simply questioning how to live well in a fast-moving world, this conversation offers grounded wisdom and permission to define success on your own term Let’s Stay Connected: Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Got questions or feedback? Drop us a message at [email protected] Download my Free Guide - How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guilty! Connect with Hussein: Website:  husseinhallak.com Substack: husseinhallak.substack.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/husseinhallak  BlueSky: darkal777.bsky.social  Instagram: instagram.com/hhdarkal/ Facebook: facebook.com/TheDarkArtMentor Key TopicsTakeaways  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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47 MIN
Listening as Foreplay: The Sexiest Skill No One Taught Us in Midlife with Carla Wainwright
JAN 15, 2026
Listening as Foreplay: The Sexiest Skill No One Taught Us in Midlife with Carla Wainwright
In this episode of Transforming 45, holistic wellness and sexual awakening facilitator Carla Wainwright shares how women over 40 can heal trauma, deepen intimacy, and reclaim pleasure by reconnecting with the wisdom of the body. We explore perimenopause, nervous system regulation, conscious communication, and why listening, really listening, is a revolutionary act in relationships. Carla blends science and sacred practice to help women move from survival mode into embodied presence, emotional safety, and fulfilling sexuality in midlife. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone navigating menopause, relationship shifts, or a desire for deeper connection and self-trust. Key Topics We Cover: • Trauma and the body in perimenopause • Why midlife can reawaken unhealed experiences • How to communicate without defensiveness • The role of pleasure and sexuality after 40 • Creating safety for vulnerability in relationships • Listening as a healing practice • The body’s innate intelligence • Walking and breath as nervous-system regulation tools • Expanding into a more conscious, compassionate love Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Holistic Wellness and Sexual Awakening 01:15 Carla's Journey: From Trauma to Transformation 08:33 Reconnecting with Nature and Childlike Wonder 13:42 Navigating Trauma and Healing in Perimenopause 19:41 The Impact of Physical Changes on Relationships 27:42 Creating Safe Spaces for Communication in Relationships 38:24 Resources for Vibrancy and Connection Stay Connected with Lisa Boate & Transforming 45 Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Got questions or feedback? Drop us a message at [email protected] Download my Free Guide - How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guilty! Connect with Carla: 🌿 Free Gift: https://vibrancyguide.com/ 🌐 Website: https://carlawainwright.com/📸 Instagram: @carlawainwright Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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41 MIN