E185: The Subconscious Basement (and Why I Take You There Anyway)
APR 14, 202625 MIN
E185: The Subconscious Basement (and Why I Take You There Anyway)
APR 14, 202625 MIN
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Send us Fan MailMost leaders I meet do not have a competence problem. They have a pressure problem and it is being powered by something older, quieter, and more persuasive than any plan on your calendar. When you keep telling yourself to delegate more, speak up more, or get more strategic, but nothing truly changes, it may be because you are trying to fix the main floor while the basement runs the house. I walk you into what I call the subconscious basement: the part of the subconscious mind that stores what feels safe, what feels risky, and who you believe you need to be to stay okay. We unpack how outdated beliefs can show up as micromanaging, overexplaining, holding back in meetings, or driving yourself and your team at a cost you cannot sustain. You will hear concrete leadership examples, plus the key insight that hits hard: the very behaviours you use for safety can create the overwhelm, low accountability, or invisibility you are trying to escape. We also dig into the saboteur framework and why I listen for the protector behind the pattern. That controller or hyperachiever is not a flaw, it is protection and once you see what it is trying to prevent, you can finally choose a new response. I share how my free saboteur discovery session works (book yours here), and learn about how deeper intuitive, somatic-style guidance can help you meet fear without getting swallowed by it, so your intuition sharpens and your decisions get clean. If you want leadership that creates results without burning you out, press play, share this with a leader who feels stuck, and subscribe, rate, and review so more people can find the work. What do you suspect is in your basement?Support the showPlease rate and review with your honest opinion. Subscribe and share with your colleagues especially if you have worked with me and found value in the work we’ve done together. Connect with me in my favourite places, LinkedIn and Instagram and my website is: https://www.cynthiajamiesoncoach.ca/Book a FREE Call to Explore CoachingMeet Me On The ArcJoin the Free CommunityJoin the Membership Make it a great week!Cynthia Jamieson 🧡🌱Leadership Coach | Creator of The Self-Trust Arc™ | Intuitive Intelligence® Guide | 🎙️ Host | Helping Leaders Lead From Self-Trust, Presence, and Truth