Hey Man; It's Ok

<p>In this powerful episode of <em>Hey Man; It’s Ok</em>, we sit down with <strong>American Ninja Warrior champion Jackson Erdos</strong> for one of the most honest conversations we’ve ever had.</p><p>Jackson shares his journey from elite youth athlete to world-class competitor—while quietly battling depression, anxiety, substance use, and suicidal ideation as a teenager. He opens up about checking himself into residential treatment, losing close friends to suicide, and learning that success without identity and support can still feel empty.</p><p>At just 18 years old, Jackson speaks with rare wisdom about:</p><ul><li>Why your identity is not your performance</li><li>How mental toughness isn’t about being emotionless</li><li>The danger of tying self-worth to success</li><li>What rehab, therapy, and community truly changed for him</li><li>Why “climbing the mountain” takes years—not 30 seconds</li><li>How coaching kids and serving others saved his life</li><li>Navigating fame, pressure, and expectations as a young man</li><li>Bridging mental health conversations in sports and youth culture</li></ul><p>Jackson also talks about his “You Matter / 988<strong>”</strong> initiative, donating proceeds to suicide prevention, and why showing vulnerability—especially as an athlete—is not weakness, but leadership.</p><p>This episode is for:</p><ul><li>Athletes and coaches</li><li>Parents of teens</li><li>Young men struggling silently</li><li>Anyone who feels like they should be “doing better” but isn’t</li></ul><p>If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or afraid to ask for help—this conversation is proof that <strong>healing is possible</strong> and that you don’t have to climb alone.</p><p>📍 <em>If you or someone you love is struggling, call or text 988 for the Suicide &amp; Crisis Lifeline.</em></p>

<p>In this deeply honest episode of <em>Hey Man; It’s Ok</em>, hosts <strong>Sky Bridges</strong> and <strong>Ryan Heapy </strong>sit down with <strong>Minh Nguyen</strong>, a longtime friend, father, and entrepreneur, to share a raw conversation about <strong>shame, success, financial collapse, and choosing to stay alive</strong>.</p><p>Minh opens up about his childhood growing up in a <strong>cult-like church</strong>, the pressure to perform and succeed, and how those early experiences shaped his identity as a man. He shares the staggering rise and fall of his career in the mortgage industry—including losing <strong>over $1.1 million</strong>—and the emotional toll that followed.</p><p>At his lowest point, Minh found himself battling <strong>suicidal thoughts</strong>, overwhelmed by shame and the belief that he had failed his family. What followed was a turning point that changed how he defines success, fatherhood, and self-worth.</p><p>In this episode, we talk about:</p><ul><li>How shame quietly fuels depression in men</li><li>What happens when external success collapses</li><li>Navigating suicidal thoughts and asking for help</li><li>Escaping high-control belief systems</li><li>The pressure of social media and comparison</li><li>Breaking generational cycles as a parent</li><li>Redefining success, masculinity, and legacy</li><li>Learning self-compassion after failure</li></ul><p>This conversation is for men who feel like they’re <strong>carrying everything alone</strong>, who’ve tied their worth to performance, or who are silently struggling behind the appearance of “having it together.”</p><p>If you’re in a hard season, you’re not broken—and you’re not alone.</p><p>Because here, <strong>it’s ok to not be ok</strong>.</p><p>⏱️ Timestamps</p><p>00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome </p><p>01:02 Growing Up in a High-Control Church </p><p>02:06 Rise and Pressure in the Mortgage Industry </p><p>04:05 Success, Shame, and Identity </p><p>05:05 Financial Collapse and Emotional Fallout </p><p>06:43 Suicidal Thoughts and the Turning Point </p><p>08:34 Rebuilding Life and Finding Purpose </p><p>16:18 Stability, Healing, and Future Goals </p><p>18:39 Breaking Cycles Through Fatherhood </p><p>19:25 Parenting in a Social Media World </p><p>20:05 Social Media, Comparison, and Pressure </p><p>21:32 Leadership, Resilience, and Teams </p><p>23:29 Perfectionism and Authenticity </p><p>5:16 Life Reflections and Growth </p><p>26:41 Self-Love and Men’s Mental Health </p><p>31:01 Legacy, Healing, and What’s Next </p><p>34:04 Final Thoughts</p>

<p>In this thought-provoking episode of <em>Hey Man; It’s Ok</em>, Sky Bridges and licensed marriage and family therapist Ryan Heapy sit down with <strong>Zander Keig</strong>—a veteran, licensed social worker, author, and bridge-builder—to explore how men can protect their mental health in an increasingly <strong>polarized and divided world</strong>.</p><p>Zander shares insights from his life growing up in a Mexican Catholic family in Los Angeles, his time working with veterans at the VA, and his work with organizations like <strong>Braver Angels</strong> and the Prohuman Foundation (<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://www.prohumanfoundation.org/">http://www.prohumanfoundation.org/)</a> . Together, the conversation digs into depolarization, empathy, identity, and why learning to see the <em>human</em> behind opposing beliefs is essential for personal wellbeing and societal healing.</p><p>In this episode, we explore:</p><ul><li>Why polarization is destroying families, relationships, and mental health</li><li>How men can engage in difficult conversations without losing themselves</li><li>The difference between activism and bridge building</li><li>Why social media amplifies division—and what happens when you step away</li><li>How identity, belief systems, and lived experience shape conflict</li><li>What it really means to be “pro-human”</li><li>Why time, place, and language matter in hard conversations</li><li>How prioritizing your own wellbeing makes you a better ally and leader</li></ul><p>Zander also talks about his book <strong><em>The Third Space: A Non-Conformist Guide to the Universe</em></strong>, his podcasts <em>The Third Space</em> and <em>The Umbrella Hour</em>, and leaves listeners with a powerful call to action: <strong>invest in your own mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual wellbeing—because change starts with you.</strong></p><p>This episode is for men who:</p><ul><li>Feel exhausted by political and cultural conflict</li><li>Want to stay connected without losing their values</li><li>Are navigating family tension, identity, or burnout</li><li>Believe empathy is strength—not weakness</li></ul><p>Because it’s ok to not be ok —and it’s okay to choose humanity over division.</p>

<p>In this powerful episode of <strong>Hey Man; It’s Ok</strong>, hosts <strong>Sky Bridges</strong> and <strong>Ryan Heapy, LMFT</strong> sit down with <strong>Corey Corpodian</strong>—a board-certified orthodontist, entrepreneur, and mental health advocate—to explore the hidden cost of high achievement and the life-changing power of <strong>emotional fitness</strong>.</p><p>Corey shares his deeply personal story of success on paper and depression behind the scenes. After graduating early, building a prestigious career, and checking every box of the traditional “American Dream,” Corey found himself burned out, unfulfilled, and struggling with severe depression. A turning point came through physical fitness, a melanoma diagnosis, and a radical shift in mindset that led him to redefine mental health as something that must be <strong>trained daily—just like the body</strong>.</p><p>In this conversation, Corey breaks down:</p><ul><li>What <strong>emotional fitness</strong> really means and how to build it</li><li>Why information alone doesn’t change mental health—<strong>action does</strong></li><li>How daily habits, discipline, and mindset rewiring create lasting change</li><li>The role of pain, discomfort, and responsibility in personal growth</li><li>Why leadership starts with leading yourself—especially as men, fathers, and entrepreneurs</li><li>How screen time, comfort, and avoidance quietly sabotage fulfillment</li></ul><p>This episode is packed with <strong>actionable mental health tools</strong>, honest reflections on depression and burnout, and a refreshing take on leadership, purpose, and fulfillment. If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or successful but empty, this conversation will challenge you to take ownership of your life and build resilience from the inside out.</p><p>🎙️ <strong>Because success without fulfillment isn’t success at all.</strong></p><p><strong>Episode Timestamps</strong></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Hosts </p><p>00:20 Meet Corey Corpodian: From Orthodontist to Mental Health Advocate </p><p>01:01 Early Success, Burnout, and Depression </p><p>03:28 Physical Fitness as a Turning Point </p><p>04:59 Melanoma Diagnosis and Mortality Wake-Up Call </p><p>06:22 Discovering Emotional Fitness </p><p>07:54 Tony Robbins and Mindset Shifts </p><p>12:39 Rewiring the Mind and Overcoming Depression 1</p><p>7:24 Why Action Creates Change </p><p>20:40 Reinvention After Life’s Roadblocks </p><p>23:42 Breathwork, the Nervous System, and Resilience </p><p>25:23 Pain vs. Pleasure as Motivation </p><p>26:16 Escaping Comfort Zones and Mediocrity </p><p>26:55 Screen Time, Dopamine, and Mental Health </p><p>28:12 Using Future Pain to Drive Growth </p><p>31:06 Discipline, Identity, and Daily Habits </p><p>32:43 Cold Showers and Mental Toughness </p><p>36:05 Balancing Ambition, Family, and Purpose </p><p>38:01 Rethinking Mental Health and Leadership </p><p>46:36 Final Reflections and Emotional Fitness Resources</p>

<p>In this powerful episode of <em>Hey Man; It’s Ok</em>, hosts <strong>Sky Bridges</strong> and licensed therapist <strong>Ryan Heapy</strong> sit down with <strong>Esther Perry</strong>, EMDR consultant and author of <em>When Survival Is Killing You</em>, to unpack what men are rarely taught about mental health, trauma, and emotional expression.</p><p>Esther helps explain the <em>why</em> behind common mental health tools — from EMDR and mindfulness to nervous system regulation — and why many men struggle to connect with approaches that don’t feel safe or practical. Together, they explore how trauma lives in the body, the overlooked “fight” response in fight-or-flight, and how cultural expectations around masculinity make vulnerability feel uncomfortable — or even threatening.</p><p>The conversation also dives into Esther’s unconventional path to becoming a therapist, her work in juvenile detention facilities, and her unique experience providing therapy while living and traveling in an RV. Throughout the episode, the focus stays grounded in compassion, science, and the reality of what men face when they’re told to “open up” without ever being shown how.</p><p>This episode is an honest, accessible conversation for men navigating emotional growth, healing from trauma, and learning how to feel without shame.</p><p><strong>Episode Chapters</strong></p><p>00:00 – Introduction 00:47 – Esther Perry’s background and book inspiration 02:58 – Trauma, survival, and coping mechanisms 05:34 – Men’s mental health and the fight-or-flight response 09:57 – EMDR and creating emotional safety 12:29 – From juvenile detention to therapy work 15:49 – Challenges in correctional mental health 18:00 – Gender differences in emotional processing 23:57 – Why expressing emotions is so difficult for men 26:13 – Science, emotions, and nervous system regulation 29:50 – Life as a traveling “nomad therapist” 34:47 – Writing and publishing <em>When Survival Is Killing You</em> 37:12 – Practical therapeutic advice for men 41:57 – Final reflections</p><p>If you want, I can also:</p><ul><li>Write a <strong>short YouTube description</strong> version</li><li>Create a <strong>Spotify-optimized summary</strong> (slightly different SEO rules)</li><li>Pull <strong>quote-based timestamps</strong> for Shorts &amp; Reels</li></ul><p>Just tell me where this is going live first.</p>