<description>&lt;p data-pm-slice="1 1 []"&gt;When you think of the term Black Excellence, what comes to mind? Prestige. Class. The Best of the Best. These are the words that are usually assigned to people who exude Black Excellence. People like the Obamas, Jay-Z and Beyonce, Oprah. But what if Black Excellence is something to strive for AND harmful to the community? The increased pressure of having to be the best can be exhausting. What happens when systematic racism has us believing the only way to be "good enough" when your Black, is to be excellent?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Join Satta and Jaretta as they discuss:&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The Obamas&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The Huxtables&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Celebrating Black People&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Legacy&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href= "https://teachingamericanhistory.org/document/the-talented-tenth/"&gt;The Talented Tenth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Unrealistic Expectations&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ubuntu&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Systemic Racism&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Respectability Politics&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Black Athletes&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Individualism&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The Collective&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p data-pm-slice="1 1 []"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Honorable Mentions&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p data-pm-slice="1 1 []"&gt;&lt;a class="ProsemirrorEditor-link" href= "https://afro.com/obamas-portraits-highlight-black-excellence-black-plight/"&gt; Obama’s Portraits Highlight Black Excellence and the Black Plight&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="ProsemirrorEditor-link" href= "https://www.dictionary.com/e/historical-current-events/black-excellence/"&gt; Black Excellence&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="ProsemirrorEditor-link" href= "https://www.forbes.com/sites/janicegassam/2021/08/01/our-obsession-with-black-excellence-is-harming-black-people/?sh=4b7845232fd9"&gt; Our Obsession with Black Excellence is Harming Black People&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="ProsemirrorEditor-link" href= "https://medium.com/thrive-global/ubuntu-i-am-because-you-are-66efa03f2682"&gt; Ubuntu: I Am Because You Are&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="ProsemirrorEditor-link" href= "https://www.npr.org/2021/07/12/1015239599/prince-william-and-boris-johnson-denounce-the-racist-abuse-of-englands-soccer-te"&gt; Three Soccer Places are Facing Racist Abuse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="ProsemirrorEditor-link" href= "https://www.celticslife.com/2023/03/jaylen-brown-calls-out-racist-toxic.html"&gt; Jaylen Brown calls out racist, toxic Celtics fans&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="ProsemirrorEditor-link" href= "https://www.theblackprintau.com/article/2021/10/the-sports-world-has-ignored-the-mental-health-of-black-female-athletes"&gt; The Sports World Has Ignored The Mental Health of Black Female Athletes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Question of the Episode: How do you achieve "Black Excellence" in your daily life? Share with us your answer via email or in a review wherever you listened to this episode!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;πŸ’›πŸ‘©πŸΎπŸ‘§πŸΎπŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸ¦°πŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸ¦±πŸ‘±πŸΎβ€β™€οΈπŸ‘ΈπŸΎπŸ‘©πŸΎβ€βš•οΈπŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸŽ“πŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸ«πŸ§•πŸΎπŸ’›&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This podcast is hosted and sponsored by Satta Sarmah Hightower and Jaretta Konneh. When Satta isn't sharing her life experiences with Jaretta, she works in content marketing and helps technology &amp; financial services companies powerfully convey their message. A storyteller at heart, Satta has a master's degree from Northwestern University's Medill School. When Jaretta isn't dealing with the craziness of dating apps, she works as a non-profit professional. She has a master's degree from the Harvard Graduate School of Education.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;πŸ’›πŸ‘©πŸΎπŸ‘§πŸΎπŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸ¦°πŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸ¦±πŸ‘±πŸΎβ€β™€οΈπŸ‘ΈπŸΎπŸ‘©πŸΎβ€βš•οΈπŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸŽ“πŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸ«πŸ§•πŸΎπŸ’›&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Follow Sis, Please on these social media platforms:&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="ProsemirrorEditor-link" href= "https://www.instagram.com/sispleasepod/"&gt;https://www.instagram.com/sispleasepod/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="ProsemirrorEditor-link" href= "https://twitter.com/_sispleasepod"&gt;https://twitter.com/_sispleasepod&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="ProsemirrorEditor-link" href= "https://www.tiktok.com/@sispleasepod"&gt;https://www.tiktok.com/@sispleasepod&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="ProsemirrorEditor-link" href= "https://www.youtube.com/@sispleasepod"&gt;https://www.youtube.com/@sispleasepod&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Have you had an experience that you would love to share in a safe space?Β  Satta and Jaretta invite you to email them at &lt;a class="ProsemirrorEditor-link" href= "mailto:sispodcast2023@gmail.com"&gt;sispodcast2023@gmail.com&lt;/a&gt; and tell them about it. They may even share your experience (you can remain anonymous) on an upcoming episode.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share this podcast with a friend. We all have a Sis that needs to be reminded their perspective is valuable.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Song Credit: Bestie by Fiskayet&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This is a Crackers In Soup, LLCΒ production.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Sis, Please!

Satta Sarmah Hightower & Jaretta Konneh

Is Black Excellence Exhausting Black People

MAY 4, 202328 MIN
Sis, Please!

Is Black Excellence Exhausting Black People

MAY 4, 202328 MIN

Description

When you think of the term Black Excellence, what comes to mind? Prestige. Class. The Best of the Best. These are the words that are usually assigned to people who exude Black Excellence. People like the Obamas, Jay-Z and Beyonce, Oprah. But what if Black Excellence is something to strive for AND harmful to the community? The increased pressure of having to be the best can be exhausting. What happens when systematic racism has us believing the only way to be "good enough" when your Black, is to be excellent?

Join Satta and Jaretta as they discuss:

The Obamas

The Huxtables

Celebrating Black People

Legacy

The Talented Tenth

Unrealistic Expectations

Ubuntu

Systemic Racism

Respectability Politics

Black Athletes

Individualism

The Collective

Honorable Mentions

Obama’s Portraits Highlight Black Excellence and the Black Plight

Black Excellence

Our Obsession with Black Excellence is Harming Black People

Ubuntu: I Am Because You Are

Three Soccer Places are Facing Racist Abuse

Jaylen Brown calls out racist, toxic Celtics fans

The Sports World Has Ignored The Mental Health of Black Female Athletes

Question of the Episode: How do you achieve "Black Excellence" in your daily life? Share with us your answer via email or in a review wherever you listened to this episode!

πŸ’›πŸ‘©πŸΎπŸ‘§πŸΎπŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸ¦°πŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸ¦±πŸ‘±πŸΎβ€β™€οΈπŸ‘ΈπŸΎπŸ‘©πŸΎβ€βš•οΈπŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸŽ“πŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸ«πŸ§•πŸΎπŸ’›

This podcast is hosted and sponsored by Satta Sarmah Hightower and Jaretta Konneh. When Satta isn't sharing her life experiences with Jaretta, she works in content marketing and helps technology & financial services companies powerfully convey their message. A storyteller at heart, Satta has a master's degree from Northwestern University's Medill School. When Jaretta isn't dealing with the craziness of dating apps, she works as a non-profit professional. She has a master's degree from the Harvard Graduate School of Education.

πŸ’›πŸ‘©πŸΎπŸ‘§πŸΎπŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸ¦°πŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸ¦±πŸ‘±πŸΎβ€β™€οΈπŸ‘ΈπŸΎπŸ‘©πŸΎβ€βš•οΈπŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸŽ“πŸ‘©πŸΎβ€πŸ«πŸ§•πŸΎπŸ’›

Follow Sis, Please on these social media platforms:

https://www.instagram.com/sispleasepod/

https://twitter.com/_sispleasepod

https://www.tiktok.com/@sispleasepod

https://www.youtube.com/@sispleasepod

Have you had an experience that you would love to share in a safe space?Β  Satta and Jaretta invite you to email them at [email protected] and tell them about it. They may even share your experience (you can remain anonymous) on an upcoming episode.

If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share this podcast with a friend. We all have a Sis that needs to be reminded their perspective is valuable.

Song Credit: Bestie by Fiskayet

This is a Crackers In Soup, LLCΒ production.