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重新聊聊亲密关系：被爱的束缚，和去爱的充盈 | 不及而立 01
MAR 8, 2023112 MIN
重新聊聊亲密关系：被爱的束缚，和去爱的充盈 | 不及而立 01
MAR 8, 2023112 MIN
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<h5 class="wp-block-heading has-black-color has-background-background-color has-text-color has-background"><strong>又是一年妇女节！今天是播客的第一期，我们的主题是「情感」，从八卦开始，介绍和分享我们自己。</strong></h5>
<h5 class="wp-block-heading has-vivid-cyan-blue-color has-tertiary-background-color has-text-color has-background has-system-font-font-family has-custom-font" style="font-family:system-font"><strong>两个身处亲密关系中的女性和一个选择单身的女性，同时站在29岁的关口，聊聊彼此人生不同阶段的情感经历和境遇，那些糟糕的亲密关系和优质的亲密关系，分别是什么样的？以及对于现在的我们而言，恋爱的亲密关系到底意味着什么？它还重要吗？我们如何理解，如何在这其中自我发现。</strong></h5>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><strong>剪辑、音效与平面设计：</strong>黎明</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">恋爱是一种面对对方极度清醒以至于旁人看来无比疯狂的状态.</p>
<cite>——上野千鹤子</cite></blockquote>
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<p class="has-secondary-color has-text-color wp-block-paragraph">收听指南：</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">3:00 最重要的一些课题竟然都是从男生身上学到的</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">13:40 朦胧青涩的校园恋情：那个在草坪上给我们读诗的男孩</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">19:49 真的吗？你们那么早就开始探索自己的性向了吗？</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">31:11 网恋也算是正式的亲密关系吗？</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">43:16 其实结婚才是我对自己最大的背叛。</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">57:10 那你单身这么久了，还会想要结婚吗？</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">1:09:00 母爱的天性被夸张化了，它是有，但不是因为这个就非要生孩子</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">1:17:27 亲密关系中可能才是性别教育的最佳场所</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">1:32:36 不健康的亲密关系总是催生暴力，这种暴力是否是有迹可循的？</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">1:40:43 爱人而非被爱：亲密关系最终的课题是自我的成长</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">1:50:32 妇女节快乐！祝你勇敢，也祝你自由。</p>
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<p class="has-secondary-color has-text-color wp-block-paragraph">节目中提及的人物和作品：</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">上野千鹤子：日本社会学家，著名女权主义家。作品《始于极限：女性主义往复书简》</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">刘擎：中国学者，作家，公共知识分子。</p>
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