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祝福你，祝福我：友谊地久天长 | 不及而立 05
DEC 31, 202397 MIN
祝福你，祝福我：友谊地久天长 | 不及而立 05
DEC 31, 202397 MIN
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<h5 class="wp-block-heading has-black-color has-background-background-color has-text-color has-background"><strong>今天是播客的第四期，我们的主题是「友谊」。</strong></h5>
<p class="has-vivid-cyan-blue-color has-tertiary-background-color has-text-color has-background wp-block-paragraph"><strong>这也是我们2023年最后一期节目。虽然更新的频率不是非常高，但所幸还是相伴着走完了这一年。在这个辞旧迎新的日子里，我们就相伴着《友谊地久天长》的熟悉旋律，从我们三个人身上聊一聊「友谊」。我们是如何成为朋友的？为什么一开始看不顺眼的人，最后会成为最好的朋友？即使是多年的知己，也会面临什么样的危机？当我们祝福彼此“友谊地久天长”的时候，实际上又是在期许和承诺什么？</strong></p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><strong>剪辑、音效与平面设计：</strong>黎明</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">我想友谊的唯一诀窍，就是找到比你更好的人。不是更聪明、更酷的人，而是更善良、更慷慨，也更宽容的人——然后为他们能教你的一切而感激他们。</p>
<cite>——柳原汉雅</cite></blockquote>
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<p class="has-secondary-color has-text-color wp-block-paragraph">收听指南：</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">01:50 反正那个时候是不太喜欢你</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">09:05 十年前的微博环境还是比较好的，从校友变成网友</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">18:39 我们会选择什么样的朋友，什么样的朋友禁得起时间的考验？</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">26:18 长大以后的友谊就不会再那么“用力过猛”了</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">38:33 朋友的抑郁也会让我感到自责</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">44:40 就算是很熟的朋友，相处的模式也会发生改变</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">49:36 当朋友们决定一起做某件事的时候，矛盾就来了</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">57:06 感情生活对友谊的冲击其实是个伪命题</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">01:09:29 越熟悉的朋友越是要去了解，越亲密的关系越是要去维护。</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">01:28:30 长久的友谊，还是建立在朋友本身的品质上</p>