Sometimes, when the shit hits the fan, the fan sprays shit all over the house. Sometimes, you're the fan.This is Hello Dear: A podcast about stuff.Jeni and Gabe talk about a week of shit hitting the fan. And how to stay strong and supportive of your partner, whether they're the shit or the fan. We talk briefly about the importance of listening and the power of bearing witness.We also take a moment to discuss an addendum to Grandfather's advice. The wind is just wind. It's what you do with it that makes you strong.