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“Your birthright is pleasure.”

What if everything you’ve been taught about aging, sexuality, and womanhood is not only outdated, but completely wrong? Joining us to challenge all of it is Melissa Louise, a pleasure advocate and erotic blueprint coach whose perspective on midlife, menopause (or as she calls it, “regenopause”), patriarchy, and sex magic will have you rethinking every cultural script you’ve inherited.

In this conversation, Erin and Melissa unpack the rules women internalize about their bodies, pleasure, and relationships and explore what becomes possible when we step outside those boxes. From raising her son barefoot in the jungles of Costa Rica to guiding clients toward sexual mastery, Melissa invites us to reclaim our agency and embrace our inherent power in the second half of life. We discuss:

• Why “menopause” is a social construct designed to weaken women and how “regenopause” can become a regenerative upgrade to wisdom and power
• How pleasure operates as a life force that fuels creativity, manifestation, and even financial abundance
• How society’s 24-hour sun cycle depletes women, and what it means to reconnect with the lunar rhythms of the female body
• The difference between love and monogamy, and why relationship structures are due for a radical rethink
• Why older women have historically been the wisdom keepers, and how we can reclaim our place as guides, leaders, and culture-shapers
• Practical ways to bring more pleasure, freedom, and play into everyday life no matter your age, relationship status, or beliefs about midlife

OUR GUEST: Melissa Louise is a leading  Pleasure Advocate, Erotic Blueprint, Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Expert. She supports women to reclaim their divine birthright to feel alive, orgasmic and turned on no matter their age or relationship status. And men to be more attractive, powerful, trustworthy, make more money and find freedom by lasting longer in bed. It's the perfect erotic cocktail that nourishes health, wealth and well being. With certifications also in Kink 101, Accelerated Evolution and Access Consciousness, Melissa Louise truly embodies the principle that how we do life is how we do sex.

Ever wonder what it takes to create not just lasting love, but a partnership that feels intentional, exciting, and alive, even years in? Join us as we sit down with Rono and Sierra, lifelong friends turned business partners turned romantic couple, to peel back the curtain on what it means to make your relationship your true North Star.

Rono and Sierra are the founders of Eden World, a vibrant community for couples who want to evolve how they love and live, through honest, peer-to-peer connection rather than traditional therapy or coaching. Their work is all about normalizing the messy, beautiful reality of long-term intimacy, where communication, self-awareness, and humor matter as much as passion. Whether you’re newly single, searching for your next great love, or looking to deepen the connection in your current relationship, this conversation will help you imagine what’s possible and offer real tools to start creating it now. Tune in as we discuss:

• Finding a partner who’s truly communicative, intentional, accountable, and sexy
• What makes a “conscious couple” and how self-awareness unlocks new levels of connection
• Why prioritizing your relationship (yes, even above work and kids!) might just be the secret to lasting joy and epic partnership
• How peer couples’ support, not advice-giving, can normalize struggles around everything from mismatched libido to communication, making you feel less alone, and more seen
• The power of the “Epic Date Night”: creative, playful, sexy rituals you can introduce right now to reignite intimacy and laughter with your partner
• How to hold onto joy and playfulness in the face of messy relational dynamics, healing old stories, and rewriting limiting beliefs about love

OUR GUESTS: Rono & Sierra are leading authorities in conscious partnership and legacy-driven love. As the founders of Eden World- the premier community for high-impact, purpose-driven couples- and creators of Rockstars of Relationship, they’ve spent over two decades helping visionary couples thrive in love, leadership, and legacy. Drawing from their own lived journey, they’ve built a proven path for turning coupleship into a source of strength, clarity, and growth. Passionate about connection and community, Rono & Sierra empower couples to lead, love, and live at their highest potential.

What does reinvention really look like when life keeps throwing curveballs? For Susan Guidi, it’s a story packed with twists, pivots, and badass comebacks. An ultrasound pioneer, mother of three, grandmother of seven, improv performer, stand-up comedian, and award-winning bodybuilder, Susan’s life is a masterclass in resilience and reinvention. At 66, she wrote and performed her own one-woman show, “What If Wonder Woman Was 66?”—and she hasn’t stopped breaking rules or deadlifting weights since.

Join Erin and Susan as they dive into how she transformed loss into strength, defied cultural expectations, and kept discovering new versions of herself again and again. They explore:

• The art of starting over: whether in a new country, new career, or after heartbreak
• Defying cultural expectations about aging, ambition, and what women “should” want after 40
• Building a thriving business from scratch, with zero business training
• Bodybuilding after menopause: the science, grit, and audacity it takes to compete and win
• How “trying on” new identities, from entrepreneur to comic to Wonder Woman, opens up endless possibilities for finding joy and self-love

OUR GUEST: Susan Guidi has been the owner of Advanced Ultrasound Services for more than 25 years. She is a pioneer in diagnostic ultrasound technology. Susan trained at John Hopkins Hospital. She taught some of the first courses in ultrasound in Chile and then received her master’s degree in Paris, France. She is a mother of 3 and grandmother of 7. In her spare time Susan is a standup comedian and improv artist. At 65 she became a bodybuilder and motivational speaker. Last year at 66 she produced, wrote and performed her One Woman Show, "What if Wonder Woman was 66."

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What does it really take to create a love that feels both grounded and expansive? A relationship where two whole people choose to grow together?

In this week’s episode, we sit down with relationship coach and author Gabriela Embon to explore how to build a thriving partnership that balances individuality and intimacy. Drawing from her own journey and her book “Becoming a Power Couple: Four Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages”, Gabriela breaks down the deeper mechanics of lasting love, what it means to truly see and be seen by your partner, and why doing your own inner work is the most romantic act of all.

Together, Erin and Gabriela unpack what it looks like to consciously create love after 40: how to navigate conflict with curiosity, rebuild trust after heartbreak, and make space for joy, desire, and emotional safety in equal measure. We discuss:

• The difference between codependence and true partnership
• How to communicate your needs without losing connection
• Why self-awareness and vulnerability are the foundation of intimacy
• The “Four Pillars” of healthy relationships. Me, You, Our, and Us
• How every couple must pass through the “power struggle” phase to reach true intimacy
• What it means to become a power couple, where both people are evolving, not performing

OUR GUEST: Certified coach and author Gabriela Embon believes that a fulfilling adult life hinges on two essential components: an ideal career and a thriving primary relationship. In the last 2 decades as a coach, Gabriela has dedicated herself to helping couples build fulfilling and enduring relationships. Gabriela utilizes the analytical and problem-solving skills from her engineering background, and applies them to the intricacies of human relationships. By combining the precision of engineering with the emotional depth of human behaviour, she empowers couples to transform their relationships, and become a Power Couple.

“We have this capacity to create our love life, our pleasure life in any way we want.”

What if pleasure wasn’t something to chase, but something to come home to? In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Diane Mueller, sexual wellness expert, naturopathic doctor, and founder of MyLibidoDoc.com, to explore how women can rewrite their pleasure stories, let go of shame, and rediscover connection in midlife and beyond.

Dr. Mueller’s journey from a strict Catholic upbringing to discovering how self-pleasure helped heal her body is as candid as it is empowering. Together, she and Erin get real about rebranding our language around sex, why pleasure is essential to health, and how women can cultivate sensuality as an everyday practice, not just something that happens behind closed doors.  Join us as we discuss:

• How childhood messages and cultural shame shape our adult relationship to pleasure, and ways to reframe these narratives
• Why libido and desire evolve throughout our lives, and what they reveal about our physical and emotional well-being
• The surprising science behind pleasure as a healing practice
• How to practice pleasure beyond the bedroom  and why it’s key to longevity and vitality
• Ways to break out of “relationship scripts,” reignite novelty, and redefine intimacy in all types of relationships
• Simple techniques to reconnect with your senses, quiet distractions, and cultivate everyday joy

OUR GUEST: Dr. Diane Mueller, ND, DAOM, is a sexual wellness expert with dual doctorates in Naturopathic as well as Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine. She is the founder of the sex education center MyLibidoDoc.com and hosts 'The Libido Lounge' podcast, blending personal experience with clinical expertise.