How can you effectively and gracefully end a conversation while maintaining its value and mutual appreciation?



Understand the balance between leaving a conversation fulfilled and seeking more.




"I know I didn't even try to get everything [from a conversation] because I know I can't get everything. So it's somehow finding a balance between: "Okay, my cup is full. I should really move away and just revel in what I have." Finding a balance between that, and just going to the well until the cup comes up empty. I think that's probably the compass for how to find a good ending." ~ Craig Constantine (4:25)




Craig and Jesse discuss the complexities of ending conversations, beginning with the idea that most conversations naturally conclude due to external factors like time constraints. Craig notes that in many casual interactions, such as those at events or in public spaces, the end is often dictated by circumstances rather than a conscious decision.



Episode notes and resources: <a href="https://openandcurious.org/2024/07/06/how-do-you-end/">How do you end?</a>



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What is Open + Curious?



You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.



Open + Curious is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/



Hello 👋 I’m&nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.



Your support makes all the difference! — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/

<description>&lt;p&gt;How can you effectively and gracefully end a conversation while maintaining its value and mutual appreciation?&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Understand the balance between leaving a conversation fulfilled and seeking more.&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;p&gt;"I know I didn't even try to get everything [from a conversation] because I know I can't get everything. So it's somehow finding a balance between: "Okay, my cup is full. I should really move away and just revel in what I have." Finding a balance between that, and just going to the well until the cup comes up empty. I think that's probably the compass for how to find a good ending." ~ Craig Constantine (4:25)&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;p&gt;Craig and Jesse discuss the complexities of ending conversations, beginning with the idea that most conversations naturally conclude due to external factors like time constraints. Craig notes that in many casual interactions, such as those at events or in public spaces, the end is often dictated by circumstances rather than a conscious decision.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Episode notes and resources: &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="https://openandcurious.org/2024/07/06/how-do-you-end/"&gt;How do you end?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;



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&lt;p&gt;What is &lt;em&gt;Open + Curious&lt;/em&gt;?&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Open + Curious&lt;/em&gt; is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Hello 👋 I’m&amp;nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Your support makes all the difference!&lt;/em&gt; — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/&lt;/p&gt;</description>

How can you effectively and gracefully end a conversation while maintaining its value and mutual appreciation?



Understand the balance between leaving a conversation fulfilled and seeking more.




I know I didnt even try to get everything [from a conv

How can you effectively and gracefully end a conversation while maintaining its value and mutual appreciation?



Understand the balance between leaving a conversation fulfilled and seeking more.




"I know I didn't even try to get everything [from a conversation] because I know I can't get everything. So it's somehow finding a balance between: "Okay, my cup is full. I should really move away and just revel in what I have." Finding a balance between that, and just going to the well until the cup comes up empty. I think that's probably the compass for how to find a good ending." ~ Craig Constantine (4:25)




Craig and Jesse discuss the complexities of ending conversations, beginning with the idea that most conversations naturally conclude due to external factors like time constraints. Craig notes that in many casual interactions, such as those at events or in public spaces, the end is often dictated by circumstances rather than a conscious decision.



Episode notes and resources: How do you end?



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What is Open + Curious?



You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.



Open + Curious is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/



Hello 👋 I’m&nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.



Your support makes all the difference! — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/

How do you end?

What role does dialogue play in fostering a sense of connection and transformation within individuals and communities?



Can dialogue itself be more important than the decisions it leads to?




"So then I have to ask myself, how do I have to be in the world so that I can create more moments like that for myself? And for others? And what [for] the spaces that I create? When I'm creating spaces for groups? Or when I'm entering into spaces that already exist for groups? What can I do to bring that feeling? …that dialog? …that awakeness?" ~ Jesse Danger (11:30)




In this conversation, Craig and Jesse explore the concept of dialogue and its transformative power within communities. They begin by discussing a quote from the book "Dialogue" by Isaac, which suggests that once people experience genuine dialogue, they do not revert to superficial interactions.



Episode notes and resources: <a href="https://openandcurious.org/2024/07/01/once-awakened/">Once awakened</a>



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What is Open + Curious?



You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.



Open + Curious is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/



Hello 👋 I’m&nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.



Your support makes all the difference! — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/

<description>&lt;p&gt;What role does dialogue play in fostering a sense of connection and transformation within individuals and communities?&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Can dialogue itself be more important than the decisions it leads to?&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;p&gt;"So then I have to ask myself, how do I have to be in the world so that I can create more moments like that for myself? And for others? And what [for] the spaces that I create? When I'm creating spaces for groups? Or when I'm entering into spaces that already exist for groups? What can I do to bring that feeling? …that dialog? …that awakeness?" ~ Jesse Danger (11:30)&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;p&gt;In this conversation, Craig and Jesse explore the concept of dialogue and its transformative power within communities. They begin by discussing a quote from the book "Dialogue" by Isaac, which suggests that once people experience genuine dialogue, they do not revert to superficial interactions.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Episode notes and resources: &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="https://openandcurious.org/2024/07/01/once-awakened/"&gt;Once awakened&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;



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&lt;p&gt;What is &lt;em&gt;Open + Curious&lt;/em&gt;?&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Open + Curious&lt;/em&gt; is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Hello 👋 I’m&amp;nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Your support makes all the difference!&lt;/em&gt; — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/&lt;/p&gt;</description>

What role does dialogue play in fostering a sense of connection and transformation within individuals and communities?



Can dialogue itself be more important than the decisions it leads to?




So then I have to ask myself, how do I have to be in the w

What role does dialogue play in fostering a sense of connection and transformation within individuals and communities?



Can dialogue itself be more important than the decisions it leads to?




"So then I have to ask myself, how do I have to be in the world so that I can create more moments like that for myself? And for others? And what [for] the spaces that I create? When I'm creating spaces for groups? Or when I'm entering into spaces that already exist for groups? What can I do to bring that feeling? …that dialog? …that awakeness?" ~ Jesse Danger (11:30)




In this conversation, Craig and Jesse explore the concept of dialogue and its transformative power within communities. They begin by discussing a quote from the book "Dialogue" by Isaac, which suggests that once people experience genuine dialogue, they do not revert to superficial interactions.



Episode notes and resources: Once awakened



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What is Open + Curious?



You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.



Open + Curious is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/



Hello 👋 I’m&nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.



Your support makes all the difference! — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/

Once awakened

What defines a deep conversation, and how can one recognize or evaluate its depth?



Is the depth of a conversation defined by content or the experience?




"I feel like it only can be deep if it if it was deep for both of us. Like can you have a conversation— I guess anything's possible. [But,] does it seem realistic to have a conversation where one person thought it was deep? Because I'm saying to myself, yeah, obviously it's possible. But what happens if both people thought it was deep versus [only] one person thought it was deep?" ~ Craig Constantine (4:18)




Craig Constantine and Jesse Danger explore the nature of deep conversations, focusing on the distinction between superficial and meaningful exchanges. Jesse begins by considering what makes a conversation real, emphasizing the unique contributions of each participant and the specific moment. Craig reflects on the term "deep" and questions whether it might sometimes be the wrong word, as some people avoid deep conversations due to discomfort. They both ponder if a deep conversation is characterized by newness or if it can occur without discussing novel topics.



Episode notes and resources: <a href="https://openandcurious.org/2024/06/20/depth-versus-aliveness/">Depth versus aliveness</a>



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What is Open + Curious?



You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.



Open + Curious is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/



Hello 👋 I’m&nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.



Your support makes all the difference! — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/

<description>&lt;p&gt;What defines a deep conversation, and how can one recognize or evaluate its depth?&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Is the depth of a conversation defined by content or the experience?&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;p&gt;"I feel like it only can be deep if it if it was deep for both of us. Like can you have a conversation— I guess anything's possible. [But,] does it seem realistic to have a conversation where one person thought it was deep? Because I'm saying to myself, yeah, obviously it's possible. But what happens if both people thought it was deep versus [only] one person thought it was deep?" ~ Craig Constantine (4:18)&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;p&gt;Craig Constantine and Jesse Danger explore the nature of deep conversations, focusing on the distinction between superficial and meaningful exchanges. Jesse begins by considering what makes a conversation real, emphasizing the unique contributions of each participant and the specific moment. Craig reflects on the term "deep" and questions whether it might sometimes be the wrong word, as some people avoid deep conversations due to discomfort. They both ponder if a deep conversation is characterized by newness or if it can occur without discussing novel topics.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Episode notes and resources: &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="https://openandcurious.org/2024/06/20/depth-versus-aliveness/"&gt;Depth versus aliveness&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;



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&lt;p&gt;What is &lt;em&gt;Open + Curious&lt;/em&gt;?&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Open + Curious&lt;/em&gt; is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Hello 👋 I’m&amp;nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Your support makes all the difference!&lt;/em&gt; — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/&lt;/p&gt;</description>

What defines a deep conversation, and how can one recognize or evaluate its depth?



Is the depth of a conversation defined by content or the experience?




I feel like it only can be deep if it if it was deep for both of us. Like can you have a conver

What defines a deep conversation, and how can one recognize or evaluate its depth?



Is the depth of a conversation defined by content or the experience?




"I feel like it only can be deep if it if it was deep for both of us. Like can you have a conversation— I guess anything's possible. [But,] does it seem realistic to have a conversation where one person thought it was deep? Because I'm saying to myself, yeah, obviously it's possible. But what happens if both people thought it was deep versus [only] one person thought it was deep?" ~ Craig Constantine (4:18)




Craig Constantine and Jesse Danger explore the nature of deep conversations, focusing on the distinction between superficial and meaningful exchanges. Jesse begins by considering what makes a conversation real, emphasizing the unique contributions of each participant and the specific moment. Craig reflects on the term "deep" and questions whether it might sometimes be the wrong word, as some people avoid deep conversations due to discomfort. They both ponder if a deep conversation is characterized by newness or if it can occur without discussing novel topics.



Episode notes and resources: Depth versus aliveness



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What is Open + Curious?



You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.



Open + Curious is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/



Hello 👋 I’m&nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.



Your support makes all the difference! — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/

Depth versus aliveness

Why do we keep talking, and when should we stop?



Join Craig and Jesse as they challenge the urge to keep talking and explore the value of silence.




"I find that when I can't shut up, it's usually because […] I'm trying to provide more and more and more and more and more and more context. […] it's really a lot about hiding— So I find when I can't shut up, It's because I'm uncomfortable, or I'm afraid." ~ Craig Constantine (0:55)




Craig Constantine and Jesse Danger explore the reasons behind why people keep talking.



Episode notes and resources: <a href="https://openandcurious.org/2024/06/15/why-do-we-keep-talking/">Why do we keep talking?</a>



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What is Open + Curious?



You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.



Open + Curious is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/



Hello 👋 I’m&nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.



Your support makes all the difference! — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/

<description>&lt;p&gt;Why do we keep talking, and when should we stop?&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Join Craig and Jesse as they challenge the urge to keep talking and explore the value of silence.&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;p&gt;"I find that when I can't shut up, it's usually because […] I'm trying to provide more and more and more and more and more and more context. […] it's really a lot about hiding— So I find when I can't shut up, It's because I'm uncomfortable, or I'm afraid." ~ Craig Constantine (0:55)&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;p&gt;Craig Constantine and Jesse Danger explore the reasons behind why people keep talking.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Episode notes and resources: &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="https://openandcurious.org/2024/06/15/why-do-we-keep-talking/"&gt;Why do we keep talking?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;



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&lt;p&gt;What is &lt;em&gt;Open + Curious&lt;/em&gt;?&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Open + Curious&lt;/em&gt; is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Hello 👋 I’m&amp;nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Your support makes all the difference!&lt;/em&gt; — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Why do we keep talking, and when should we stop?



Join Craig and Jesse as they challenge the urge to keep talking and explore the value of silence.




I find that when I cant shut up, its usually because […] Im trying to provide more and more and more

Why do we keep talking, and when should we stop?



Join Craig and Jesse as they challenge the urge to keep talking and explore the value of silence.




"I find that when I can't shut up, it's usually because […] I'm trying to provide more and more and more and more and more and more context. […] it's really a lot about hiding— So I find when I can't shut up, It's because I'm uncomfortable, or I'm afraid." ~ Craig Constantine (0:55)




Craig Constantine and Jesse Danger explore the reasons behind why people keep talking.



Episode notes and resources: Why do we keep talking?



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What is Open + Curious?



You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.



Open + Curious is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/



Hello 👋 I’m&nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.



Your support makes all the difference! — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/

Why do we keep talking?

How can we effectively handle conversations where multiple topics or threads are presented simultaneously, ensuring a balance between active listening, addressing key points, and maintaining conversational flow?



Craig Constantine and Jesse Danger explore navigating multiple topics gracefully, leveraging listening as a tool, and the nuanced dance of giving and receiving information.




"I often signpost. So Jesse says 'a' and 'b' and 'c' and throws all these things at me, and then I grab 'b' and I start talking about it. I often try to end with, "and I think I missed a lot of other things that you threw at me, Jesse." I'll at least raise a semaphore [that] I'm aware that I only did one, sorry. I think that may go a long way just because that's the same type of behavior—or it comes from the same type of intention—as listening." ~ Craig Constantine, 3:40




Craig and Jesse discuss the intricacies of handling conversations that veer into multiple directions simultaneously. They ponder the challenges and strategies involved when participants in a conversation introduce several topics at once, emphasizing the importance of active listening as a critical response in such scenarios.



Episode notes and resources: <a href="https://openandcurious.org/2024/06/07/hearing-multiple-things/">Hearing multiple things</a>



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What is Open + Curious?



You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.



Open + Curious is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/



Hello 👋 I’m&nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.



Your support makes all the difference! — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/

<description>&lt;p&gt;How can we effectively handle conversations where multiple topics or threads are presented simultaneously, ensuring a balance between active listening, addressing key points, and maintaining conversational flow?&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Craig Constantine and Jesse Danger explore navigating multiple topics gracefully, leveraging listening as a tool, and the nuanced dance of giving and receiving information.&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;p&gt;"I often signpost. So Jesse says 'a' and 'b' and 'c' and throws all these things at me, and then I grab 'b' and I start talking about it. I often try to end with, "and I think I missed a lot of other things that you threw at me, Jesse." I'll at least raise a semaphore [that] I'm aware that I only did one, sorry. I think that may go a long way just because that's the same type of behavior—or it comes from the same type of intention—as listening." ~ Craig Constantine, 3:40&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;p&gt;Craig and Jesse discuss the intricacies of handling conversations that veer into multiple directions simultaneously. They ponder the challenges and strategies involved when participants in a conversation introduce several topics at once, emphasizing the importance of active listening as a critical response in such scenarios.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Episode notes and resources: &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="https://openandcurious.org/2024/06/07/hearing-multiple-things/"&gt;Hearing multiple things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;



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&lt;p&gt;What is &lt;em&gt;Open + Curious&lt;/em&gt;?&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;You talk with others every day, but how often do you intentionally practice the art of conversation? By sharing my thoughts here, I hope to ignite your passion for creating great conversations.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Open + Curious&lt;/em&gt; is about discovering what better means for your conversations. You can read, listen and discuss at, https://openandcurious.org/&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;Hello 👋 I’m&amp;nbsp;Craig Constantine. My mission is creating better conversations to spread understanding and compassion. I want us to go from simply having conversations, to actively creating better conversations.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Your support makes all the difference!&lt;/em&gt; — Since 2011, I’ve spent countless hours and dollars keeping my various projects going. Everything has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers like you. I have no staff, no assistant… it’s just one maniac with a keyboard. If this labor of love makes your life more livable in any way, please consider aiding said maniac’s sustenance… https://openandcurious.org/support-my-writing/&lt;/p&gt;</description>

How can we effectively handle conversations where multiple topics or threads are presented simultaneously, ensuring a balance between active listening, addressing key points, and maintaining conversational flow?



Craig Constantine and Jesse Danger expl

How can we effectively handle conversations where multiple topics or threads are presented simultaneously, ensuring a balance between active listening, addressing key points, and maintaining conversational flow?



Craig Constantine and Jesse Danger explore navigating multiple topics gracefully, leveraging listening as a tool, and the nuanced dance of giving and receiving information.




"I often signpost. So Jesse says 'a' and 'b' and 'c' and throws all these things at me, and then I grab 'b' and I start talking about it. I often try to end with, "and I think I missed a lot of other things that you threw at me, Jesse." I'll at least raise a semaphore [that] I'm aware that I only did one, sorry. I think that may go a long way just because that's the same type of behavior—or it comes from the same type of intention—as listening." ~ Craig Constantine, 3:40




Craig and Jesse discuss the intricacies of handling conversations that veer into multiple directions simultaneously. They ponder the challenges and strategies involved when participants in a conversation introduce several topics at once, emphasizing the importance of active listening as a critical response in such scenarios.



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Hearing multiple things

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