The Upgrade Edit

After taking some time to land, integrate and find my feet again, I’m finally ready to share what happened during my return to the Amazon. This was my second time in the Peruvian Amazon, but this journey felt incredibly different. This time, I had the privilege of bringing a beautiful group with me and witnessing them experience the land, the medicine and the magic that changed so much for me the first time around. In this episode, I take you inside the experience and share some of the moments, ceremonies and teachings that have stayed with me since coming home. My intention going into this journey was to learn how to hold desire with an open palm. To allow myself to want deeply, dream deeply and be excited for what is coming, without allowing those desires to pull me away from the life that is already here. And what unfolded became such a beautiful lesson in presence. I share what the medicine taught me about stillness over chasing, becoming the grounded woman, trusting what is meant for me, finding safety within myself and recognising that pleasure, love and aliveness are not things we have to wait for another person or experience to give us. They are states we can learn to cultivate within our own bodies. This episode is ultimately about learning to hold both. Desire and presence. Expansion and gratitude. The spiritual and the human. Being deeply in love with where you are while remaining completely open to how good life can still become. This is a very special episode and a little glimpse into a week that I know will stay with me forever. 🌿🤎

What happens when you stop believing every thought you have… and start observing it instead? In this episode of The Upgrade Edit, I’m talking about one of the biggest shifts I’ve noticed in myself lately: my ability to become the observer of my own life. After a situation completely rattled my nervous system and pulled me back into old patterns, resentment, rumination and ways of being that I thought I had moved beyond, I realised something pretty incredible. Even amongst the chaos, there was another part of me watching it all unfold. I could see the trigger. I could hear the old thoughts. I could feel what was happening in my body. And, for the first time, I didn’t have to become any of it. We explore metacognition — essentially, the ability to observe your own thinking — and how learning to witness your thoughts, reactions and conditioning can create space between what happens to you and who you choose to be because of it. I share a very real example involving a braless afternoon walk, an unfortunately placed construction site 😂 and the split-second decision that showed me just how often we change ourselves because of what we think other people might be thinking about us. We also talk about letting go of old timelines — from burning years of journals to quite literally smashing my favourite mug — and why I’ve suddenly felt such a strong pull to clear physical, emotional and energetic space before heading into the Amazon. But more than anything, this episode is about the tiny choices. The moment you notice the thought and choose differently. The moment you feel yourself shrinking and decide not to. The moment an old version of you comes online and, rather than judging her, you simply observe her with curiosity and compassion. Because changing your life doesn’t always require one enormous quantum leap. Sometimes the leap happens in the smallest moments, when you interrupt an old pattern and choose a new direction. And perhaps that’s where our power really is. Not in controlling every experience. Not in never being triggered. Not in becoming so “healed” that nothing affects us. But in becoming conscious enough to witness ourselves inside the experience and decide what happens next. Your little homework after this episode: observe yourself. Notice the thoughts you think most often. Notice what happens in your body when you feel uncomfortable. Notice where fear changes your direction. Notice where an old version of you is still making decisions. And then ask yourself: Do I want to keep choosing this? Because you are allowed to choose again x www.theupgradebydavina.com Instagram: @davvyxx

What if the things you're desperately trying to force are already making their way to you? In this episode, I'm taking you behind the scenes of how my newest retreat came to life, and trust me, I never could have planned it the way it unfolded! Although this retreat has only just sold out, the truth is its story began over four years ago. Looking back now, I can see the seemingly random conversations, unexpected opportunities, courageous decisions, and intuitive nudges that slowly led me here. At the time, none of it made logical sense. But in hindsight, every single step was preparing me for this moment. I also share the powerful reminder that some of the greatest opportunities, relationships, abundance, and experiences in my life haven't arrived because I controlled every detail. They arrived because I was willing to pay attention to the breadcrumbs, trust my intuition, and keep taking the next aligned step, even when I couldn't yet see where the path was leading. This episode is an invitation to zoom out and reflect on your own life. What if the delays, detours, and unexpected turns aren't setbacks at all? What if they're part of something far greater than you can currently see? If you've ever questioned your timing, felt frustrated by uncertainty, or wondered whether life is really working in your favour, I hope this conversation reminds you that divine orchestration is often only visible in hindsight. Sometimes your only job is to trust the next breadcrumb. ENJOY X

Sometimes your biggest breakthroughs are waiting for you in the pause. In this episode, I share what happened after I intentionally gave myself three days to completely switch off. No pushing. No forcing. Just rest. What followed was a wave of clarity, creativity, renewed energy and some of the biggest downloads I've had in months. We explore why rest isn't something you have to earn, but a powerful part of the creative and healing process. I also share how I've been creating space for a new chapter by simplifying my life, physically, emotionally and energetically. From clearing out my wardrobe and cutting my hair to pruning my rose bushes, every act became a reminder that growth often requires release before expansion. And at the end of the episode, I share one of the most symbolic things I've ever done: why I decided to burn years of my journals and what that ritual taught me about letting go of old identities, honouring the woman I've been, and making space for the woman I'm becoming. If you've been craving a reset, feeling burnt out, or sensing that life is asking you to slow down before your next leap, I hope this conversation gives you permission to trust the season you're in. Because your next upgrade might not come from doing more. It might come from finally allowing yourself to rest. www.theupgradebydavina.com

Many women assume a lack of desire is a hormone problem. But what if it's actually a reflection of chronic stress, self-abandonment, nervous system dysregulation and a life that no longer feels nourishing to your soul? As an energetic healer, embodiment coach and somatic practitioner, I've noticed a common thread amongst women who feel disconnected from their sexuality. More often than not, they're not disconnected from sex. They're disconnected from themselves. Their joy. Their creativity. Their pleasure. Their playfulness. Their truth. In this episode, we're diving into the connection between the sacral chakra, nervous system regulation, self-abandonment and desire. We'll explore why so many women struggle to access pleasure when they're living in survival mode, constantly over-giving, people-pleasing or abandoning their own needs. We'll also unpack why desire isn't something you force, but something that naturally emerges when the conditions are right. Inside this episode we explore: • The sacral chakra and its connection to pleasure, sensuality, creativity and receiving • Common signs your sacral energy may be depleted or blocked • Why self-abandonment slowly disconnects women from desire • The nervous system's role in pleasure, intimacy and sexual expression • How chronic stress impacts your capacity to receive and feel • The link between integrity, self-trust and feminine magnetism • Why your partner can't give you what you're unwilling to give yourself • Practical ways to reconnect with pleasure, play, creativity and your life force energy If you've been telling yourself that you have a low libido, this episode invites you to ask a different question: What if your body isn't broken? What if it's simply asking for more truth, more pleasure and more of you? Because sometimes the path back to desire isn't found in the bedroom. It's found in the way you live your life. Connect with Davina: Instagram: @davvyxx Website: www.theupgradebydavina.com If this episode resonated with you, share it with a woman who needs this reminder and tag me on Instagram so I can hear your biggest takeaway. With love, Davina x