Episode Overview

In this episode of Please Me! Podcast, Dr. Eve continues her Kink Education Series, inspired by DomCon New Orleans. Dive into BIPOC kink history, subspace and domspace neurochemistry, neurodiverse pleasure, somatic practices, pet play, foot play, anal play, and trauma-informed, consent-based kink education.

Learn practical tools, cultural insights, and safety guidance for exploring kink in a mindful, therapeutic way.

Topics Covered🌍 BIPOC History & Cultural Lineage

• African, Indigenous, and non-Western roots of kink

• Yoruba deity Oshun, rituals, trance, and altered states

• Why cultural acknowledgment matters in modern BDSM

• Understanding subspace and domspace

• The “BDSM chemical cocktail”: dopamine, endorphins, cortisol, adrenaline

• Aftercare to prevent sub-drop and dom-drop

• Parallels with meditation, hypnosis, and somatic therapy

• How autistic and ADHD individuals thrive in kink

• Sensory needs, structure, and nervous system regulation

• Identity exploration and self-expression

• Puppy, kitten, pony, cow play, and more

• Safety and confidence in animal headspace

• Masks, hoods, and ritual gear as identity tools

• Psychological and somatic benefits

• Safety, hygiene, and party/event etiquette

• Hygiene, prep, body-safe materials, and pleasure mapping

• Trauma-informed educational approach

• Clinical, non-sexual medical play explained

• Trauma-aware role-play and consent demos

Perfect for anyone curious about:

• BDSM safety

• Neurodiverse kink practices

• Trauma-informed intimacy

• Somatic pleasure exploration

• Cultural history in kink

This episode is concise, informative, and actionable — grounded in sex education, historical insight, and safety practices.

🧠 Subspace, Domspace & Neurochemistry🧩 Neurodiversity & BDSM🐾 Pet Play & Role-Play👣 Foot Play Basics🍑 Anal Play & Pegging🩺 Medical Play & Educational Role-PlayWhy ListenConnect with the Guests

The Commandant — Professional Dominatrix, BDSM Educator & Kink Historian
Website: hausofthecommandant.com

Patreon Bonus

Listen to the full-length, uncensored episode on Patreon including extended kink education, behind-the-scenes insight, and intimate conversations not included in the free version.
Access the entire Kink Series for just $10/month.

Additional Resources Mentioned

• Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing : https://shamelesscare.com/ 

• SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership

• World Vision — Donation links for survivors of the recent typhoon & earthquake :  https://www.worldvision.org/ 

• Eve’s Substack & Patreon for Q&A, workshops, and exclusive content

  • pleaseme.online : https://pleaseme.online/ 

  • patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast : http://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast 

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