<p><strong>Introduction:</strong>Welcome Beloved! This week, we continue our &quot;Let Our Children Go&quot; series by Rebecca Greenwood. We’ll be diving into chapters 7 &amp; 8, focusing on how to love and support those affected by child abuse. Whether you are a parent, a minister, or a friend, this episode will equip you with essential knowledge on responding to disclosures of abuse and supporting survivors on their healing journey.</p><p><strong>Topics Covered:</strong></p><ul><li><p>What to do after an initial abuse disclosure and legal responsibilities.</p></li><li><p>The stages children go through when disclosing abuse and how to respond.</p></li><li><p>Essential resources for supporting survivors through the healing journey.</p></li><li><p>How to create a safe space for inner healing and spiritual restoration.</p></li></ul><p><strong>Understanding the Disclosure Process:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Abuse disclosures are rarely a one-time event; they unfold over time.</p></li><li><p>Many children delay disclosure for weeks, months, or even years due to fear and psychological manipulation.</p></li><li><p>Research shows that 60% of abused children do not tell anyone until adulthood or never disclose at all.</p></li></ul><p><strong>Child Sexual Abuse Accommodation Syndrome:</strong></p><ol><li><p><strong>Secrecy:</strong> Grooming techniques used by abusers keep the child silent.</p></li><li><p><strong>Helplessness:</strong> The child may not understand the abuse is wrong or believe they have power to stop it.</p></li><li><p><strong>Entrapment &amp; Accommodation:</strong> The child adapts to the abuse to maintain family harmony or avoid harm.</p></li><li><p><strong>Delayed Disclosure:</strong> Fear of disbelief or consequences prevents immediate disclosure.</p></li><li><p><strong>Retraction or Recantation:</strong> When facing family distress or disbelief, children may withdraw their statements.</p></li></ol><p><strong>Responding to a Child’s Disclosure:</strong></p><ul><li><p><strong>Believe and affirm the child’s experience.</strong></p></li><li><p><strong>Report immediately</strong> to Law Enforcement and Child Protective Services (CPS).</p></li><li><p><strong>Avoid questioning the child</strong>; only trained forensic interviewers should conduct interviews.</p></li><li><p><strong>Do not confront the abuser</strong>; allow legal authorities to handle the case.</p></li><li><p><strong>Ensure the child receives counseling and a forensic interview</strong> through a Children’s Advocacy Center.</p></li><li><p><strong>Provide a stable, safe environment</strong> for the child to heal.</p></li></ul><p><strong>Spiritual Response to Abuse:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Survivors must process emotions such as anger, denial, and fear before true healing begins.</p></li><li><p>Encouraging open lament and emotional expression prevents inner wounds from festering.</p></li><li><p>Teaching children that<strong>God is their protector and healer</strong> fosters restoration.</p></li><li><p>Forgiveness is an act of obedience to God, but it<strong>does not mean reconciliation with an unrepentant abuser</strong>.</p></li></ul><p><strong>Key Scriptures for Healing:</strong></p><ul><li><p><strong>Isaiah 43:1</strong> – God has redeemed you and calls you by name.</p></li><li><p><strong>2 Corinthians 1:3-7</strong> – God is the Father of compassion and comfort.</p></li><li><p><strong>Psalm 139:23-24</strong> – God can reveal and heal anxious thoughts.</p></li></ul><p><strong>How to Support Abuse Survivors – Do’s &amp; Don’ts</strong></p><ul><li><p><strong>Do listen with empathy; don’t minimize their experience.</strong> (Psalm 31:10)</p></li><li><p><strong>Do be patient; don’t push for full disclosure.</strong> (1 Peter 2:17)</p></li><li><p><strong>Do offer spiritual encouragement; don’t assume they are ready.</strong> (Galatians 5:25)</p></li><li><p><strong>Do help them find resources; don’t leave them to navigate alone.</strong> (Proverbs 15:22)</p></li><li><p><strong>Do pray for them; don’t underestimate the power of intercession.</strong> (Ephesians 6:18)</p></li></ul><p><strong>Inner Healing &amp; Deliverance Resource for Survivors:</strong>From the Oaklee Collective<a href="https://www.oakleecollective.com/store" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>Prayers of Promise &amp; Protection Manual:</strong></a></p><ol><li><p><strong>Forgiveness</strong> (Page 3)</p></li><li><p><strong>Uncovering Lies &amp; Partnering with Truth</strong> (Page 11)</p></li><li><p><strong>Removing Legal Rights from the Enemy</strong> (Page 13)</p></li><li><p><strong>Breaking Generational Curses</strong> (Page 14)</p></li><li><p><strong>Prayers of Protection for Children</strong> (Page 25)</p></li><li><p><strong>Prayer of Forgiveness &amp; Breaking Intimate Bonding</strong> (Page 28)</p></li></ol><p><strong>Additional Resources:</strong></p><ul><li><p><strong>National Child Abuse Hotline:</strong> 1-800-4-A-CHILD (800-422-4453)</p></li></ul><li><ul><li><strong>Oaklee Collective Weekly Family Activities:</strong> Sign up at<a href="http://www.oakleecollective.com/bookclub">www.oakleecollective.com/bookclub</a> or visit our store at<a href="http://www.oakleecollective.com/store">www.oakleecollective.com/store</a> (after February 2025).</li><li><a href="https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/jackie-morales7/episodes/Episode-3--Forgiveness-Propels-us-Towards-Freedom-e292bsb" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Forgiveness Episode</a></li><li><a href="https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/jackie-morales7/episodes/Episode-6--Ungodly-Soul-Ties-Workshop-Teaching-Part-1-e2a7sid" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Breaking Soul Ties Episode</a></li></ul></li><p><strong>Closing Encouragement:</strong></p><p>Thank you for joining us in this vital conversation. If you found this episode helpful, please share it and consider leaving a review to help others find healing and hope.</p><p><br></p><p>Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io</p><p>Produced By White Hot</p><p><br></p>

Rise Up Beloved | Inner Healing, Deliverance, and Christian Leadership for Women

Jackie Morales- Christian Inner Healing and Deliverance Mentor, LCSW, Oaklee Co.

Episode 13- Loving Well: First Responders Guide for Child Abuse Disclosures & Initial Inner Healing Interventions

FEB 7, 202569 MIN
Rise Up Beloved | Inner Healing, Deliverance, and Christian Leadership for Women

Episode 13- Loving Well: First Responders Guide for Child Abuse Disclosures & Initial Inner Healing Interventions

FEB 7, 202569 MIN

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<p><strong>Introduction:</strong>Welcome Beloved! This week, we continue our &quot;Let Our Children Go&quot; series by Rebecca Greenwood. We’ll be diving into chapters 7 &amp; 8, focusing on how to love and support those affected by child abuse. Whether you are a parent, a minister, or a friend, this episode will equip you with essential knowledge on responding to disclosures of abuse and supporting survivors on their healing journey.</p><p><strong>Topics Covered:</strong></p><ul><li><p>What to do after an initial abuse disclosure and legal responsibilities.</p></li><li><p>The stages children go through when disclosing abuse and how to respond.</p></li><li><p>Essential resources for supporting survivors through the healing journey.</p></li><li><p>How to create a safe space for inner healing and spiritual restoration.</p></li></ul><p><strong>Understanding the Disclosure Process:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Abuse disclosures are rarely a one-time event; they unfold over time.</p></li><li><p>Many children delay disclosure for weeks, months, or even years due to fear and psychological manipulation.</p></li><li><p>Research shows that 60% of abused children do not tell anyone until adulthood or never disclose at all.</p></li></ul><p><strong>Child Sexual Abuse Accommodation Syndrome:</strong></p><ol><li><p><strong>Secrecy:</strong> Grooming techniques used by abusers keep the child silent.</p></li><li><p><strong>Helplessness:</strong> The child may not understand the abuse is wrong or believe they have power to stop it.</p></li><li><p><strong>Entrapment &amp; Accommodation:</strong> The child adapts to the abuse to maintain family harmony or avoid harm.</p></li><li><p><strong>Delayed Disclosure:</strong> Fear of disbelief or consequences prevents immediate disclosure.</p></li><li><p><strong>Retraction or Recantation:</strong> When facing family distress or disbelief, children may withdraw their statements.</p></li></ol><p><strong>Responding to a Child’s Disclosure:</strong></p><ul><li><p><strong>Believe and affirm the child’s experience.</strong></p></li><li><p><strong>Report immediately</strong> to Law Enforcement and Child Protective Services (CPS).</p></li><li><p><strong>Avoid questioning the child</strong>; only trained forensic interviewers should conduct interviews.</p></li><li><p><strong>Do not confront the abuser</strong>; allow legal authorities to handle the case.</p></li><li><p><strong>Ensure the child receives counseling and a forensic interview</strong> through a Children’s Advocacy Center.</p></li><li><p><strong>Provide a stable, safe environment</strong> for the child to heal.</p></li></ul><p><strong>Spiritual Response to Abuse:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Survivors must process emotions such as anger, denial, and fear before true healing begins.</p></li><li><p>Encouraging open lament and emotional expression prevents inner wounds from festering.</p></li><li><p>Teaching children that<strong>God is their protector and healer</strong> fosters restoration.</p></li><li><p>Forgiveness is an act of obedience to God, but it<strong>does not mean reconciliation with an unrepentant abuser</strong>.</p></li></ul><p><strong>Key Scriptures for Healing:</strong></p><ul><li><p><strong>Isaiah 43:1</strong> – God has redeemed you and calls you by name.</p></li><li><p><strong>2 Corinthians 1:3-7</strong> – God is the Father of compassion and comfort.</p></li><li><p><strong>Psalm 139:23-24</strong> – God can reveal and heal anxious thoughts.</p></li></ul><p><strong>How to Support Abuse Survivors – Do’s &amp; Don’ts</strong></p><ul><li><p><strong>Do listen with empathy; don’t minimize their experience.</strong> (Psalm 31:10)</p></li><li><p><strong>Do be patient; don’t push for full disclosure.</strong> (1 Peter 2:17)</p></li><li><p><strong>Do offer spiritual encouragement; don’t assume they are ready.</strong> (Galatians 5:25)</p></li><li><p><strong>Do help them find resources; don’t leave them to navigate alone.</strong> (Proverbs 15:22)</p></li><li><p><strong>Do pray for them; don’t underestimate the power of intercession.</strong> (Ephesians 6:18)</p></li></ul><p><strong>Inner Healing &amp; Deliverance Resource for Survivors:</strong>From the Oaklee Collective<a href="https://www.oakleecollective.com/store" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>Prayers of Promise &amp; Protection Manual:</strong></a></p><ol><li><p><strong>Forgiveness</strong> (Page 3)</p></li><li><p><strong>Uncovering Lies &amp; Partnering with Truth</strong> (Page 11)</p></li><li><p><strong>Removing Legal Rights from the Enemy</strong> (Page 13)</p></li><li><p><strong>Breaking Generational Curses</strong> (Page 14)</p></li><li><p><strong>Prayers of Protection for Children</strong> (Page 25)</p></li><li><p><strong>Prayer of Forgiveness &amp; Breaking Intimate Bonding</strong> (Page 28)</p></li></ol><p><strong>Additional Resources:</strong></p><ul><li><p><strong>National Child Abuse Hotline:</strong> 1-800-4-A-CHILD (800-422-4453)</p></li></ul><li><ul><li><strong>Oaklee Collective Weekly Family Activities:</strong> Sign up at<a href="http://www.oakleecollective.com/bookclub">www.oakleecollective.com/bookclub</a> or visit our store at<a href="http://www.oakleecollective.com/store">www.oakleecollective.com/store</a> (after February 2025).</li><li><a href="https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/jackie-morales7/episodes/Episode-3--Forgiveness-Propels-us-Towards-Freedom-e292bsb" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Forgiveness Episode</a></li><li><a href="https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/jackie-morales7/episodes/Episode-6--Ungodly-Soul-Ties-Workshop-Teaching-Part-1-e2a7sid" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Breaking Soul Ties Episode</a></li></ul></li><p><strong>Closing Encouragement:</strong></p><p>Thank you for joining us in this vital conversation. If you found this episode helpful, please share it and consider leaving a review to help others find healing and hope.</p><p><br></p><p>Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io</p><p>Produced By White Hot</p><p><br></p>