84. Where Am I Still Hiding The Identity Leak Costing You Clients, Confidence & Cash
SHOW DESCRIPTION
This episode is a mirror, queen — and honestly, it’s one I had to hold up for myself first. After Be You Brand Live, I caught myself doing the VERY thing I coach women out of… hiding in plain freaking sight. If you’ve been posting, “showing up,” or doing all the things but still feel invisible, diluted, or low-key disconnected from your own power? This episode is the line in the sand you didn’t know you needed. We’re talking identity leaks, invisible content, mission-divorced visibility, and the subtle self-abandonment costing you clients, confidence, and cash — without you even noticing.
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📚 RESOURCES MENTIONED
CHOSEN Method Masterclass • Be You Brand Live recap episode • Rapid-Fire Journaling Prompts (download here) • My visibility + identity coaching frameworks
⭐ EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
Why “hiding” isn’t always obvious — and how high-level entrepreneurs do it without realizing
The identity leak that’s costing you authority, trust, and income
Why posting isn’t visibility (and how you may be checking the box instead of being seen)
The moment I realized I was diluting my power after BYB Live
The middle ground between “testing your messaging” and abandoning your truth
How fear of peers, comparison, and pressure waters down your identity
The psychology of visibility: why people need 17+ touches to buy
The REAL reason your content feels heavy or flat
Why your conviction — not your niche, your offers, or your aesthetics — is what people buy
What shifts when you finally choose yourself FIRST
💡 KEY TAKEAWAYS
Hiding is subtle — most women hide in plain sight while telling themselves they’re “showing up.”
If your content feels heavy, forced, or sanitized… you’re out of your power.
Before anyone chooses you, you must choose yourself — visibly, loudly, unapologetically.
Your mission requires a higher standard of visibility than you’re giving it.
Offers don’t sell themselves — YOU sell them through repeated, powerful, embodied messaging.
Your full truth is your authority. Editing to be palatable kills your brand.
You can’t activate clients from a place where you’re not activated.
🔥 QUOTABLE MOMENTS
“Most women hide in plain sight. They’re posting, networking, doing ‘all the things’… but none of it carries power.” — Ati
“Before anyone chooses you, you must choose yourself.” — Ati
“Your conviction is the only thing that’s truly unique about your brand.” — Ati
“You cannot think your way into power. You have to feel it — and then show up from it.” — Ati
🕒 EPISODE TIMESTAMPS
00:00 – Why this episode needed to happen 01:45 – The visibility hangover after Be You Brand Live 04:20 – The subtle ways women hide without noticing 06:30 – Posting vs. being seen 08:40 – When your mission deserves more than your current visibility 10:20 – Checking the box vs activating your audience 12:00 – Testing your message vs watering it down 14:00 – The identity leak I found in my own brand 16:20 – Fear of peers + fear of being fully chosen 18:20 – Repeating strategies that don’t work 20:50 – The 17-touch rule for buying psychology 22:45 – “Would you hire the version of you the world sees right now?” 24:30 – Embodiment, power, and identity in business 26:30 – Rapid-fire journaling prompts 29:00 – The CHOSEN era begins 30:20 – Join the CHOSEN Method Masterclass
👑 ABOUT YOUR HOST
Ati Grinspun is your unapologetic Personal Brand Whiz and visibility activator behind the Be You Brand™ movement. From world champion flair bartender to portrait photographer to coaching hu
