<p>Can an online quiz really tell you who you are in BDSM? How long does it take three neurodivergent kinksters to take a test together (and just how many Barbarella references can we fit into our commentary)?  Charlie and I decide to take the (in?)famous <strong>BDSM Test</strong> and compare it with another sexuality self test <strong>MojoUpgrade</strong>. While working our way into the first test we got a call from one of our favorite humans, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aiden.charming/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Sir Aiden Charming</a>, who joined us in the test adventure and commentary. We laugh, we cringe, we learn about ourselves and each other. This is a truncated version of our online shenanigans, while Patreon listeners have the opportunity to do the tests with us in a  2-hour long play by play, query by query recording. So buckle up for this blast from the past (<em>we actually recorded this in the summer 2024 but Kat got overwhelmed by the editing process #spoonielife #betterlatethannever)</em>.</p><p>Have you done these or other sexuality/kink tests? What did you like or dislike? Let us know if there's one you think we should take on the pod!</p><p><strong>Take the Tests!</strong></p><p><a href="https://BDSMtest.org" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">BDSMtest.org</a></p><p><a href="https://mojoupgrade.com" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">mojoupgrade.com</a></p><p><strong>Other resources mentioned:</strong></p><p>Kat’s <a href="https://goodloveproject.com/resources" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Yes/Maybe/No Kink Checklist</a></p><p>Scarleteen’s non-kink/beginner friendly <a href="https://www.scarleteen.com/read/relationships/yes-no-maybe-so-sexual-inventory-stocklist" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Yes, No, Maybe So: Sexual Inventory Stocklist</a></p><p>Donate to them!</p><p><a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/1886814282/funny-mind-the-gap-womens-briefs-novelty" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">"Mind the Gap" Underwear</a> designed by Kat</p>