We’re told we need closure to move on—but what if closure isn’t what your heart actually needs? In this episode, we’re breaking down the difference between chasing closure and receiving peace. Closure often depends on someone else giving you answers, but peace? Peace comes from God, even when you never get the apology, explanation, or final conversation. If you’ve been stuck in a loop of waiting, wondering, and rehashing what went wrong, this one’s for you. Let’s talk about how to stop seeking closure and start embracing the kind of peace that truly sets you free. Want to go deeper?<ul><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/17098677-ep-65-there-s-a-blessing-in-the-betrayal.mp3?download=true'>Blessing in the Betrayal - Ep 65</a></li><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/15567054-ep-43-breakup-seasons-overcoming-grief-and-embracing-god-s-promises.mp3?download=true'>Breakup season - Ep 43</a></li><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/15879906-ep-48-heartbreak-to-redemption-find-your-true-identity-in-christ.mp3?download=true'>Heatbreak to Redemption - Ep 48</a></li></ul> Need services to help you navigate your relationships? <a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/'>Learn how Purposeful Counseling</a> can help! Want to have your question answered? Email info@purposeful-counseling.com  Music: Lofi Chill FASSounds<a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2239431/open_sms'>Questions, comments, concerns? Let’s chat!</a><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2239431/open_sms">Questions, comments, concerns? Let’s chat!</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;We’re told we need closure to move on—but what if closure isn’t what your heart actually needs? In this episode, we’re breaking down the difference between chasing closure and receiving peace. Closure often depends on someone else giving you answers, but peace? Peace comes from God, even when you never get the apology, explanation, or final conversation. If you’ve been stuck in a loop of waiting, wondering, and rehashing what went wrong, this one’s for you. Let’s talk about how to stop seeking closure and start embracing the kind of peace that truly sets you free.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Want to go deeper?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/17098677-ep-65-there-s-a-blessing-in-the-betrayal.mp3?download=true'&gt;Blessing in the Betrayal - Ep 65&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/15567054-ep-43-breakup-seasons-overcoming-grief-and-embracing-god-s-promises.mp3?download=true'&gt;Breakup season - Ep 43&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/15879906-ep-48-heartbreak-to-redemption-find-your-true-identity-in-christ.mp3?download=true'&gt;Heatbreak to Redemption - Ep 48&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Need services to help you navigate your relationships? &lt;a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/'&gt;Learn how Purposeful Counseling&lt;/a&gt; can help!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Want to have your question answered? Email info@purposeful-counseling.com &lt;br/&gt;Music: Lofi Chill FASSounds&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2239431/open_sms'&gt;Questions, comments, concerns? Let’s chat!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2239431/open_sms"&gt;Questions, comments, concerns? Let’s chat!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

We’re told we need closure to move on—but what if closure isn’t what your heart actually needs? In this episode, we’re breaking down the difference between chasing closure and receiving peace. Closure often depends on someone else giving you answers, but peace? Peace comes from God, even when you never get the apology, explanation, or final conversation. If you’ve been stuck in a loop of waiting, wondering, and rehashing what went wrong, this one’s for you. Let’s talk about how to stop seekin...

Ep 66: You Don’t Need Closure—You Need Peace

Betrayal cuts deep—but what if it’s part of God’s plan to get you to your next level? In this episode, I unpack the story of Judas betraying Jesus and reveal how betrayal can be prophetic, strategic, and purposeful.You’ll learn how:<ul><li>Prophecy is fulfilled through the pain</li><li>The enemy’s plan can’t override God’s purpose</li><li>Betrayal might be the bridge to your kingdom partner</li></ul>If you&apos;ve ever been hurt by someone you trusted, this episode will help you shift your perspective—because sometimes, the person who walked away was never meant to walk with you into destiny.Tune in and learn why you should stop mourning the betrayal—and start celebrating what it’s making room for. Want to go deeper?<ul><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/15567054-ep-43-breakup-seasons-overcoming-grief-and-embracing-god-s-promises.mp3?download=true'>Navigating Breakups - Ep 43</a></li><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16590297-ep-56-the-real-reason-people-cheat-lessons-from-david-s-downfall-redemption.mp3?download=true'>Real Reason People Cheat - Ep 56</a></li><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/15098299-ep-31-how-to-leave-an-abusive-relationship.mp3?download=true'>Leaving an Abusive Relationship - Ep 31</a></li><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16473796-ep-53-authentic-vs-counterfeit-love-recognizing-god-s-design-for-relationships.mp3?download=true'>Authentic vs Counterfeit - Ep 53</a></li></ul>Need services to help you navigate your relationships? <a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/'>Learn how Purposeful Counseling</a> can help! Want to have your question answered? Email info@purposeful-counseling.com  Music: Lofi Chill FASSounds<a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2239431/open_sms">Questions, comments, concerns? Let’s chat!</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;Betrayal cuts deep—but what if it’s part of God’s plan to get you to your next level? In this episode, I unpack the story of Judas betraying Jesus and reveal how betrayal can be &lt;b&gt;prophetic, strategic, and purposeful&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You’ll learn how:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Prophecy is fulfilled through the pain&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;The enemy’s plan can’t override God’s purpose&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Betrayal might be the &lt;b&gt;bridge&lt;/b&gt; to your &lt;b&gt;kingdom partner&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you&amp;apos;ve ever been hurt by someone you trusted, this episode will help you shift your perspective—because sometimes, the person who walked away was never meant to walk with you into destiny.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Tune in and learn why you should stop mourning the betrayal—and start &lt;b&gt;celebrating what it’s making room for&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Want to go deeper?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/15567054-ep-43-breakup-seasons-overcoming-grief-and-embracing-god-s-promises.mp3?download=true'&gt;Navigating Breakups - Ep 43&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16590297-ep-56-the-real-reason-people-cheat-lessons-from-david-s-downfall-redemption.mp3?download=true'&gt;Real Reason People Cheat - Ep 56&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/15098299-ep-31-how-to-leave-an-abusive-relationship.mp3?download=true'&gt;Leaving an Abusive Relationship - Ep 31&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16473796-ep-53-authentic-vs-counterfeit-love-recognizing-god-s-design-for-relationships.mp3?download=true'&gt;Authentic vs Counterfeit - Ep 53&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Need services to help you navigate your relationships? &lt;a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/'&gt;Learn how Purposeful Counseling&lt;/a&gt; can help!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Want to have your question answered? Email info@purposeful-counseling.com &lt;br/&gt;Music: Lofi Chill FASSounds&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2239431/open_sms"&gt;Questions, comments, concerns? Let’s chat!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Betrayal cuts deep—but what if it’s part of God’s plan to get you to your next level? In this episode, I unpack the story of Judas betraying Jesus and reveal how betrayal can be prophetic, strategic, and purposeful. You’ll learn how: Prophecy is fulfilled through the painThe enemy’s plan can’t override God’s purposeBetrayal might be the bridge to your kingdom partnerIf you've ever been hurt by someone you trusted, this episode will help you shift your perspective—because sometimes, the person...

Ep 65: There's a Blessing in the Betrayal 

Not every church is led by the Spirit of God—and just because a place has “church” on the sign doesn’t mean it’s safe for your soul. In this episode, we’re calling out the red flags of toxic church culture: when leadership is corrupt, when bigotry is disguised as righteousness, and when Scripture is twisted to fit man-made agendas. We’ll look at the example of King Saul and break down why you can’t get healthy teaching from a corrupt source.If you’ve ever felt spiritually manipulated, silenced, or shamed in the name of God, this conversation is for you. Let’s clear the confusion and get back to the heart of what Jesus intended for His Church. Want to go deeper?<ul><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16729650-ep-59-if-you-see-these-red-flags-run.mp3?download=true'>Red Flags - Ep 59</a></li><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16551310-ep-55-god-told-me-you-re-the-one-or-was-that-just-my-feelings-talking.mp3?download=true'>Are You Really &quot;The One&quot; - Ep 55</a></li><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16473796-ep-53-authentic-vs-counterfeit-love-recognizing-god-s-design-for-relationships.mp3?download=true'>Authentic vs Counterfeit - Ep 53</a></li><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/15958211-ep-49-forgiveness-the-key-to-healthy-relationships.mp3?download=true'>Forgiveness is Key - Ep 49</a></li></ul>Interested in the Paint and Sip (I mean, why not?!) click the link and discover more!! <a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/paint'>Canvas + Cocktails: A Luxe Paint + Sip Couples Experience </a> Need services to help you navigate your relationships? <a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/'>Learn how Purposeful Counseling</a> can help! Want to have your question answered? Email info@purposeful-counseling.com  Music: Lofi Chill FASSounds<a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2239431/open_sms">Questions, comments, concerns? Let’s chat!</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;Not every church is led by the Spirit of God—and just because a place has “church” on the sign doesn’t mean it’s safe for your soul. In this episode, we’re calling out the red flags of toxic church culture: when leadership is corrupt, when bigotry is disguised as righteousness, and when Scripture is twisted to fit man-made agendas. We’ll look at the example of King Saul and break down why &lt;b&gt;you can’t get healthy teaching from a corrupt source.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you’ve ever felt spiritually manipulated, silenced, or shamed in the name of God, this conversation is for you. Let’s clear the confusion and get back to the heart of what Jesus intended for His Church.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Want to go deeper?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16729650-ep-59-if-you-see-these-red-flags-run.mp3?download=true'&gt;Red Flags - Ep 59&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16551310-ep-55-god-told-me-you-re-the-one-or-was-that-just-my-feelings-talking.mp3?download=true'&gt;Are You Really &amp;quot;The One&amp;quot; - Ep 55&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16473796-ep-53-authentic-vs-counterfeit-love-recognizing-god-s-design-for-relationships.mp3?download=true'&gt;Authentic vs Counterfeit - Ep 53&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/15958211-ep-49-forgiveness-the-key-to-healthy-relationships.mp3?download=true'&gt;Forgiveness is Key - Ep 49&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Interested in the Paint and Sip (I mean, why not?!) click the link and discover more!! &lt;a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/paint'&gt;Canvas + Cocktails: A Luxe Paint + Sip Couples Experience &lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Need services to help you navigate your relationships? &lt;a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/'&gt;Learn how Purposeful Counseling&lt;/a&gt; can help!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Want to have your question answered? Email info@purposeful-counseling.com &lt;br/&gt;Music: Lofi Chill FASSounds&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2239431/open_sms"&gt;Questions, comments, concerns? Let’s chat!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Not every church is led by the Spirit of God—and just because a place has “church” on the sign doesn’t mean it’s safe for your soul. In this episode, we’re calling out the red flags of toxic church culture: when leadership is corrupt, when bigotry is disguised as righteousness, and when Scripture is twisted to fit man-made agendas. We’ll look at the example of King Saul and break down why you can’t get healthy teaching from a corrupt source. If you’ve ever felt spiritually manipulated, silenc...

Ep 64: Untoxicify Your (Church) Relationship: How to Know If Your Church Is Toxic

Toxic work environments can drain your energy, shake your confidence, and challenge your peace. But what if God is calling you to shake the dust off your feet and break free—mentally, emotionally, and even physically? In this episode, we’re diving into how to untangle yourself from toxic bosses, coworkers, and unhealthy workplace dynamics while staying true to your faith. We’ll explore biblical wisdom on authority, boundaries, and knowing when to push back against an unjust system. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a toxic job or workplace relationships, this episode is for you! Want to go deeper?<ul><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16769726-ep-60-untoxicify-your-relationship-the-blueprint-for-real-connection.mp3?download=true'>The Blueprint for healthy relationships - Ep 60</a></li><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16850633-ep-62-untoxicify-your-parental-relationship-how-to-honor-a-toxic-parent.mp3?download=true'>How to honor a toxic parent - Ep 62</a></li></ul> Interested in the Paint and Sip (I mean, why not?!) click the link and discover more!! <a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/paint'>Canvas + Cocktails: A Luxe Paint + Sip Couples Experience </a> Need services to help you navigate your relationships? <a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/'>Learn how Purposeful Counseling</a> can help! Want to have your question answered? Email info@purposeful-counseling.com  Music: Lofi Chill FASSounds<a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2239431/open_sms">Questions, comments, concerns? Let’s chat!</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;Toxic work environments can drain your energy, shake your confidence, and challenge your peace. But what if God is calling you to shake the dust off your feet and break free—mentally, emotionally, and even physically? In this episode, we’re diving into how to untangle yourself from toxic bosses, coworkers, and unhealthy workplace dynamics while staying true to your faith. We’ll explore biblical wisdom on authority, boundaries, and knowing when to push back against an unjust system. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a toxic job or workplace relationships, this episode is for you!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Want to go deeper?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16769726-ep-60-untoxicify-your-relationship-the-blueprint-for-real-connection.mp3?download=true'&gt;The Blueprint for healthy relationships - Ep 60&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/16850633-ep-62-untoxicify-your-parental-relationship-how-to-honor-a-toxic-parent.mp3?download=true'&gt;How to honor a toxic parent - Ep 62&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Interested in the Paint and Sip (I mean, why not?!) click the link and discover more!! &lt;a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/paint'&gt;Canvas + Cocktails: A Luxe Paint + Sip Couples Experience &lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Need services to help you navigate your relationships? &lt;a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/'&gt;Learn how Purposeful Counseling&lt;/a&gt; can help!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Want to have your question answered? Email info@purposeful-counseling.com &lt;br/&gt;Music: Lofi Chill FASSounds&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2239431/open_sms"&gt;Questions, comments, concerns? Let’s chat!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Toxic work environments can drain your energy, shake your confidence, and challenge your peace. But what if God is calling you to shake the dust off your feet and break free—mentally, emotionally, and even physically? In this episode, we’re diving into how to untangle yourself from toxic bosses, coworkers, and unhealthy workplace dynamics while staying true to your faith. We’ll explore biblical wisdom on authority, boundaries, and knowing when to push back against an unjust system. If you’ve ...

Ep 63: Untoxicify Your (Work) Relationship: How to Buck Against A Toxic Work Environment

In this episode, we explore what it truly means to honor a parent who has been toxic. Does honoring always mean obedience? How do you set boundaries while still respecting God’s command? We’ll break down biblical principles, practical steps, and emotional healing strategies to help you navigate a complex parent-child relationship with wisdom, grace, and strength. Want to go deeper?<ul><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/13653572-ep-5-how-to-set-boundaries-with-family-by-using-this-top-secret-advice.mp3?download=true'>Setting Boundaries with Family - Ep 5</a></li><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/14123695-ep-16-3-ways-having-wisdom-can-help-build-stronger-relationships.mp3?download=true'>Wisdom Builds Stronger Relationships - Ep 16</a></li><li><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/15958211-ep-49-forgiveness-the-key-to-healthy-relationships.mp3?download=true'>Forgiveness - Ep 49</a> </li></ul>Interested in the Paint and Sip (I mean, why not?!) click the link and discover more!! <a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/paint'>Canvas + Cocktails: A Luxe Paint + Sip Couples Experience </a> Need services to help you navigate your relationships? <a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/'>Learn how Purposeful Counseling</a> can help! Want to have your question answered? Email info@purposeful-counseling.com  Music: Lofi Chill FASSounds<a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2239431/open_sms">Questions, comments, concerns? Let’s chat!</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode, we explore what it truly means to honor a parent who has been toxic. Does honoring always mean obedience? How do you set boundaries while still respecting God’s command? We’ll break down biblical principles, practical steps, and emotional healing strategies to help you navigate a complex parent-child relationship with wisdom, grace, and strength.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Want to go deeper?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/13653572-ep-5-how-to-set-boundaries-with-family-by-using-this-top-secret-advice.mp3?download=true'&gt;Setting Boundaries with Family - Ep 5&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/14123695-ep-16-3-ways-having-wisdom-can-help-build-stronger-relationships.mp3?download=true'&gt;Wisdom Builds Stronger Relationships - Ep 16&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2239431/episodes/15958211-ep-49-forgiveness-the-key-to-healthy-relationships.mp3?download=true'&gt;Forgiveness - Ep 49&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Interested in the Paint and Sip (I mean, why not?!) click the link and discover more!! &lt;a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/paint'&gt;Canvas + Cocktails: A Luxe Paint + Sip Couples Experience &lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Need services to help you navigate your relationships? &lt;a href='https://www.purposeful-counseling.com/'&gt;Learn how Purposeful Counseling&lt;/a&gt; can help!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Want to have your question answered? Email info@purposeful-counseling.com &lt;br/&gt;Music: Lofi Chill FASSounds&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2239431/open_sms"&gt;Questions, comments, concerns? Let’s chat!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this episode, we explore what it truly means to honor a parent who has been toxic. Does honoring always mean obedience? How do you set boundaries while still respecting God’s command? We’ll break down biblical principles, practical steps, and emotional healing strategies to help you navigate a complex parent-child relationship with wisdom, grace, and strength.   Want to go deeper? Setting Boundaries with Family - Ep 5Wisdom Builds Stronger Relationships - Ep 16Forgiveness - Ep 49 Inte...

Ep 62: Untoxicify Your (Parental) Relationship: How to Honor a Toxic Parent

Welcome to the award-winning podcast, Untoxicify Your Relationship! Hosted by Melissa Webb, licensed mental health therapist and founder of Purposeful Counseling, this podcast explores how to eliminate toxic behaviors and build healthier, Christ-centered relationships. With over ten years of experience, Melissa empowers others to strengthen their relationships through Christian principles and proven mental health techniques. Tune in for faith-based strategies to cultivate thriving partnerships rooted in Biblical wisdom.&nbsp;

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