<description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Welcome to the Adam Lamb Adventure Club podcast.&lt;/strong&gt; In this episode I spoke with Om Rupani. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Om is a BDSM educator in the NYC area. I first met him at his workshop “Dating &amp;amp; Dominance for the Modern Man”, held at his home in Jersey City. The workshop profoundly shifted how I relate to women, and paradoxically led to me taking a year off from pursuing them. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Om’s approach, based on two decades of data working with men, women, and couples, was somehow equally heart-felt and confronting. I found that many of his ideas were new to me, particularly in man/woman relating, sub/dom archetypes, and his view that modern feminism is synonymous with a disrespect of men. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;After listening to all of his podcast episodes, which I highly recommend, I still had questions. Om was kind enough to give me an hour of his &lt;a href="http://time.In" class="linkified" target="_blank"&gt;time.In&lt;/a&gt; this episode, we discuss: &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Polarity&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Agreement&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Containment&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;The importance of adoration in romance&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;When to end a relationship&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Developing self-containment through meditation and physical activity &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;When to take a break from women&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;The importance of men having male friends&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Porn &amp;amp; masturbation&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Om’s favorite depiction healthy masculinity in media&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Men as sex workers for women&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Feminism&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;Growing up in India&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Landmark Forum&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;His path from student to co-facilitator with Laurie Handlers&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;What is love?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Om&amp;#39;s workshops can be found at &lt;a href="omrupani.org" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"&gt;omrupani.org&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;his online community is at &lt;a href="omrupani.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"&gt;omrupani.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Get full access to Adam Lamb Adventure Club at &lt;a href="https://adamlamb.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&amp;#38;utm_campaign=CTA_4"&gt;adamlamb.substack.com/subscribe&lt;/a&gt;</description>

Adam Lamb Adventure Club

Adam Lamb

Om Rupani

AUG 29, 202360 MIN
Adam Lamb Adventure Club

Om Rupani

AUG 29, 202360 MIN

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<p><strong>Welcome to the Adam Lamb Adventure Club podcast.</strong> In this episode I spoke with Om Rupani. </p><br/><p>Om is a BDSM educator in the NYC area. I first met him at his workshop “Dating &amp; Dominance for the Modern Man”, held at his home in Jersey City. The workshop profoundly shifted how I relate to women, and paradoxically led to me taking a year off from pursuing them. </p><br/><p>Om’s approach, based on two decades of data working with men, women, and couples, was somehow equally heart-felt and confronting. I found that many of his ideas were new to me, particularly in man/woman relating, sub/dom archetypes, and his view that modern feminism is synonymous with a disrespect of men. </p><br/><p>After listening to all of his podcast episodes, which I highly recommend, I still had questions. Om was kind enough to give me an hour of his <a href="http://time.In" class="linkified" target="_blank">time.In</a> this episode, we discuss: </p><br/><ul><br/> <li><p>Polarity</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>Agreement</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>Containment</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>The importance of adoration in romance</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>When to end a relationship</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>Developing self-containment through meditation and physical activity </p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>When to take a break from women</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>The importance of men having male friends</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>Porn &amp; masturbation</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>Om’s favorite depiction healthy masculinity in media</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>Men as sex workers for women</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>Feminism</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>Growing up in India</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>The Landmark Forum</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>His path from student to co-facilitator with Laurie Handlers</p><br/></li><br/> <li><p>What is love?</p><br/><p><br/></p><br/><p>Om&#39;s workshops can be found at <a href="omrupani.org" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">omrupani.org</a></p><br/><p>his online community is at <a href="omrupani.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">omrupani.com</a></p><br/><p><br/></p><br/></li><br/></ul> <br/><br/>Get full access to Adam Lamb Adventure Club at <a href="https://adamlamb.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_4">adamlamb.substack.com/subscribe</a>