Mia Interviews Risdon for their upcoming book!Video version on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry">YouTube</a> with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG <a href="https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration/hat-ydiw-1">hats</a>!!!<a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs">Upcoming classes</a>. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, <a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/">Consent Educator</a>, <a href="http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/">Intimacy Coordinator</a> for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher-<a href="http://maxsilvermakesart.com/">artist, musician</a>, and Tinder’s Resident Consent Educator living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach <a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs">group classes</a> online. You can follow their work on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/">@consent.wizardry</a> and you can read their writing, including their canceled memoir on <a href="https://sharetheload.substack.com">Substack</a>.<a href="https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com">Risdon Roberts</a> (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.&nbsp;Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from <a href="https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV">Foria</a>. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with <a href="https://erikalust.com">Lust Cinema</a> to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.<a href="https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=XC&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.</a><a href="https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=LC&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Plot driven feature lengths.</a><a href="https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=EF&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Soft stuff.</a>

<description>&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;Mia Interviews Risdon for their upcoming book!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;Video version on &lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry"&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt; with subtitles. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG &lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration/hat-ydiw-1"&gt;hats&lt;/a&gt;!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs"&gt;Upcoming classes&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, &lt;a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/"&gt;Consent Educator&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/"&gt;Intimacy Coordinator&lt;/a&gt; for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher-&lt;a href="http://maxsilvermakesart.com/"&gt;artist, musician&lt;/a&gt;, and Tinder’s Resident Consent Educator living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach &lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs"&gt;group classes&lt;/a&gt; online. You can follow their work on Instagram &lt;a href="https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/"&gt;@consent.wizardry&lt;/a&gt; and you can read their writing, including their canceled memoir on &lt;a href="https://sharetheload.substack.com"&gt;Substack&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com"&gt;Risdon Roberts&lt;/a&gt; (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;Mia made our silly music. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from &lt;a href="https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV"&gt;Foria&lt;/a&gt;. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;I’ve partnered with &lt;a href="https://erikalust.com"&gt;Lust Cinema&lt;/a&gt; to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=XC&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=LC&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Plot driven feature lengths.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=EF&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Soft stuff.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Mia Interviews Risdon for their upcoming book!

Mia Interviews Risdon

wtf is going on here? We share our takes as intimacy coordinators. Video version on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry">YouTube</a> with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG <a href="https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration/hat-ydiw-1">hats</a>!!!<a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs">Upcoming classes</a>. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, <a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/">Consent Educator</a>, <a href="http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/">Intimacy Coordinator</a> for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher-<a href="http://maxsilvermakesart.com/">artist, musician</a>, and Tinder’s Resident Consent Educator living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach <a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs">group classes</a> online. You can follow their work on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/">@consent.wizardry</a> and you can read their writing, including their canceled memoir on <a href="https://sharetheload.substack.com">Substack</a>.<a href="https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com">Risdon Roberts</a> (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.&nbsp;Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from <a href="https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV">Foria</a>. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with <a href="https://erikalust.com">Lust Cinema</a> to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.<a href="https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=XC&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.</a><a href="https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=LC&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Plot driven feature lengths.</a><a href="https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=EF&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Soft stuff.</a>

<description>&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;wtf is going on here? We share our takes as intimacy coordinators. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;Video version on &lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry"&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt; with subtitles. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG &lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration/hat-ydiw-1"&gt;hats&lt;/a&gt;!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs"&gt;Upcoming classes&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, &lt;a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/"&gt;Consent Educator&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/"&gt;Intimacy Coordinator&lt;/a&gt; for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher-&lt;a href="http://maxsilvermakesart.com/"&gt;artist, musician&lt;/a&gt;, and Tinder’s Resident Consent Educator living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach &lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs"&gt;group classes&lt;/a&gt; online. You can follow their work on Instagram &lt;a href="https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/"&gt;@consent.wizardry&lt;/a&gt; and you can read their writing, including their canceled memoir on &lt;a href="https://sharetheload.substack.com"&gt;Substack&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com"&gt;Risdon Roberts&lt;/a&gt; (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;Mia made our silly music. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from &lt;a href="https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV"&gt;Foria&lt;/a&gt;. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;I’ve partnered with &lt;a href="https://erikalust.com"&gt;Lust Cinema&lt;/a&gt; to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=XC&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=LC&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Plot driven feature lengths.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="" data-rte-preserve-empty="true" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=EF&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Soft stuff.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

wtf is going on here?

We share our takes as intimacy coordinators on wtf is going on with Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni.

Intimacy coordinators discuss justin baldoni vs. blake lively

Kelly comes on to talk about shutting down a social justice project because of Cancel Culture and the ways the Left eat our own.Video version on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry">YouTube</a> with subtitles.We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG <a href="https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration/hat-ydiw-1">hats</a>!!!<a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs">Consent Wizardry’s Upcoming classes</a>.Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, <a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/">Consent Educator</a>, <a href="http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/">Intimacy Coordinator</a> for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher-<a href="http://maxsilvermakesart.com/">artist, musician</a>, and Tinder’s Resident Consent Educator living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach <a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs">group classes</a> online. You can follow their work on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/">@consent.wizardry</a> and you can read their writing, including their canceled memoir on <a href="https://sharetheload.substack.com">Substack</a>.<a href="https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com">Risdon Roberts</a> (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.&nbsp;Mia made our silly music.Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from <a href="https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV">Foria</a>. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.I’ve partnered with <a href="https://erikalust.com">Lust Cinema</a> to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.<a href="https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=XC&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.</a><a href="https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=LC&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Plot driven feature lengths.</a><a href="https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=EF&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Soft stuff.</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;Kelly comes on to talk about shutting down a social justice project because of Cancel Culture and the ways the Left eat our own.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Video version on &lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry"&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt; with subtitles.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG &lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration/hat-ydiw-1"&gt;hats&lt;/a&gt;!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs"&gt;Consent Wizardry’s Upcoming classes&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, &lt;a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/"&gt;Consent Educator&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/"&gt;Intimacy Coordinator&lt;/a&gt; for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher-&lt;a href="http://maxsilvermakesart.com/"&gt;artist, musician&lt;/a&gt;, and Tinder’s Resident Consent Educator living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach &lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs"&gt;group classes&lt;/a&gt; online. You can follow their work on Instagram &lt;a href="https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/"&gt;@consent.wizardry&lt;/a&gt; and you can read their writing, including their canceled memoir on &lt;a href="https://sharetheload.substack.com"&gt;Substack&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com"&gt;Risdon Roberts&lt;/a&gt; (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mia made our silly music.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from &lt;a href="https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV"&gt;Foria&lt;/a&gt;. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I’ve partnered with &lt;a href="https://erikalust.com"&gt;Lust Cinema&lt;/a&gt; to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=XC&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=LC&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Plot driven feature lengths.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=EF&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Soft stuff.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Kelly comes on to talk about shutting down a social justice project because of Cancel Culture and the ways the Left eat our own.

Kelly talks about the Left Eating Our Own

This episode was recorded before our last episode. We published them out of order because Mia wanted to wait to secure the rights to their canceled book, Unsolicited Advice, now available on <a href="https://consentwizardry.substack.com">Substack</a>. We talk with Mischa Byruck about men and all the worst things you've ever done. Video version on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry">YouTube</a> with subtitles.We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG <a href="https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration/hat-ydiw-1">hats</a>!!!<a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs">Upcoming classes</a>.Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, <a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/">Consent Educator</a>, <a href="http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/">Intimacy Coordinator</a> for TV, Film, and Theater, a <a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1">podcaster</a>, <a href="http://maxsilvermakesart.com/">artist, musician</a>, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach <a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs">group classes</a> online. You can follow their work on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/">@consent.wizardry</a> and you can subscribe on <a href="https://sharetheload.substack.com">Substack</a>.<a href="https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com">Risdon Roberts</a> (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.&nbsp;Mia made our silly music.Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from <a href="https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV">Foria</a>. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.I’ve partnered with <a href="https://erikalust.com">Lust Cinema</a> to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.<a href="https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=XC&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.</a><a href="https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=LC&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Plot driven feature lengths.</a><a href="https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=EF&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Soft stuff.</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;This episode was recorded before our last episode. We published them out of order because Mia wanted to wait to secure the rights to their canceled book, Unsolicited Advice, now available on &lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.substack.com"&gt;Substack&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We talk with Mischa Byruck about men and all the worst things you've ever done. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Video version on &lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry"&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt; with subtitles.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG &lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration/hat-ydiw-1"&gt;hats&lt;/a&gt;!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs"&gt;Upcoming classes&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, &lt;a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/"&gt;Consent Educator&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/"&gt;Intimacy Coordinator&lt;/a&gt; for TV, Film, and Theater, a &lt;a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1"&gt;podcaster&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://maxsilvermakesart.com/"&gt;artist, musician&lt;/a&gt;, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach &lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs"&gt;group classes&lt;/a&gt; online. You can follow their work on Instagram &lt;a href="https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/"&gt;@consent.wizardry&lt;/a&gt; and you can subscribe on &lt;a href="https://sharetheload.substack.com"&gt;Substack&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com"&gt;Risdon Roberts&lt;/a&gt; (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mia made our silly music.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from &lt;a href="https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV"&gt;Foria&lt;/a&gt;. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I’ve partnered with &lt;a href="https://erikalust.com"&gt;Lust Cinema&lt;/a&gt; to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=XC&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=LC&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Plot driven feature lengths.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=EF&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Soft stuff.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Mischa Byruck on men and all the worst things you've ever done. 

We talk with Mischa Byruck about men and all the worst things you've ever done. 

Daddy?

We talk about getting high and having sex anyway, regret, blame, and punishment. Video version on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry">YouTube</a> with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG <a href="https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration/hat-ydiw-1">hats</a>!!!<a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs">Upcoming classes</a>. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, <a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/">Consent Educator</a>, <a href="http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/">Intimacy Coordinator</a> for TV, Film, and Theater, a <a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1">podcaster</a>, <a href="http://maxsilvermakesart.com/">artist, musician</a>, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach <a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs">group classes</a> online. You can follow their work on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/">@consent.wizardry</a> and you can subscribe on <a href="https://sharetheload.substack.com">Substack</a>.<a href="https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com">Risdon Roberts</a> (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.&nbsp;Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from <a href="https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV">Foria</a>. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with <a href="https://erikalust.com">Lust Cinema</a> to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.<a href="https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=XC&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.</a><a href="https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=LC&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Plot driven feature lengths.</a><a href="https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;utm_campaign=EF&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=tapfiliate">Soft stuff.</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;We talk about getting high and having sex anyway, regret, blame, and punishment. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Video version on &lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/@consent.wizardry"&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt; with subtitles. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG &lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration/hat-ydiw-1"&gt;hats&lt;/a&gt;!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs"&gt;Upcoming classes&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, &lt;a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/"&gt;Consent Educator&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://intimacyfortvandfilm.com/"&gt;Intimacy Coordinator&lt;/a&gt; for TV, Film, and Theater, a &lt;a href="https://sharetheloadinc.com/share-the-load-podcast-1"&gt;podcaster&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://maxsilvermakesart.com/"&gt;artist, musician&lt;/a&gt;, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach &lt;a href="https://consentwizardry.com/upcoming-classes-and-programs"&gt;group classes&lt;/a&gt; online. You can follow their work on Instagram &lt;a href="https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/"&gt;@consent.wizardry&lt;/a&gt; and you can subscribe on &lt;a href="https://sharetheload.substack.com"&gt;Substack&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.outbeyondintimacy.com"&gt;Risdon Roberts&lt;/a&gt; (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mia made our silly music. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from &lt;a href="https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV"&gt;Foria&lt;/a&gt;. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I’ve partnered with &lt;a href="https://erikalust.com"&gt;Lust Cinema&lt;/a&gt; to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=XC&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=LC&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Plot driven feature lengths.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&amp;amp;tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&amp;amp;utm_campaign=EF&amp;amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;amp;utm_source=tapfiliate"&gt;Soft stuff.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

We talk about getting high and having sex anyway, regret, blame, and punishment. 

We got too high and had sex anyway

A twink, Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry), and a whore, Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy), talk consent 2.0, beyond yes and no.

You're Doing It Wrong

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