Same Shit, Different Mom

In this episode, Carly dives deep into the nuances of navigating ADHD, autism, and neurodivergence as an adult—while challenging the limiting narratives around what it means to thrive. Late-diagnosed herself, Carly shares her personal journey of redefining identity, dismantling internalized ableism, and shifting from focusing on “what’s hard” to intentionally creating a reality that matches your desires. This isn’t about bypassing challenges or ignoring your wiring. It’s about understanding the power of your attention, regulating your energy, and unlocking the next version of yourself. Carly weaves together personal stories, hard-earned insights, and practical tools to help you step out of self-judgment and step into your highest potential. If you’ve ever felt like your big emotions, different wiring, or intense way of processing the world is holding you back—this conversation will give you hope, validation, and a powerful new perspective. Connect with Carly on IG Apply to work with Carly

In this episode of Same Shit, Different Mom, Carly Ely shares a raw and honest life update. After months of being quiet online, Carly opens up about her personal and business evolution—how she’s moving beyond labels, pivots, and expectations to embrace full transparency in her journey. She reflects on her shift from school psychologist to sleep consultant to conscious motherhood mentor, and now toward a deeper focus on self-leadership and multidimensional identity as a late-diagnosed neurodivergent woman. Carly explores the tension between wanting to present polished expertise versus sharing what’s truly alive in the moment. She describes how her mentor challenged her to stop overthinking and start documenting her journey daily—even if it feels messy, imperfect, or self-indulgent. This episode invites listeners to embrace their own evolving identity, trust their inner wisdom, and recognize that the right people will resonate with their story, even if it’s unfinished.

In this raw and unfiltered episode, I'm getting honest about something I've only ever skimmed the surface of before—what it’s really like to navigate motherhood, business, and personal growth while living with late-diagnosed ADHD and autism. If you’ve ever felt like you were “too much” or “not enough”… If you’ve been performing, pleasing, and pushing through, wondering why it’s so damn exhausting… If motherhood has cracked you wide open and left you questioning everything— This episode is for you. -The identity crisis that came with my late autism and ADHD diagnosis -The invisible toll of high-functioning masking—and why so many women miss the signs -How internalized ableism made me afraid to share my truth -Why I'm done performing for comfort and ready to show up unmasked -How motherhood became the portal to awakening, not just struggle Whether you’re a mother, a highly sensitive woman, or a late-realized neurodivergent soul, this episode is a mirror and an invitation—to unlearn, unbecome, and finally come home to yourself. Find me on Instagram

In this masterclass, I’m pulling back the curtain on what’s really making motherhood feel so hard—and it’s not your kids. We’ll dive into the emotional weight we carry, the pressure to be calm all the time, and why traditional parenting strategies just don’t cut it anymore. I’ll introduce you to my Conscious Parenting Matrix, a powerful lens for understanding how your nervous system, subconscious beliefs, and childhood conditioning are all shaping the way you show up. You’ll walk away with practical tools to regulate your nervous system, shift out of reactivity, and start the deeper work of breaking generational cycles. This isn’t about doing more—it’s about becoming more of you. More self-aware. More grounded. More empowered. So you can raise your kids without losing yourself in the process. 03:07 Understanding Parental Frustration and Burnout 15:11 The Conscious Parenting Matrix Explained 20:58 Creating Safety in Your Nervous System 24:12 Practical Tools for Nervous System Regulation 27:06 The Path to Becoming a Cycle-Breaking Mom 32:10 Understanding Subconscious Triggers 39:00 Releasing Old Programming Click here to learn more about Motherhood Alchemy.

In part two of our series on the invisible generational cycles we’re breaking as conscious millennial moms, we explore some of the most profound unconscious patterns we’ve inherited: victim mentality, hustle-as-worth culture, and emotional suppression. These aren’t just buzzwords—they’re baked into the way we move through motherhood, and today’s episode is an invitation to unravel them with compassion, self-responsibility, and power. If you’ve ever caught yourself saying “If only they would listen, I wouldn’t yell,” or rushing around the house like it’s an emergency when it’s not... this one’s for you. 00:00 – Welcome Back + Series Recap Carly introduces this continuation of the generational cycle-breaking conversation and why these invisible patterns matter so much. 01:48 – The Biggest Cycle We’re Breaking: 08:50 –  Moving from Reaction to Response 12:25 – Why the Boomer Generation Struggles with Accountability  15:40 – The Protective Nature of Victim Mentality 17:10 – Hustle, Rush, Productivity: The Cycle of Anxiety  25:15 – Emotional Suppression: The Core Wound We’re Healing From 30:05 – Why Kids Can’t “Control” Their Emotions  33:00 – Your Healing Creates Emotional Safety for Future Generations Download Carly’s Free Cycle Breakers Guidebook to go deeper into your own subconscious healing journey. Follow Carly on IG