In this episode, we explore what happens when you finally meet a good, emotionally available man, but your anxious attachment starts to panic.We talk about why healthy love can feel unsafe when you’re used to chaos, inconsistency, or having to prove your worth in relationships. You’ll learn how to recognize when your nervous system is reacting to safety as unfamiliar, and how to start soothing that part of you that expects love to be hard.This conversation also touches on the difference between genuine connection and emotional intensity, and how to stay grounded when you want to run, overthink, or self-sabotage.Enjoy this episode 🙏🏼.Go Deeper into you Inner Work Journey Join the Becoming Secure women’s membership to learn how to use somatic practices and inner work to heal anxious attachment 🧡30+ guided somatic practices2 live calls a monthIndividualized coaching from Johannalearn more here 💐Mentioned in this episode:DECEMBER IN THE MEMBERSHIP - Protect your Peace 🌹 Think boundaries, clarity, resilience, energy protection. Walk into any room unbothered. Feel loving without getting trampled. Stay grounded even when your family… is being your family. Our call times this month: 📍Live Workshop - 10th December 7:30pm EST 📍Q&A Call - 14th December 12pm EST - Bring your questions, insights and shares. $77 for the month. Start your 7 Day Free Trial. Join Now 👇🏼 https://www.skool.com/healing-anxious-attachment/about