<p>In this episode, Shane shares a personal story that led him to confront one of the most damaging beliefs people have: that their mistakes define their worth. Drawing from real experience, he breaks down why separating behavior from value is not optional, it is foundational. </p><p>This conversation challenges the quiet belief that something is “wrong” with us and explains how that belief drives addiction, conflict, self-sabotage, and disconnection.</p><p> <strong>What You’ll Discover</strong></p><ul><li>Why emotional needs like significance and belonging drive more behavior than willpower</li><li>How shame and self-judgment quietly fuel addiction, conflict, and overcompensation</li><li>The danger of letting your mind default to inadequacy without intentional belief work</li></ul>