Surviving Eight Years of Conversion Therapy
<html><p>When we recorded this episode two weeks ago, we knew that the Supreme Court was planning on releasing a judgment in <em>Chiles </em>v.<em> Salazar</em> — to decide whether Colorado’s law banning conversion therapy (which is similar to laws in 22 other states) likely violated the First Amendment. We thought the decision might come in June. But it fell last week like a hammer, and has the potential to undo years of advocacy to ban treatments that have tried to "ungay" thousands of kids, teens, and adults. </p><p>The judgment is devastating. But it also reminds us that just because a treatment is "legal" doesn't mean it's ethical — or even that it works. (It doesn't!) <a href="https://timothysrodriguez.substack.com/" target="_blank">Timothy Schraeder Rodriguez</a> endured years of conversion therapy, and joins the pod to talk about the real psychological harms it inflicts, and answer all of your excellent questions about how to spot a therapist using low-key conversion tactics, how to make sure kids growing up in high-control anti-gay environments know you're a safe person, and why this therapy persists despite so much evidence that it doesn't work. This is a hard episode — but an important one. </p><p><strong>GREAT NEWS: WE HAVE VERY GOOD EPISODE TRANSCRIPTS NOW! They come out within 24 hours of the pod — just come back and </strong><strong><a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Oh2WsVLRJ4CsM8Vr6R1okMQFAu2fY4es-inJ6vRib-U/edit?usp=sharing" target="_blank">click here</a></strong><strong>. 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