Gen Gomlam explains that our worst mental habit — desirous attachment — is very sneaky. Unlike the pain of anger or jealousy, attachent actually feels good at first. It exaggerates people’s good qualities and hides the bad, creating an illusion of perfection that inevitably leads to pain.
Further reading in the following book:
<a href="https://kadampa.org/book/how-to-understand-the-mind">How to Understand the Mind</a>

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 &lt;p&gt;Gen Gomlam explains that our worst mental habit — desirous attachment — is very sneaky. Unlike the pain of anger or jealousy, attachent actually feels good at first. It exaggerates people’s good qualities and hides the bad, creating an illusion of perfection that inevitably leads to pain.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Further reading in the following book:&lt;/strong&gt;
&lt;a href="https://kadampa.org/book/how-to-understand-the-mind"&gt;How to Understand the Mind&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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                    Gen Gomlam explains that our worst mental habit — desirous attachment — is very sneaky. Unlike the pain of anger or jealousy, attachent actually feels good at first. It exaggerates people’s good qualities and hides the bad, creating an illusion of perfection that inevitably leads to pain.
Further reading in the following book:
How to Understand the Mind
                

Living Clarity

The Real Source Of Loneliness & Pain

The Real Source Of Loneliness & Pain

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