Are you playing not to lose, or are you playing to win? In this powerful episode, we sit down with Alan Lazaros, the founder and CEO of Next Level University, a global top 100 self-improvement podcast reaching listeners in over 175 countries. Alan shares his incredible journey from a challenging childhood marked by loss and family turmoil to becoming a highly successful computer engineer and entrepreneur. We dive deep into the psychology of self-sabotage, the difference between the fear of success and the fear of failure, and the exact system Alan uses to help his clients reverse engineer their biggest dreams. Whether you're an aspiring podcaster looking for the secret to consistency or someone striving to reach your true potential in life, love, health, and wealth, this episode is packed with no-BS, actionable insights. Tune in and get ready to level up.    Join my PodFather Podcast Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.skool.com/podfather/about⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠     Start Your Own SKOOL Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.skool.com/signup?ref=c72a37fe832f49c584d7984db9e54b71⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠     Join our Brain Fitness SKOOL Group ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.skool.com/brainfitness/about⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠     #podcasting #Podcastmarketing #podcastingtips   Join Podmatch ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.joinpodmatch.com/roy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠   What we Discussed:   0:00 Welcome & Introduction 1:30 Alan's Tough Start in Life — losing his birth father at age two and family turmoil 4:34 The Two Trauma Responses — social fawning vs. relentless drive behind the scenes 13:48 The Power of Self-Belief — how vision and high standards build self-efficacy 15:25 Reverse Engineering Your Dreams — Alan's 10-year roadmap system 22:46 The Comfort Zone Between Failure and Success — why we self-sabotage 25:50 Fear of Success vs. Fear of Failure — the two fears holding everyone back 33:09 The Yin and Yang of Business Partnerships — how complementary skill sets win 34:28 The Podcasting Formula — sustainability, consistency, and continuous improvement 41:08 Alan's Ideal Client Quadrant — coachability + work ethic = his people #Podcast #AlanLazaros #NextLevelUniversity #SelfImprovement #PersonalDevelopment #OvercomingAdversity #SuccessMindset #GoalSetting #PodcastTips #Entrepreneurship #Motivation #SelfBelief #FearOfSuccess #Consistency #GrowthMindset What we Discussed: Episode with Alan's Co Host Kevin Palmieri https://www.podfather.me/podcast-coaching-secrets-from-a-top-expert-with-2000-episodes/   How to contact Alan Lazaros: https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/ https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazaros https://www.youtube.com/@NextLevelUniversity https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/   🤝 Join our PodFather Community ✦ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.podfather.me/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ✦ YouTube: / @roycoughlan ✦ Instagram: / podfather.podcast ✦ Facebook: / podfather.me ✦ TikTok: / roycoughlanpodcaster   Find me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://roycoughlan.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bio.link/podcaster⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠     Start your Podcast here ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bestpodcastcoach.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   Podcasters Submit your Tips here ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/9w1NduFbC5jRX2En9⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠     Sign up fo my Affiliates   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bestpodcastcoach.org/affiliate-area/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠     VA Affiliate ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://va.world/affiliate-area/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠     Brain Gym Affiliate⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://braingym.fitness/affiliate-area/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠   Join Podmatch ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.joinpodmatch.com/roy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠