Twin Minds Unwind

In this episode, Dr. Holly Batchelder and Dr. Alison Batchelder discuss the complexities of resentment, its impact on relationships, and practical strategies for healing. They explore the nature of resentment, why we hold onto it, and how it can affect our emotional health. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, setting boundaries, and practicing self-compassion as key steps in overcoming resentment and reclaiming emotional freedom.

Takeaways

• Communication is key to addressing unmet needs and expectations.
• Setting boundaries can prevent feelings of resentment from building up.
• Self-compassion plays a vital role in managing resentment.
• Resentment often stems from perceived injustices and unmet expectations.

• Practicing gratitude can help shift focus away from resentment.
• Resentment can be protective but ultimately hinders emotional growth.
• Healing from resentment is a gradual process that requires intentional effort.

Chapters

00:08 Introduction and Podcast Background

09:12 The Causes of Resentment

14:58 The Impact of Resentment on Relationships

23:35 Strategies for Managing Resentment

Dr. Alison Batchelder

https://www.alisonbatchelderphd.com/

Dr Holly Batchelder

https://www.youtube.com/@dr.hollybatchelder

https://www.hollyphd.com/

-Disclaimer: This podcast provides general information and discusses mental health and related subjects. The content provided in this episode is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast.

In this episode of the Twin Minds Unwind podcast, Dr. Holly Batchelder interviews Dr. Tess Kilwein, a board-certified clinical and sport psychologist. They discuss the growing field of sport psychology, the mental health challenges athletes face, and the importance of self-compassion and mindfulness in performance. Dr. Kilwein shares strategies for managing performance anxiety, balancing personal and professional life, and the need for inclusivity in sport psychology.

Guest Bio

Dr. Kilwein (she/they) is a board-certified, licensed clinical and sport psychologist practicing in California, Colorado, Tennessee, Wyoming, and PSYPACT® states. They provide sport psychology, mental health, and performance services for Vanderbilt University’s student-athletes, teams, and staff through a comprehensive and integrated performance enhancement and mental health consultation service. Dr. Kilwein is also the founder of Unapologetic Psychology, a clinical practice that provides assessment, psychotherapy, consultation, training, and sport and mental performance services with a unique focus on elite performing, transgender and gender-expansive, and rural populations. They are a Certified Mental Performance Consultant and a member of the United States Olympic & Paralympic Committee Mental Health Registry, the Canada Olympic and Paralympic Mental Health Network, and the Major League Baseball Players Association Mental Health and Wellness Network. Dr. Kilwein’s clinical specializations include trauma/PTSD, substance use/addiction, masculinity, sex and relationships, transgender and gender-expansive healthcare, and sport and performance psychology. They are also an elected member of the American Psychological Association’s Committee for Rural Health and active in research and advocacy related to identity-based marginalization and health-compromising behaviors (e.g., substance use, sexual behaviors).

Takeaways

• Sport psychology is a growing field that impacts many.
• Athletes face unique mental health challenges, including performance anxiety.
• Self-compassion is crucial for athletes to perform at their best.
• Mindfulness and visualization are effective strategies for managing anxiety.
• Balancing personal life and performance is a common struggle for athletes.
• Cultural pressures in sports reflect broader societal issues.

• Inclusivity in sport psychology is essential for all athletes.

• Developing mental strength requires active practice and habit-building.

Dr. Tess Kilwein

https://www.tessmkilweinllc.com/

https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticpsychpllc/

Dr Holly Batchelder

https://www.youtube.com/@dr.hollybatchelder

https://www.instagram.com/holly.phd/?hl=en-Disclaimer: This podcast provides general information and discusses mental health and related subjects. The content provided in this episode is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast.

Join Holly Batchelder as she interviews registered dietitian Evelina Miropolsky, owner of Posy Nutrition, for a deep dive into intuitive eating, Health at Every Size, and healing your relationship with food. Evelina shares her journey from psychology to nutrition, discusses the challenges clients face navigating diet culture, and reveals how shame and societal pressure impact our relationship with food. Whether you’re curious about intuitive eating, struggling with disordered eating, or want to better understand how to foster a compassionate approach to wellness, this episode is packed with insights and actionable takeaways.Guest BioEvelina Miropolsky, MS, RDN, CD is a registered dietitian and owner of Posy Nutrition LLC based in Seattle, Washington. She practices from non-diet, Intuitive Eating, and Health at Every Size frameworks. She is most passionate about working with her clients to challenge beliefs around nutrition and health that have held them back from discovering freedom, pleasure, and connection to food. A seasoned yoga instructor, Evelina also offers classes virtually and in-person. Her summer happy place is swimming in a lake and her winter happy place is curled up in her reading nook with her cat Frankie, a latte, and a book.EvelinaWebsite: ⁠https://www.posynutrition.com/Holly⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.hollyphd.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠-Disclaimer: This podcast provides general information and discusses mental health and related subjects. The content provided in this episode is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast.

In this conversation, Dr. Suzanne Mungalez, aka Dr Zann, a perinatal mental health expert, shares her insights on the challenges faced by people during the perinatal period, the importance of seeking help, and the impact of personal experiences on professional practice. The discussion highlights the stigma surrounding mental health, the significance of sleep, and the need for community support. Dr. Zann emphasizes the importance of education and advocacy in improving mental health outcomes for new parents, particularly in marginalized communities.

Keywords: 

perinatal mental health, postpartum depression, maternal mental health, doula support, mental health stigma, sleep and mental health, birth trauma, cultural influences, seeking help, community support

takeaways

Perinatal mental health is deeply influenced by personal experiences.

Many women feel isolated during the perinatal period, leading to shame and anxiety.

Seeking help is often stigmatized, especially in certain communities.

Education about mental health can empower individuals to seek support.

Sleep deprivation significantly impacts mental health during the postpartum period.

Community support is essential for new parents to thrive.

Cultural and systemic issues play a significant role in maternal mental health.

Healing should be viewed as a rite of passage, not suffering.

It's important to validate the feelings of those experiencing perinatal challenges.

Advocating for oneself and seeking help is crucial for mental well-being.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Perinatal Mental Health

02:35 The Impact of Personal Experience on Professional Practice

05:38 Addressing Loneliness and Shame in New Parenthood

08:06 Navigating Cultural Expectations and Seeking Help

10:55 The Importance of Sleep in Maternal Mental Health

13:22 Overcoming Barriers to Asking for Help

16:14 Experiencing Fear and Anxiety During Pregnancy

19:03 The Intersection of Mental Health and Systemic Issues

21:39 Healing as a Rite of Passage

24:17 Validating Experiences and Systemic Challenges

27:01 Conclusion and Resources for Support

About Dr Zann

Dr. Suzanne Mungalez, known by her clients as Dr. Zann, is a licensed clinical psychologist in California, a certified perinatal mental health clinician (PMH-C), a childbirth educator, a certified lactation education specialist (CLES), and a trained doula. She is Black, Congolese-American, queer, and a gender-expansive woman (she/they) who is also a mother. Dr. Zann’s diverse personal experiences deeply inform her clinical approach and the way she holds space for her clients.

In her own words, she describes herself as "tender with people, tough on systems, and relentlessly committed to our collective liberation."

Dr Suzanne Mungalez 

Website: ⁠https://www.itsthemamaspace.com/

Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/its.themamaspace

Dr Holly Batchelder

⁠www.instagram.com/holly.phd/⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.hollyphd.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Disclaimer: This podcast provides general information and discusses mental health and related subjects. The content provided in this episode is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast.