I SWEAR I'M REAL: Recovery-Based Discussion on the Transgender/Noncisgender Experience

In this raw and unflinching episode, we unpack the connections between trauma, manipulation, and political allegiance. We explore how patterns of control, gaslighting, and coercion—hallmarks of domestic abuse—can mirror the dynamics within extreme political movements. This episode is for anyone trying to understand the deep psychological hooks that keep people trapped in harmful systems, even when they don’t realize it. Expect honest conversations, critical reflections, and tools for recognizing trauma where it hides.Shout out @OutFrontMagazine for their support and partnership! www.outfrontmagazine.com

When co-parenting doesn't just break down but communication with your child’s other parent is impossible due to tactics of coercive control and narcissistic abuse, the challenges are amplified—especially for parents supporting transgender children. In this episode, we explore practical strategies for maintaining stability, advocating for your child, and moving forward. Drawing on the insights of Dr. Ramani, a leading expert on narcissistic abuse, we discuss setting boundaries, managing emotional triggers, and navigating the unique complexities of identity, affirmation, and safety in families with transgender children. This episode offers compassionate guidance and real-world tools for resilience, recovery, clarity, and protecting both your well-being and your child’s.More on Alex's story: Holding Trans Hope Through Family CourtSupported and Partnered with Out Front Magazine

Valentina E. Mendoza, or Vale (VAH-Leh), is a Chicana, trans, neurodiverse attorney and grassroots candidate running for Congress in New Jersey’s 7th District. A former Wall Street lawyer who “traded in her white shoes” to build her own scrappy law practice, Vale fights for working people, economic mobility, and marginalized communities. Her campaign is rooted in economic justice, transparency, and joy, with a vision of tearing down systemic barriers and making sure everyone has a seat at the table.Find Vale Mendoza and more about her on Instagram and TikTok Donate to Vale's campaign: https://secure.actblue.com/donate/valentina-mendoza-1

The harm is in plain sight for trans youth. So is the CARE. HEAD, HEART, HANDS, HEALING....the only way out is all the way through.

Meet E.L. (He/Him/His) E.L. is a community leader, father, husband, minister and columnist for Blaque/Out Magazine. Find link to Blaque/Out Magazine here! "Blaque/OUT Consulting is Diversity, Equity & Inclusion Consulting for Non-Profit, Business & Academic institutions nationwide. Audit, Design, Education & implementation services with a focus on Intersectionality. Visit the Blaque/OUT Consulting page to learn more!" E.L. transitioned "later" in life, as some of us say about ourselves. When it felt right, when it was time, when HE was ready to share that part of him. Being trans is only one part of someone's existence...and E.L. is extraordinary. Tune in to hear about E.L.'s experiences as man in our country right now. LISTEN NOW! Connect with E.L. on Facebook Interested in sponsoring I Swear I'm Real? Email inquiries to: [email protected]