SHE MD
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SHE MD is a weekly podcast hosted by world-renowned OBGYN, Dr. Thais Aliabadi, “Dr. A,” and women's advocate and influencer, Mary Alice Haney. Their candid conversations with celebrity guests and today's leading experts about women's health topics, such as menopause, endometriosis, PCOS, and fertility empower their audience with the knowledge and tools to become their own health advocates.Dr. A and Mary Alice dive deep into critical health issues, offering women the knowledge and tools to become their best health advocates.At SHE MD, we believe that every woman deserves access to the latest medical insights, personalized care strategies, and expert advice to navigate their health journey. From breaking down myths to providing practical tips, Dr. Aliabadi and Mary Alice Haney create a welcoming and informative space for women to take control of their health. The podcast features exclusive interviews with top-tier celebrity guests and leading experts across the medical, wellness, and health industries. Together, they explore real-world stories, struggles, and successes to ensure that every listener can feel heard and supported.SHE MD aims to change that by providing a platform where women can receive trustworthy, expert advice on key health issues affecting their lives. Whether you’re dealing with painful menstrual cycles, navigating fertility challenges, or going through menopause, SHE MD brings clarity to these topics in a way that feels personal, approachable, and actionable. Dr. Thais Aliabadi provides expert insights into the most pressing women’s health issues, offering listeners a chance to learn from one of the leading voices in the field. Her knowledge is complemented by Mary Alice Haney's ability to relate to everyday challenges, offering a compassionate and approachable perspective on complex topics.Meet the HostsDr. Thais Aliabadi, "Dr. A"Dr. Thais Aliabadi is a renowned board-certified OBGYN, known for her compassionate, patient-first approach. Specializing in fertility, high-risk pregnancies, menopause, and minimally invasive surgeries, Dr. A has spent her career guiding women through all stages of life. With experience treating high-profile patients and a commitment to public health education, she’s a trusted voice advocating for better healthcare access for women globally. Dr. Aliabadi frequently appears in major media to discuss key women’s health issues.Mary Alice HaneyMary Alice Haney is a prominent women's advocate and lifestyle influencer who empowers women to take control of their health and wellness. With a background in fashion and lifestyle, she brings a holistic approach to well-being. As co-host of SHE MD, Mary Alice fosters open, relatable conversations on often-overlooked women's health topics, helping women break down barriers and gain the knowledge they need to advocate for themselves. Her commitment to providing practical, actionable advice has made her a trusted figure in the health community.ResourcesSHE M/D- https://www.shemdpodcast.comSHE M/D YouTube- https://www.youtube.com/@SHEMDPodcastInstagram- https://www.instagram.com/shemdpodcast/Mary Alice Haney Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/haneyofficial/Dr A Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/drthaisaliabadi/Tik Tok- https://www.tiktok.com/@shemdpodcastFacebook- https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556530329981&sk=aboutTwitter- https://x.com/shemdpodcast#SHEMDPodcast #WomensHealth #HealthAdvocacy #DrThaisAliabadi #MaryAliceHaney #MenopauseMatters #EndometriosisAwareness #PCOS #FertilityJourney #OBGYN #HealthAndWellness #MedicalInsights #HealthEducation #EmpoweringWomen #HealthcareSelfAdvocacy #HealthTips #BreakingHealthMyths #WomenSupportingWomen #HealthJourney

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Aging Is Natural, Declining Is Not: The Algae Science Most Doctors Miss
MAY 7, 2026
Aging Is Natural, Declining Is Not: The Algae Science Most Doctors Miss
She's 70 years old, holds a PhD she earned in her late 60s, and looks like she cracked the code on aging. But Dr. Catharine Arnston isn't selling a beauty secret she's sharing 17 years of research into two of the most scientifically documented superfoods on Earth: spirulina and chlorella. In this episode of SHE MD, Mary Alice Haney and Dr. Aliabadi sit down with Dr. Catharine Arnston, Chief Scientific Officer of ENERGYbits, for one of the most eye-opening conversations we've had on this show. It started with her sister's breast cancer diagnosis and a pivot away from a 25-year corporate career. What she found in the research changed everything she thought she knew about energy, brain health, aging, and women's bodies. This isn't wellness fluff. There are over 100,000 peer-reviewed studies on these two algae. NASA has been feeding them to astronauts for 50 years. The United Nations endorsed spirulina as the answer to world hunger. And yet most women in the Western world have never heard of them. Learn More Here: https://energybits.com/discount/SHEMD?rfsn=9096638.6abd9cc1&utm_source=refersion&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=9096638.6abd9cc1 What You'll LearnWhy algae was the first life on Earth and why that matters for your bodyThe difference between macroalgae (seaweed, kelp) and microalgae (spirulina, chlorella)How spirulina creates cellular energy without the crash of caffeine or sugarWhat phycocyanin is and how this blue pigment behaves differently in healthy versus unhealthy cellsWhy mitochondria decline with age and how to protect them with nutritionThe role of superoxide dismutase (SOD) and why your body stops making it after age 30Why menopause damages women's mitochondria twice as fast as men'sHow chlorella detoxes heavy metals, glyphosate, aluminum, and other environmental toxinsWhy chlorella is essential for anyone on a GLP-1 or any weight loss journeyHow chlorella naturally supports serotonin, melatonin, sleep, and bowel motilityThe right dosage of each algae by age, condition, and time of dayWhy high heat in processing kills the benefits of most algae on the marketThe truth about excess stored iron, inflammation, and "rusting from the inside" after menopauseHow ENERGYbits are sourced in Taiwan in triple-filtered mountain spring waterHow to use algae for weight loss, sleep, brain fog, skin health, and longevity Key Timestamps00:00 Welcome Dr. Catharine Arnston & Why Algae Matters00:25 Catharine's Sister, Cancer, and the Origin of ENERGYbits01:49 Plant-Based Nutrition and the Otto Warburg Discovery02:46 Why People Don't Eat Vegetables (and What to Do About It)03:28 Why No One Knows About Algae Despite 100,000 Studies04:19 Why NASA Feeds Algae to Astronauts04:43 Algae Is Food, Not a Supplement06:45 "Aging Is Natural, Declining Is Not"07:08 Macroalgae vs. Microalgae Explained08:24 Why Lake & Ocean Algae Can Be Toxic09:27 Spirulina: Energy at the Cellular Level10:22 Why Algae Protein Beats Animal Protein10:49 Dosage 101: When and How Much to Take12:13 Phycocyanin: The Blue Pigment That Targets Unhealthy Cells14:34 The Electron Transport Chain & ATP (The "Ferrari" Analogy)15:48 Aging, Mitochondria & Cellular Decline16:13 Superoxide Dismutase (SOD): The Hidden Antioxidant17:53 Why Menopause Hits Women's Mitochondria Twice as Hard19:38 Brain Fog, Depression & Damaged Mitochondria20:37 Mary Alice's Family History & The Case for Prevention22:10 How Fast You'll Feel It & Mitochondrial DNA Regeneration23:16 Anti-Angiogenesis & Stopping Tumor Blood Supply24:10 Chlorella: The Body's Tow Truck for Toxins27:45 Chlorophyll, Hemoglobin & Building Your Blood28:35 Glutathione, Liver Health & Tryptophan29:03 Chlorella, Serotonin & Mood29:34 Chlorella for Bowel Motility30:25 The Athlete Protocol (NHL & NFL Dosing)31:12 Sleep, Melatonin & Why Chlorella Works at Night32:54 Chlorella for Chemotherapy Recovery36:01 Pricing, Daily Cost & the Discount Code36:45 Important: Talk to Your Oncologist Before Combining38:17 Algae for Weight Loss & GLP-1 Support40:32 Safety, Sourcing & Why ENERGYbits Are Grown in Taiwan42:20 Catharine's Trip to Taiwan & Why It Matters43:31 Excess Iron, Menopause & "Rusting From the Inside"46:07 Final Thoughts & Why Consistency Wins47:32 Absorption, Exosomes & Why Algae Works So Fast48:39 Dosage for Kids, Husbands & Pets49:41 Beauty Bits: The Pink Spirulina for Skin & Hair51:07 Mary Alice Starts Her Algae Journey Key TakeawaysAging is natural, declining is notAlgae is food, not a supplement, so your body recognizes and absorbs it instantlySpirulina nourishes & energizes, chlorella detoxes & repairsYou need both algaes for different reasons, especially after 40Most brain issues trace back to damaged mitochondriaWomen lose antioxidant and hormone protection twice as fast as men in menopauseThe right dosage matters more than the right ingredientConsistency beats intensity, your body is not a light switchMost supplements are artificial, your body wastes up to 90% of themToxins live in your fat, so detoxing is part of any weight loss journeyThe science exists, the connection between scientists and women is what's missingMother Nature provided answers long before pharmaceutical companies didWhat you can't see at the cellular level is often what's hurting you most Guest Bio Dr. Catharine Arnston is the founder and Chief Scientific Officer of ENERGYbits, the medical-grade algae company she launched 17 years ago after pivoting from a 25-year international corporate career to research plant-based nutrition for her sister, who had been diagnosed with breast cancer. Her research led her to spirulina and chlorella, two microalgae backed by more than 100,000 scientific studies, and to a mission of bringing clean, hand-sourced algae nutrition to women, families, and elite athletes around the world. Catharine earned her health coaching certificate from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition and went on to complete her PhD in her late 60s, becoming one of the most credentialed and outspoken advocates for algae nutrition in the world. Her upcoming book, Love Your Health to Bits with Algae, set for an October release, distills 17 years of research into accessible, "science with sarcasm" guidance for the everyday reader. Catharine lives by the philosophy that "aging is natural, declining is not" and is on a mission to make algae as common in the Western world as it has been in Asia for the past 60 years. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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52 MIN
Kris Jenner Opens Up About Motherhood, Hysterectomy Decision, & Building a Family Empire
MAY 5, 2026
Kris Jenner Opens Up About Motherhood, Hysterectomy Decision, & Building a Family Empire
In this special Mother’s Day episode of SHE MD, Kris Jenner sits down for a raw, emotional, and deeply insightful conversation about motherhood, resilience, and building a life you’re proud of. From raising six children to navigating divorce and launching a global empire at 52, Kris shares the real story behind the woman the world thinks it knows. The conversation dives into everything from her highly publicized hysterectomy and approach to proactive health, to how she built an unbreakable bond with her children. She opens up about the hardest moments of her life, how she pushed through them, and why surrounding yourself with strong women is one of the most important decisions you can make. This episode is ultimately about perspective: motherhood as a lifelong journey, success as something you build step by step, and the reminder that it’s never too late to start over. Whether you're a new mom, navigating a tough season, or redefining your purpose, Kris shares the mindset shifts that helped her turn challenges into opportunities and create a life filled with meaning, connection, and joy. Subscribe to SHE MD Podcast for expert tips on PCOS, endometriosis, fertility, hormonal balance, mental health, and more. Share with friends and visit SHE MD website and Ovii for research-backed resources, holistic health strategies, and expert guidance on women’s health and well-being. Sponsorships: Transcendental Meditation: Release stress at the root with a natural, effortless technique practiced 20 minutes twice a day. Visit tm.org to find a certified teacher near you and learn more about getting started. Babbel: Make fast, lasting progress on a new language with a science-backed app designed by over 200 language experts. Get up to 55% off your Babbel subscription at Babbel.com/SHEMD. Rules and restrictions may apply. 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What You’ll LearnHow Kris approached her hysterectomy decision and why proactive health mattersThe difference between hysterectomy vs. ovary removal (and why it matters)How to navigate fear and uncertainty when it comes to your healthWhy financial independence and awareness are essential for womenHow to rebuild your life after divorce or a major life shiftThe mindset that helped Kris go from overwhelmed mom → global businesswomanHow to raise confident, ambitious, and emotionally connected childrenWhy being “friends” with your kids can actually strengthen your relationshipHow to balance motherhood and career (without sacrificing connection)The importance of female friendships and building a support systemWhy your 50s (and beyond) can be your most powerful eraHow to handle chaos, stress, and “fires” as a parentThe role of routine, discipline, and energy management in success Key Timestamps 0:00 Introduction to SHE MD 02:58 Introducing Kris Jenner — "America's Mother" 07:57 Kris's Hysterectomy Story 09:08 Why Postmenopausal Ovarian Cysts Matter 11:39 Hysterectomy vs. Salpingo-Oophorectomy Explained 13:25 Becoming a Mom (Six Times Over) 16:48 From Stay-at-Home Mom to Working Mom 19:28 Learning Financial Literacy After Divorce 27:25 Confidence, Grandma's Candle Store & a Donut Shop 30:20 Raising Strong Daughters by Example 32:10 Pivotal Moments, Faith & "Show Me Who Your Friends Are" 36:32 The Decision to Bring Cameras Into Their Lives 39:36 The Stripper Pole Heard 'Round the World 43:14 Turning Lemons Into Lemonade 46:29 Kris's 4:30 AM Morning Routine 55:00 The LA Fires: What She'd Grab From Her Closet 57:12 Working With Family — No Boundaries, Just Love 1:05:21 Advice for Moms Who Are Struggling 1:11:13 It's Never Too Late 1:13:31 Rapid Fire: The Daughters 1:15:24 Khloé's Sneaky Side & Big Heart 1:17:10 Facelifts, Peptides, Hormones & Supplements 1:20:25 Strength Training, Pilates & Walking 1:21:30 Non-Negotiables for Health: Get the Scan 1:23:22 Protecting Mental Health & Brain Health 1:25:32 A Mother's Day Message Key TakeawaysEverything in life builds & no experience is wastedYou can start over at any age (Kris started her show at 52)Motherhood is not a phase, it’s a lifelong relationshipYour kids learn more from what you do than what you sayAdversity is inevitable & resilience is a skill you buildKeep your circle small, but meaningful and supportiveStrong female friendships are a lifelong lifelineIt’s okay to feel overwhelmed, those moments passPreparation (financial, emotional, physical) creates freedomSuccess comes from consistency, not perfectionHealth is non-negotiable. Don’t ignore warning signs!Loving yourself makes you a better parent Guest Bio Kris Jenner is a globally recognized businesswoman, producer, and media personality best known for building one of the most influential families and brands in modern pop culture. As the manager behind her children’s multi-billion-dollar ventures, Kris has redefined what it means to be both a mother and an entrepreneur. Kris turned a family reality show into a global empire, becoming a pioneer in personal branding, media, and business strategy. Beyond her professional success, she is a devoted mother of six and grandmother of thirteen, known for her unwavering commitment to family, resilience through adversity, and ability to lead with both strength and heart See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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89 MIN
What It Really Takes to Succeed in Today’s World ft. Emma Grede
APR 28, 2026
What It Really Takes to Succeed in Today’s World ft. Emma Grede
In this episode of SHE MD, we sit down with entrepreneur and founder Emma Grede to unpack what it really takes to build success from the ground up. From growing up in East London to co-founding billion-dollar brands, Emma shares the unfiltered truth about ambition, confidence, and what actually creates success. We talk about the myths holding women back… from work-life balance pressure to money mindset, imposter syndrome, and the idea that you have to “feel ready” before you start. Emma breaks down why confidence isn’t something you wait for, it’s something you build through action, failure, and repetition. She also shares how motherhood, leadership, and building businesses all collide in real life, not the curated version we see online. Subscribe to SHE MD Podcast for expert tips on PCOS, endometriosis, fertility, hormonal balance, mental health, and more. Share with friends and visit SHE MD website and Ovii for research-backed resources, holistic health strategies, and expert guidance on women’s health and well-being. Sponsors Peloton: Let yourself run, lift, sculpt, push and GO. Explore the new Peloton Cross Training Tread+ at onepeloton.com  David: Buy 4 cartons of Protein Bars and get the 5th free when you go to davidprotein.com/SHEMD.  Kachava: Treat yourself to the flavor and nutrition your body craves. Go to kachava.com and use code SKINNY for 15% off your first order. Use code SHE MD at checkout.  Prolon: For a limited time, Prolon is offering She MD listeners 15% off sitewide plus a $40 bonus gift when you subscribe to their 5-Day Program! Cotton: Learn more at TheFabricOfOurLives.com, and follow @discovercotton with the hashtag #ShopCotton. Sera: To learn more you can visit PreTRM.com talk with your provider about whether the PreTRM Test might be right for you. What You’ll LearnWhy confidence is built after you take action, not beforeThe real reason most people stay stuck (and how to break out of it)Why “work-life balance” might be holding you backThe mindset shift that helped Emma Grede build billion-dollar brandsHow to stop overthinking and start making real progressWhat actually matters when building a successful career in today’s worldThe truth about manifestation (and what works instead)How to develop resilience through failure, not avoid itWhat young professionals should focus on in the age of AIWhy your relationship with money can determine your future Key Timestamps 0:00 Introduction to SHE MD 02:08 Meet Emma Grede 02:31 Career, Motherhood and Reinvention 04:08 Growing Up Without Traditional Path 06:28 Finding Confidence at a Young Age 08:19 Confidence Comes From Taking Action 10:43 Manifestation vs Putting in Real Work 12:26 Thinking in Long-Term 10 Year Goals 13:19 Taking Ownership of Your Success 14:44 Managing Emotions and Fear in Business 20:42 The Journey to Building Good American 22:29 Spotting Opportunities Others Don’t See 23:37 When Selling Out Becomes a Problem 25:18 Fixing Mistakes and Listening Customers 26:43 How AI Is Changing Work Today 28:20 Skills That Matter More Than Ever 30:55 Why Women Need Better Money Mindset 42:47 The Failure That Changed Everything 49:25 What’s Next for Emma Grede Key TakeawaysSuccess comes from repetition, failure, and learning. Not perfection!Most fear is self-created and doesn’t reflect realityAmbition without action leads nowhere. Execution is everything!Curiosity and adaptability are more valuable than expertise todayBuilding a strong reputation creates opportunities money can’t buyCommunity and connection are powerful drivers of business successThe biggest breakthroughs happen when you get out of your own way Guest Bio Emma Grede is an entrepreneur, investor, and business leader known for building and scaling globally recognized brands across fashion and consumer goods. Raised in East London and largely self-made, she began working at a young age and built her career from the ground up, eventually launching multiple successful companies and achieving several exits before the age of 31. She is the co-founder and CEO of Good American and a founding partner of SKIMS, with a track record rooted in understanding customers, building community, and executing at a high level. A mother of four, Emma is known for her candid perspective on ambition, leadership, and modern work, and continues to champion a practical, action-driven approach to success. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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53 MIN
The Real Reason You’re Bloated, Tired, & Anxious (It Starts in Your Gut!)
APR 21, 2026
The Real Reason You’re Bloated, Tired, & Anxious (It Starts in Your Gut!)
If you’re constantly bloated, tired, or struggling with hormone imbalances, your gut might be the missing piece. In this episode of SHE MD, we sit down with double board-certified physician Dr. Amy Shah to break down the powerful connection between gut health, hormones, metabolism, and brain function, and why so many women are overlooking it. From IBS and SIBO to PCOS and endometriosis, this conversation reveals how inflammation and gut imbalance can silently drive so many common symptoms. Dr. Shah shares her simple, science-backed “30-30-3” framework (30g of protein at your first meal, 30g of fiber daily, and 3 probiotic foods) to help you rebuild your microbiome and feel better fast. We also dive into the truth about probiotics, why fiber is essential (and why most people aren’t getting enough), and how everyday habits like sleep, sunlight, and movement can dramatically improve your gut health. Plus, we cover magnesium for stress and sleep, the role of antibiotics, how to approach SIBO and elimination diets, and the easiest (and most overlooked) ways to support your brain and body long-term. If you’ve been feeling off and can’t figure out why, this episode will give you actionable steps to start healing from the inside out. Subscribe to SHE MD Podcast for expert tips on PCOS, endometriosis, fertility, hormonal balance, mental health, and more. Share with friends and visit SHE MD website and Ovii for research-backed resources, holistic health strategies, and expert guidance on women’s health and well-being. Sponsors Midi: Ready to feel your best and write your second act script? Visit JoinMidi.com today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit.  Talkiatry: Head to Talkiatry.com/shemd and complete the short assessment to get matched with an in-network psychiatrist in just a few minutes.  Premier Protein: Find your favorite flavor at PremierProtein.com or at Amazon, Walmart, and other major retailers. Myriad: List GetMyRisk.com to learn more about hereditary cancer testing and how you can use Myriad’s virtual care option for fast, at-home testing - no office visit required.  UnF*ck Your Brain: Listen to UnF*ck Your Brain wherever you get your podcasts.  What You’ll LearnThe gut-hormone connection (and why it affects everything)Dr. Shah’s “30-30-3” method for better healthWhy 95% of people aren’t eating enough fiberThe difference between probiotics and prebioticsHow antibiotics impact your gut microbiomeSigns of SIBO and gut imbalanceHow gut health affects mood, anxiety, and brain functionThe best foods to support your microbiomeWhy walking is one of the best things you can do for your brainHow magnesium supports sleep, stress, and hormone health Key Timestamps (0:00) Introduction to SHE MD (2:19) Welcome, Dr. Amy Shah! (6:23) Why Gut Health Matters (9:02) Best High-Fiber Foods (10:37) The 30-30-3 Rule Explained (16:52) Apple Cider Vinegar Benefits (22:00) Prebiotics vs Probiotics (24:19) SIBO, Hormones & Gut Inflammation Explained (30:07) Gut Health & Antibiotics Impact (36:00) Organic vs Non-Organic Foods (40:50) Magnesium Benefits, Foods, Supplements & Sleep Support (45:19) Walking for Brain Health (46:39) Top 5 Health Habits for Women (47:52) Top 5 Foods (49:27) Where to Find Dr. Amy Shah Key TakeawaysGut health is directly tied to hormones, metabolism, and brain healthFiber is essential and most people are severely deficientYou can’t out-supplement a poor diet (food first always wins)Probiotics alone won’t fix your gut—lifestyle matters moreInflammation is the root cause linking many chronic conditionsStart small… Gradually increase fiber to avoid digestive issuesExercise, sleep, and sunlight are just as important as nutritionSimple daily habits can dramatically shift your health in daysHealing your gut often improves symptoms you didn’t realize were connected Guest Bio Dr. Amy Shah is a double board-certified physician in allergy, immunology, and internal medicine, trained at Cornell, Columbia, and Harvard. She is a leading voice in gut health, nutrition, and women’s wellness, known for translating complex science into practical, everyday strategies. After experiencing her own health struggles, she shifted her focus to lifestyle medicine and has since helped millions optimize their energy, metabolism, and hormones through diet and simple daily habits. She is also the bestselling author of I’m So Effing Tired and I’m So Effing Hungry. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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51 MIN
Narcissism vs Borderline: The Signs Everyone Gets Wrong with Dr. Suzanne Wallach
APR 14, 2026
Narcissism vs Borderline: The Signs Everyone Gets Wrong with Dr. Suzanne Wallach
Disclaimer: This interview includes in-depth discussions of serious mental health topics, such as personality disorders and other highly sensitive subjects. These topics may be distressing or triggering for some listeners. In this episode of SHE MD, Mary Alice Haney and Dr. Thaïs Aliabadi sit down with Dr. Suzanne Wallach, a leading expert in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), to unpack what every woman should understand about emotional regulation, trauma, and personality disorders. From the difference between borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, and narcissism to the real signs of emotional dysregulation, this conversation brings clarity to topics that are often misunderstood and misdiagnosed. Dr. Wallach breaks down how trauma shapes behavior, why narcissists rarely seek help, and what narcissistic abuse and gaslighting actually look like in relationships. The conversation also explores how to recognize unhealthy patterns, why you should never stay in a relationship where you’re being disrespected, and how emotional overwhelm impacts your ability to think clearly or problem-solve in the moment. You’ll also learn practical, science-backed tools you can start using immediately, including DBT techniques like the TIPP method for panic attacks and emotional distress. The episode expands into parenting and generational trauma, offering insight on how to raise emotionally healthy children through validation, boundaries, and consistency. If you’ve ever struggled with your emotions, relationships, or mental health, this episode is filled with actionable strategies to help you regain control and build a more stable, grounded life. Subscribe to SHE MD Podcast for expert tips on PCOS, endometriosis, fertility, hormonal balance, mental health, and more. Share with friends and visit SHE MD website and Ovii for research-backed resources, holistic health strategies, and expert guidance on women’s health and well-being. Sponsors Midi: Ready to feel your best and write your second act script? Visit JoinMidi.com today to book your personalized, insurance-covered virtual visit.  Ka'Chava: Get 15% off your first order at kachava.com with code SHEMD. Talkiatry: Head to Talkiatry.com/shemd and complete the short assessment to get matched with an in-network psychiatrist in just a few minutes.  Ancient + Brave: Go to Ancientandbrave.com/planet and use the code SHEMD for 10 dollars off any purchase.  MudWtr: Head to mudwtr.com and grab your starter kit today! Right now, our listeners get an exclusive deal—up to 43% off starter kits, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code SHEMD. Gusto: Try Gusto today at gusto.com/SHEMD, and get three months free when you run your first payroll. What You’ll LearnThe difference between borderline personality disorder (BPD), bipolar disorder, and narcissismWhy narcissists rarely self-diagnose, and why they’re difficult to treatSigns you may be experiencing emotional dysregulation or unresolved traumaWhat narcissistic abuse and gaslighting actually look likeWhy BPD is often misdiagnosed as bipolar disorderThe role of childhood trauma in personality disordersHow to tell if someone is a narcissist. or just not treating you wellWhy you should never stay in a relationship where you’re being disrespectedThe DBT “TIPP” method for panic attacks and emotional overwhelmHow to lower distress quickly and regain control of your thoughtsWhy you can’t problem-solve while emotionally floodedThe importance of sleep, nutrition, and physical health in emotional regulationHow to raise emotionally healthy children without shame or overpraiseWhy validation and boundaries must coexist in parentingHow generational trauma develops, and how to break the cycle Key Timestamps (0:00) Introduction to SHE MD (3:16) Welcome Dr. Suzanne Wallach! (4:54) What Is Narcissism? (6:36) Is Narcissism Based On Childhood Trauma? (8:27) Borderline Personality Disorder vs Narcissism? (12:41) Borderline vs Dependent Personality Disorder (13:37) Cluster B Disorders: Higher Risk of Self-Harm & Suicide (14:05) Women Are Overdiagnosed With Personality Disorders (15:58) Many Therapists Avoid Treating Borderline Personality Disorder (22:15) DBT Skills Coaching: 24/7 Support in Crisis Moments (23:36) Thoughts vs Ideation (27:00) How Dr. Suzanne Handle Patients With Suicide Plans (30:29) Does Trauma Come First in Treating Cluster B Disorders (37:35) How to Avoid Raising a Narcissist as a Parent (38:20) Praise Parenting: Where’s the Healthy Balance? (42:24) Opposite Parenting Styles After Divorce (48:01) Should Trauma Be the First Focus in Treating DBT? (58:54) How to Recognize BPD or Narcissism: Key Signs & Diagnosis (1:02:44) What Is Bipolar Disorder? (1:04:40) Bipolar vs BPD: Genetics vs Trauma (1:05:05) The TIPP Skill (1:13:45) Rapid Fire Questions Key TakeawaysYou can’t think clearly during emotional distress. Regulation must come firstPersonality disorders are treatable, and many can go into remissionTrauma often drives behavior, but it doesn’t excuse staying in harmful situationsEmotional regulation is a skill that can be learned with the right toolsBoundaries are essential, even when you understand someone’s painParenting requires both emotional validation and consistent consequencesSmall daily tools (like breathing or cold exposure) can dramatically reduce anxiety Guest Bio Dr. Suzanne Wallach is a clinical psychologist and DBT specialist based in Los Angeles. She is the founder of SoCal DBT, where she and her team provide high-fidelity, evidence-based Dialectical Behavior Therapy for individuals, couples, and families. Her work focuses on helping patients regulate emotions, heal from trauma, and build healthier relationships through practical, science-backed tools. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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76 MIN